31/01/13
Day Game

Energy levels low today. Tired from club, and bit heart broken. This is going to be the toughest sarge of my life. I meet Jackal, we’re in a different place this time. Jackal buys me a cup of tea – the caffeine boost and inner warmth couldn’t have been more appropriate! Jackal opens a large group, gets a free cig, and has them in stiches of laughter. My energy levels were totally low, so he had to direct me over. He tells me to get their opinions on the girl situation. I actually enjoyed talking to this set! Was fun. Jackal totally brought my energy levels up. Jackal then has me open the most beautiful girl with red hair…I go over, open, stop her, chat and attempt to close. She’s really receptive to my compliments. She’s studying fine art, and I tell her I’d like to take her to a gallery sometime. She’s a 6’1 model. I ask for the number.

Girl: I’ve got a boyfriend sweetie! (smiling, but said very sincerly)
R: Well he’s a lucky guy. Nice to meet you, have a good day.
(we hug)

Damn, this girl was hot! I had her going, and because she told me she had a boyfriend in the manner in which she did – I respected it. I could tell she had a boyfriend, her tone had that semblance of regret and comfort. She was very friendly though, should have taken her facebook. Ah well.

Open another set, she’s walking to work so couldn’t get her to stop, but she was cool lol. She was kinda unattractive from the front. Good body though. Whatever.

Open a two set of Estonian girls. Have a cool conversation with them, they were job hunting, we talk about the city, about the snow, and I get them both giving me IOIs. One gives me much stronger IOIs, but I close the other one cause I found her more attractive. Silly newbie mistake as they’re more likely to flake. Get a number close anyway so energy levels are recovering. Say I’m gonna take her out for coffee. Not gonna happen lol. I will practice my text game on her, and try and fuck her. Gotta lose that V. I bid them a good day and wish them luck in job hunting, give them a group hug and go back to Jackal. I was kinda happy after the close. Jackal tells me not to celebrate – looks needy.

Walking back with Jackal. He was very supportive of me, he tells me I’m doing well. I thank him for the support he offered me via text when my crush flaked, because honestly, they text took a weight off my shoulders. Really lifted my spirits. The pleasure of talking to cute girls and number closing took away from the pain of having girls flake.

I then point out to Jackal a group of girls where one of them is dressed up in a very bizarre manner, with newspaper orbs and stuff. He tells me to open them, and always remember to close! I go over, open asking wtf is going on, and then hang out with them for a while. They invite me to go with them around the city getting peoples reactions. It’s cool and good fun, they’re taking pictures of me and stuff which I like haha. They’re 4 Greek girls, and they teach me how to say asshole in Greek lol. I open randomers on the street to get their opinions on what is going on. I then spot a cute girl sitting on a bench, open her, chat to her for a while, go for the number close but again she was a girl with a boyfriend. She put her hand out for me to shake it again for some reason. She said it in an honest manner, I told her to have a good day and went on my way!

Then got a FB close from the Greek girls.

All in all, good day. 1 number close, but got to speak to Jackal a lot and he gave me some great support. His worldview is always so refreshing.

Brothers, have you ever had a crush turn you down? Your words would be appreciated.
Regards,
R

08/02/13

A Change of the Dynamic

This week has been good. Jackal had a week off work, no day game in the week, but I’ve been working it. Facebook closing around Uni, getting IOIs off girls in classes, it’s just business as usual now. Working two girls right now at Uni, one has a boyfriend, one’s single. Both give IOIs. Girl with boyfriend actually opened me after I closed her friend and had a flake on a date proposition. She’s a 9 by the way. I’m becoming more entrenched. I’m adapting these skills to my life – managed to get onto the committee of a society at Uni following an awesome interview. That’s just bolstered my career prospects. Would I have done that before? Fuck no. I used to look at those people in my first year of University and wish I had the confidence to do what they do. Now I threw myself into a very fucking competitive recruitment process and came out on top. No thing. Just business as usual.

It’s pimping day. Energy levels aren’t high by any respect. Lots of Uni work and assignments on, and needing to buckle down. I’m still happy and I’m not the type to make excuses, so going out is a foregone conclusion, but I am tired today. Was zipping off in my classes. Not to mention one big thing…
Jackal wants to push me to the next level. He knows number closing isn’t hard for me any more. He wants me to start kiss closing.
You know my story though, right? Your author is a 21 year old who hasn’t kissed a girl yet.

Jackal’s text arrives mid week, and it triggers a progressive change in my mindset. I’m not anxious, not nervous, not unconfident in my ability. I know I can do this. But here’s the thing…Number closing really isn’t a challenge any more. I’m comfortable doing it, to such that it’s not even exciting. I actually WANT to push my game up. So I accept this. There is a change of dynamics in my game, however. The realisation sends a pulse to awaken my inner game and it prompts a process of unconscious alteration. The evolutionary spirit is working away and will imbue me with the tools to do this.
So Uni’s been good today. I’m loving life. I get out of the library at 4, watch a David Attenborough documentary for an hour, chill and talk to my housemates, get my once a week fast food fix in the form of the best chicken strips and fries you’ve ever had the pleasure to enjoy, and just nod off for a bit to get my energy levels up! It’s been an eratic few weeks. I regain consciousness at 7:15, get my clothes on, talk to my SPAM girlfriend and head to the train station. I’m meant to get the 7:25 train which will allow me to be at the spot dead on 7:45. It’s delayed until 7:40. I spot a girl I know from Uni, she’s with her 10/10 friend. I open them, have a cool conversation and keep them in set for 20 minutes. Now here’s the weird thing…the 10/10 was giving me some pretty strong IOIs. I was not surprised, because she has no doubt heard about me from her friend, but shit, this is an extremely hot girl. She asks me a variety of questions, and even asks me where I am going to end up tonight! They girls are going to the theatre tonight, and I don’t know where Jackal will have me go, but I am loyal to Jackal and have to tell them I have no idea where I’m going to be. But shit! I could actually work this girl…Noted, will see what I wanna do with it. Legit 10 btw guys, perfect lady, have heard plenty of people talk about her beauty . Anyway, the train arrives, we get on, I purposefully sit away from them because I need to do my thing with Jackal and hence need to run. Get off at the stop, run to the spot, meet Jackal, and begin opening sets. We both need a warm up. We get off to a start. In no time Jackal opens a 5 set of girls. Within a minute he’s getting strong IOIs off the hottest one. He’s so relaxed and poised, he dominates the table. He appears so strong and powerful. The man is a friend of mine and I am used to him, but I can’t help but be impressed…The dude is the real deal.
Before this, however, Jackal introduced a new concept – Pattern Interrupt. This is the notion of acting with inventive courage, about being asserting a disruption. He tells me I must be prepared to make a girl stop what she’s doing and talk to me. His words gave theoretical basis to a lot of what he has had me do. It made a lot of sense, and motivated me not to make excuses.

He calls me over, I join the set, and it’s a really fun conversation. We talk about all sorts, are laughing and joking, I get IOIs from a cool married chick with two kids. I then got a very nice compliment from the worst looking chick. I told her where I’m from, and she told me I’m the best looking person from there she’s met! Funny how it’s only ever the chicks who know you’re not interested who’ll do that sort of thing. I thanked very for that and carried on doing my thing. Jackal’s friend Dolphin joined us in set. The girls asked us if we’d meet them later on. Dolphin took one of their numbers, and we went on our way.

We go to our usual bar. It’s less busy as usual, it’s a cold day, but there’s sets here. I opened plenty here, including a two set who told me they were prostitutes…Asked me if I wanted to fuck, and offered student discount. Fucking gross lmao! They were nice though said bye as I left. But guys, sets were not the best today. Was my first tough night, let me tell you about an Asian 4 set I spent like 20 minutes in.
Go over, open, sit down. Ask for names, and they don’t give them. I press, they reveal them. They bust my balls, I don’t budge – not phased. I begin getting strong IOIs from one of them. I throw some negs here and there, but these bitches kept busting my balls! I didn’t budge, stayed strong, gave a hell of a lot of strong eye contact, and then after a while, the girl who was majorly busting my balls started holding my hands. She said she wanted to warm them up. I experimented with squeezing her hands, and then totally letting my grip go. She just held them. When I let my grip go, she did tighten ever so slightly. But not enough. The girl who was giving me IOIs came over and sat down by me. She was actually fighting for my attention, and when I inclined my head towards her friend, she said ‘well I know you’re more interested in her!’, to which I turned round and told her she was a very lovely lady. She got real physical with me. Stared pinching my cheeks calling me a baby, touching my face a lot. This chick was into me. But she was fucking busting my balls man!! I totally got turned off all of them. Energy levels didn’t allow it, and I just wasn’t feeling them. Asian sets are always interesting. Have not had one Asian set yet which didn’t bust my balls. IOI chick later found me and grabbed my arm, tried to make conversation, preened, but I actually disarmed her and moved away. It’s push pull. I want a chick to give a little. She was into me but it was too adversarial – I didn’t find her physically attractive enough to appreciate it. She was digging your man though. Interesting set. Jackal was a force of nature in this set. He’s so fucking good with the girls that bust your balls. He had witty comebacks, firm negs, and really stood so strong. He negged a lot, but it….worked. Simply put, it worked. So many times I’m tempted to say nice things and just get a nice vibe going, but shit, sometimes you need to win their respect. Jackal illustrated this today.
Opened plenty of others. Guy sets, girl sets, whatever. Was fun. Milked the place and had the best time! I didn’t even bother to number close, I don’t give a fuck about that right now, was looking for chicks to kiss close. A hot chick from one group was giving me IOIs but I couldn’t isolate her as she really did need to go somewhere lol. We bounced at like 11 and went to Mailbox.

Mailbox got interesting! Opened hot girl sitting on her own waiting for someone, she asked me if I knew her, and we got into conversation. She was cool. A guy joined the set, I warmly greeted him, she told me ‘don’t worry he’s not my boyfriend!’ and introduced me. I chilled with them for a while. Set got a little dry and Dolphin came in and started working the same girl I was. I basically had to walk off and go onto another girl. Dolphin offered me advice on the set afterwards which was very useful. He told me the reason I couldn’t get anywhere in the set was I didn’t escalate. He told me I need to progressively move things up with sets. He illustrated with very good examples. The man helped a brother out, and I appreciate this. Look forward to rolling with him soon.

I then opened some other random sets to keep warm and build momentum. I go out, talk to Jackal, and then go back inside where a cute dark haired chick is starring at me.
R: Hey, what’s your name?
Girl: Olivia
R: You’ve got an accent, where you from?
Girl: I’m from Belfast!
I asked her what she thought about Birmingham, asked her what she did, told her about myself, had a cool conversation. I then complimented her, told her she’s the most beautiful Irish girl I’ve met. She asked me if I’ve met many Irish girls (haha), and I said yes! I then vibed off her and was totally comfortable…Went for the kiss.

R: OK, so I’ve gotta get back to my friend in a second, but do me a favour. Close your eyes.
Girl: OK. (closes eyes)
R: I grab her by the waist, pull her closer, and go for it. She moves last minute and I land the kiss on her cheek!

She was giggly and smiley about it and she really opened up afterwards. I took her hand in mine and pulled her closer, we exchanged a few sentences and I told her it was nice to meet her but I’ve gotta do my thing! She totally got a player vibe off me as she said ‘You’re gonna just go to another girl!’. I could have kiss closed this set, I promise you. I needed to escalate properly and pull her closer so the kiss would have been more natural, I shouldn’t have called her beautiful – it needed to be your SEXY. I did the eye contact thing though, that shit worked. I was buzzing after this set though as she was totally cool and this was my first attempt at a k close. SO fun!

I then opened random sets. Two sets of girls in the street etc. Me and Jackal made our way back. We went to our meeting spot and refreshed ourselves with a rejuvenating cup of tea. I took this one on one time with Jackal to pick his brain a little bit. He told me about leadership, about body language, and broke down several concepts by using his own story. We shared personal stories. The significance of this was just to provide context to our relationship, so all is on the table.

Why have I not been concerned to ask before? Because Jackal is my Teacher. Anyone can claim they’re the shit, claim they get laid, indeed, plenty of guys no doubt fuck bitches left right and centre. But, can they teach? Can they lead? Can they perform the rigorous and emotionally aware analysis Jackal does? Are they able to change the lives of AFCs? Can they make you break barriers?

My intuition says no, they can’t. Jackal is the best teacher I have met. I just do what he tells me. But it was good to get to know each other as men. Now we’ve done that, we have business to do. There are plenty of sets out there I need to open, and guys let me tell you, soon one of them is going to be my first kiss! We’ve got this.

First night when I’ve had so many shit tests. I opened one set where I had to hold out my hand for like 3 seconds before one girl would shake it, and then the next girl in the set gave me some weird shit about her alter go, before the final girl in the set was actually kinda cool. When the middle girl gave me the weird shit, I threw a hard neg. ‘That’s…fucking…weird’. I then walked off – as I walked off, the cool girl said ‘Was nice to meet you!’. Showing the ability to walk away is an attractive quality.
Well there you have it guys. Interesting night, one almost kiss close. Didn’t bother with any number closes as they bore me right now, only getting them day game and then working on text game. Two new girls in my Uni life to work. It’s all good.
‘You’ve got a cock. Learn how to use it’ - Jackal

Peace & Love,
R


Lessons from today:
-EYE CONTACT AND PROXIMITY! So fucking important. This is our major tool to portray intent and sexual energy.
-BUST BALLS! Shit tests galore today. Stay strong, throw negs. Do not be tempted to say something nice. Be an asshole if you need to be, but you need to give them a little something to work with. It’s a fine balance which I need to perfect.
-DEMONSTRATE ABILITY TO WALK AWAY – Re-engage if needs be. Just never, ever fucking be needy. You don’t need shit from these girls, you can get fine bitches.

08/02/13

A Change of the Dynamic

This week has been good. Jackal had a week off work, no day game in the week, but I’ve been working it. Facebook closing around Uni, getting IOIs off girls in classes, it’s just business as usual now. Working two girls right now at Uni, one has a boyfriend, one’s single. Both give IOIs. Girl with boyfriend actually opened me after I closed her friend and had a flake on a date proposition. She’s a 9 by the way. I’m becoming more entrenched. I’m adapting these skills to my life – managed to get onto the committee of a society at Uni following an awesome interview. That’s just bolstered my career prospects. Would I have done that before? Fuck no. I used to look at those people in my first year of University and wish I had the confidence to do what they do. Now I threw myself into a very fucking competitive recruitment process and came out on top. No thing. Just business as usual.

It’s pimping day. Energy levels aren’t high by any respect. Lots of Uni work and assignments on, and needing to buckle down. I’m still happy and I’m not the type to make excuses, so going out is a foregone conclusion, but I am tired today. Was zipping off in my classes. Not to mention one big thing…
Jackal wants to push me to the next level. He knows number closing isn’t hard for me any more. He wants me to start kiss closing.
You know my story though, right? Your author is a 21 year old who hasn’t kissed a girl yet.

Jackal’s text arrives mid week, and it triggers a progressive change in my mindset. I’m not anxious, not nervous, not unconfident in my ability. I know I can do this. But here’s the thing…Number closing really isn’t a challenge any more. I’m comfortable doing it, to such that it’s not even exciting. I actually WANT to push my game up. So I accept this. There is a change of dynamics in my game, however. The realisation sends a pulse to awaken my inner game and it prompts a process of unconscious alteration. The evolutionary spirit is working away and will imbue me with the tools to do this.

So Uni’s been good today. I’m loving life. I get out of the library at 4, watch a David Attenborough documentary for an hour, chill and talk to my housemates, get my once a week fast food fix in the form of the best chicken strips and fries you’ve ever had the pleasure to enjoy, and just nod off for a bit to get my energy levels up! It’s been an eratic few weeks. I regain consciousness at 7:15, get my clothes on, talk to my SPAM girlfriend and head to the train station. I’m meant to get the 7:25 train which will allow me to be at the spot dead on 7:45. It’s delayed until 7:40. I spot a girl I know from Uni, she’s with her 10/10 friend. I open them, have a cool conversation and keep them in set for 20 minutes. Now here’s the weird thing…the 10/10 was giving me some pretty strong IOIs. I was not surprised, because she has no doubt heard about me from her friend, but shit, this is an extremely hot girl. She asks me a variety of questions, and even asks me where I am going to end up tonight! They girls are going to the theatre tonight, and I don’t know where Jackal will have me go, but I am loyal to Jackal and have to tell them I have no idea where I’m going to be. But shit! I could actually work this girl…Noted, will see what I wanna do with it. Legit 10 btw guys, perfect lady, have heard plenty of people talk about her beauty . Anyway, the train arrives, we get on, I purposefully sit away from them because I need to do my thing with Jackal and hence need to run. Get off at the stop, run to the spot, meet Jackal, and begin opening sets. We both need a warm up. We get off to a start. In no time Jackal opens a 5 set of girls. Within a minute he’s getting strong IOIs off the hottest one. He’s so relaxed and poised, he dominates the table. He appears so strong and powerful. The man is a friend of mine and I am used to him, but I can’t help but be impressed…The dude is the real deal.

Before this, however, Jackal introduced a new concept – Pattern Interrupt. This is the notion of acting with inventive courage, about asserting a disruption. He tells me I must be prepared to make a girl stop what she’s doing and talk to me. His words gave theoretical basis to a lot of what he has had me do. It made a lot of sense, and motivated me not to make excuses.

He calls me over, I join the set, and it’s a really fun conversation. We talk about all sorts, are laughing and joking, I get IOIs from a cool married chick with two kids. I then got a very nice compliment from the worst looking chick. I told her where I’m from, and she told me I’m the best looking person from there she’s met! Funny how it’s only ever the chicks who know you’re not interested who’ll do that sort of thing. I thanked very for that and carried on doing my thing. Jackal’s friend Dolphin joined us in set. The girls asked us if we’d meet them later on. Dolphin took one of their numbers, and we went on our way.

We go to our usual bar. It’s less busy as usual, it’s a cold day, but there’s sets here. I opened plenty here, including a two set who told me they were prostitutes…Asked me if I wanted to fuck, and offered student discount. Fucking gross lmao! They were nice though said bye as I left. But guys, sets were not the best today. Was my first tough night, let me tell you about an Asian 4 set I spent like 20 minutes in.

Go over, open, sit down. Ask for names, and they don’t give them. I press, they reveal them. They bust my balls, I don’t budge – not phased. I begin getting strong IOIs from one of them. I throw some negs here and there, but these bitches kept busting my balls! I didn’t budge, stayed strong, gave a hell of a lot of strong eye contact, and then after a while, the girl who was majorly busting my balls started holding my hands. She said she wanted to warm them up. I experimented with squeezing her hands, and then totally letting my grip go. She just held them. When I let my grip go, she did tighten ever so slightly. But not enough. The girl who was giving me IOIs came over and sat down by me. She was actually fighting for my attention, and when I inclined my head towards her friend, she said ‘well I know you’re more interested in her!’, to which I turned round and told her she was a very lovely lady. She got real physical with me. Stared pinching my cheeks calling me a baby, touching my face a lot. This chick was into me. But she was fucking busting my balls man!! I totally got turned off all of them. Energy levels didn’t allow it, and I just wasn’t feeling them. Asian sets are always interesting. Have not had one Asian set yet which didn’t bust my balls. IOI chick later found me and grabbed my arm, tried to make conversation, preened, but I actually disarmed her and moved away. It’s push pull. I want a chick to give a little. She was into me but it was too adversarial – I didn’t find her physically attractive enough to appreciate it. She was digging your man though. Interesting set. Jackal was a force of nature in this set. He’s so fucking good with the girls that bust your balls. He had witty comebacks, firm negs, and really stood so strong. He negged a lot, but it….worked. Simply put, it worked. So many times I’m tempted to say nice things and just get a nice vibe going, but shit, sometimes you need to win their respect. Jackal illustrated this today.

Opened plenty of others. Guy sets, girl sets, whatever. Was fun. Milked the place and had the best time! I didn’t even bother to number close, I don’t give a fuck about that right now, was looking for chicks to kiss close. A hot chick from one group was giving me IOIs but I couldn’t isolate her as she really did need to go somewhere lol. We bounced at like 11 and went to Mailbox.

Mailbox got interesting! Opened hot girl sitting on her own waiting for someone, she asked me if I knew her, and we got into conversation. She was cool. A guy joined the set, I warmly greeted him, she told me ‘don’t worry he’s not my boyfriend!’ and introduced me. I chilled with them for a while. Set got a little dry and Dolphin came in and started working the same girl I was. I basically had to walk off and go onto another girl. Dolphin offered me advice on the set afterwards which was very useful. He told me the reason I couldn’t get anywhere in the set was I didn’t escalate. He told me I need to progressively move things up with sets. He illustrated with very good examples. The man helped a brother out, and I appreciate this. Look forward to rolling with him soon.

I then opened some other random sets to keep warm and build momentum. I go out, talk to Jackal, and then go back inside where a cute dark haired chick is starring at me.

R: Hey, what’s your name?
Girl: Olivia
R: You’ve got an accent, where you from?
Girl: I’m from Belfast!
I asked her what she thought about Birmingham, asked her what she did, told her about myself, had a cool conversation. I then complimented her, told her she’s the most beautiful Irish girl I’ve met. She asked me if I’ve met many Irish girls (haha), and I said yes! I then vibed off her and was totally comfortable…Went for the kiss.

R: OK, so I’ve gotta get back to my friend in a second, but do me a favour. Close your eyes.
Girl: OK. (closes eyes)
R: I grab her by the waist, pull her closer, and go for it. She moves last minute and I land the kiss on her cheek!

She was giggly and smiley about it and she really opened up afterwards. I took her hand in mine and pulled her closer, we exchanged a few sentences and I told her it was nice to meet her but I’ve gotta do my thing! She totally got a player vibe off me as she said ‘You’re gonna just go to another girl!’. I could have kiss closed this set, I promise you. I needed to escalate properly and pull her closer so the kiss would have been more natural, I shouldn’t have called her beautiful – it needed to be your SEXY. I did the eye contact thing though, that shit worked. I was buzzing after this set though as she was totally cool and this was my first attempt at a k close. SO fun!

I then opened random sets. Two sets of girls in the street etc. Me and Jackal made our way back. We went to our meeting spot and refreshed ourselves with a rejuvenating cup of tea. I took this one on one time with Jackal to pick his brain a little bit. He told me about leadership, about body language, and broke down several concepts by using his own story. We shared personal stories. The significance of this was just to provide context to our relationship, so all is on the table.

Why have I not been concerned to ask before? Because Jackal is my Teacher. Anyone can claim they’re the shit, claim they get laid, indeed, plenty of guys no doubt fuck bitches left right and centre. But, can they teach? Can they lead? Can they perform the rigorous and emotionally aware analysis Jackal does? Are they able to change the lives of AFCs? Can they make you break barriers?

My intuition says no, they can’t. Jackal is the best teacher I have met. I just do what he tells me. But it was good to get to know each other as men. Now we’ve done that, we have business to do. There are plenty of sets out there I need to open, and guys let me tell you, soon one of them is going to be my first kiss! We’ve got this.

First night when I’ve had so many shit tests. I opened one set where I had to hold out my hand for like 3 seconds before one girl would shake it, and then the next girl in the set gave me some weird shit about her alter go, before the final girl in the set was actually kinda cool. When the middle girl gave me the weird shit, I threw a hard neg. ‘That’s…fucking…weird’. I then walked off – as I walked off, the cool girl said ‘Was nice to meet you!’. Showing the ability to walk away is an attractive quality.
Well there you have it guys. Interesting night, one almost kiss close. Didn’t bother with any number closes as they bore me right now, only getting them day game and then working on text game. Two new girls in my Uni life to work. It’s all good.

‘You’ve got a cock. Learn how to use it’ - Jackal

Peace & Love,
R


Lessons from today:
-EYE CONTACT AND PROXIMITY! So fucking important. This is our major tool to portray intent and sexual energy.
-BUST BALLS! Shit tests galore today. Stay strong, throw negs. Do not be tempted to say something nice. Be an asshole if you need to be, but you need to give them a little something to work with. It’s a fine balance which I need to perfect.
-DEMONSTRATE ABILITY TO WALK AWAY – Re-engage if needs be. Just never, ever fucking be needy. You don’t need shit from these girls, you can get fine bitches.
-FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, PRESS ONCE IN A WHILE - Should have pressed Irish chick.

Hi guys,

Am so glad that this thread is still running, I came back a month ago and find the thread inactive, I was afraid that the group disbanded or something.

Anyway, just dropped by to say hi to Jackal and the crew. It has been a good run and I hope i get to see you guys again soon.

Chris if you're reading this, PM me, we need to get in touch. If anyone of you has his email, please send it to me.

For those who just started to roll with the Jackal, I dare say, he's been a great help in getting the volume to your belt. Experience is what you really need.

See you guys soon
Jim

hi guys. it was my second time meeting jackal last saturday and i can honestly say ive never had a night like that. almost everything seemed to go my way (i say almost everything because on the way some crazy chav girl threw a crazy punch at me forcing me to dodge and flee from the scene!) lol!! ater that i was waiting for jackal in paradise forum and he told me he was gonna be there in 20 and to talk to some people.

so i go in order myself a beer and head straight outside to the smoking area (id never been out by myself before) i go straight over to this 8 standing over the fence in another smoking area and borrow her lighter, we exchange some friendly conversation and thats it.
while i was waiting inside i got talking to this two set who did quite alot of ballbusting tbh but again it was mainly a generic conversation. as i was waiting for him i saw and made eye contact with this guy over the bar and i thought to myself he looked like a pua, it turned out to be a freind of jackals, dave. he introduced me and he seemed like a pretty cool guy.

Then the game really started. at the bar he told me to turn around and open this 3 set (milfs!) well one was a milf and the others were just old.. i turned around and told her she looked beautiful and im not leaving without her number. her friend opposite didnt seem very keen on the idea but her older sister seemed to love it lol. anyway i get her number and say bye. Im talkin to jackal and dave now and he tells me to turn around and kiss her!! so im thinkin shit! as if shes gonna kiss me! neither of us were pissed and its not exactly gonna be descrete but after a little persuasion, to my suprise she kisses me! no tongues but still...

im gonna skip a few hours now i might come back to them later. so after set after set after set i find myself with jackal (theres a few of us out now as dolphin and simon joined us) he tells me to go over to this girl make her do a twirl then kiss her! my heart starts pounding again but i go for it. unfortunately she just pulled a face and waved her hand so jackal showed me how to do it again. he pointed out another target and i went for it... it worked!! i cant wait to go out again and practice that!

it got to about 1ish and jackal decided to head home, so its just me dolphin, dave and simon i dont know the places we were in but we were just opening sets for fun. jackal seemed to get us on a roll, obviously my sets werent as productive as the other guys but i could see and feel the progression just after that first week.

dolphin left after a while too. leaving me, simon and dave. dave told me to go open this 3 set across the bar. i went over and it was going amazingly, i introdced dave to the set and within minutes was getting off with his target after isolating her to the sofa. leaving me with this really nice girl (i forgot her name but she was awesome) i was getting ioi after ioi but i did nothing she even had her body that close one of my legs was resting against the middle of hers (if that makes sense) she then isolated me! and introduced me to her friends! the set then became about a 7 set. i lost the interest in the girl i was talking to but i just WISH i kissed her! i wont hesitate again, i have a feeling shed have been a great kisser

so to some up the night i ended up leaving with a new outlook on nightgame and 8 numbers! 8 numbers! 8 fucking numbers!! i cant even remember who half of them belong to. i do know however ive only kept in contact with 2 and a half of them. i should also mention that the confidence i got from my first encounter with jackal allowed me to meet and number close a girl on the way into birmingham, she was probably a 5 by pua standards and on the way out.... i number closed a 7 by pua standards and im still texting her!

i could write loads more but its took me far too long to write this as it is, im tired and its pancake day.
thanks for reading expect alot more field reports!

Gentlemen! Jackal wants to know who is up for a casual, non-pickup related social? Just a beer or some food or whatever. Sat or Sun afternoon time. How is next week for everyone?

Peace,
R

¬13/02/13
Day Game & New Beginnings
I’ve needed to get a handle on my life for a while. Not too long, I believe I held it down during my first term, but this term has become more erratic. Nothing crazy, but I need to tighten down the discipline. I’m still working hard and scoring well, but I need to make sure this stays like this. Today was an example of how my affairs are fucked up right now.

I am to day game with Jackal today at 12. It’s 11:20 and I’ve only just been able to get up. This is not to say my alarm did not go off at 7. More to the point, I was a bit of a wreck…Have been doing things to my body I shouldn’t. Nothing crazy (or illegal), but it does need to stop. Today made this very clear.

I was 45 minutes late for day game. I met Jackal at quarter to one, apologised and told him I need to get my act together, and he was supportive. Very supportive. He didn’t seem phased by my lateness. I believe he understands my position for one, and also knows I have too much respect for him to be so late without a damn good reason. His presence calms me. As I’m running through the city centre to meet Jackal, the realisation that I need to reach a healthier equilibrium dawns on me emphatically. This is the last time this happens.
Jackal teaches for 5 minutes. He tells me of the importance of introspection and analysis. He uses the example of opening, and tells me to put myself in the other person’s shoes. The grandiose and energetic nature of our approach has received different responses from different sets. I have been in sets which have been going well and the presence and aura Jackal engineers has caused girls to ask if there is a camera around or whether they’re on TV! Said set invited us to join them later on at a bar they were going to for a friend’s birthday…But what Jackal spelled out was that we need to be analytical and ¬¬embody a gradual evolution in our game. He is careful not to get me over thinking, he simply tells me to consider other peoples perspectives to develop my game. He made a lot of sense.
The reason I could not afford to miss meeting Jackal today, even if it was for five minutes, was because his presence and energy is infectious. I have never met anyone who has this effect on me. Once I have talked things through with Jackal, I have no doubts about myself or what I can do. He is very blessed to have the trait of leadership, and I am lucky to have someone around who can lift me up so far. We opened sets. I needed a quick warm up, had to open a few and go for closes before I actually got the ball rolling. Opened a very pretty set directly and we walked around for a while, she was asking me all sorts of questions, we had a cool chat. I went for the close. It wasn’t my usual script. She tells me she has a boyfriend. It’s said in a manner I can believe…but I go for a facebook close just to make it worthwhile. Done.

I then open random sets completely solo on my way home. I remember Jackal telling me solo game is not harder…just different. I open a three set asking for directions, and manage to get some IOIs! This was pretty cool. It was snowing kinda hard so I bitched out of the close for want of getting home. I then opened other girls who were standing around smoking etc. I think to myself, I really did get rid of approach anxiety. That shit used to kill me….

So, day game was only 15 minutes with Jackal today. I went for a while solo, which was fun, but today was really about new beginnings. It was about achieving a healthier, more positive balance in my life. There’s no questions any more, I’m doing it.
I really clamped down after this. Cleaned the house, got on with my work. Was a really perfect day. Then, at 11, I headed over to my friends and we went out clubbing.
Club Game
This was an awesome night! I have gotten opening in a club down now. I opened indiscriminately. Opened pretty much every girl in the club, large groups, mixed sets, whatever. I just went in. I danced with about 5 girls. 2 of them I gave strong eye contact. I facebook closed 5 girls. One girl asked me for my FB after I opened with my alias… ‘People just call me Chance’. Hah! Two groups of girls were so fucking cool we hung out a lot. Also one group asked us to pose for a variety of photos lol.

Anyway, this night was interesting for one reason. I met a very cool girl. How it went was I opened her and her friend when they were sitting outside the dance floor, was just indirect and situational. We got talking. I facebook closed there and then. We met them back up later, and I got talking to the girl I liked. She was really cute. She had a very distinct look, and she just had a cool vibe. Through the night we’d meet up, dance, make & hold deep eye contact, I kissed her on the forehead and on the cheek, I took her by the hand and went to different rooms etc…But I was with my friends and we did what we do, basically hit on every girl there. This meant I did not properly isolate her…Then I realised, I looked around and her friend was not there, she isolated herself! I kept doing my thing, dancing with a variety of chicks, then when I went back over said chick gave me a strong IOI of hair tossing. There is 0 doubt in my mind that not only could I have kiss closed this girl, I could have taken her home. We talked about a variety of things. My friend even took me to one side and said dude, go for it, she’s into you. He’s not even a PUA, though he is devastatingly effective

Why didn’t I pull the trigger?

I facebook closed there & then and genuinely want to know more about her. She was such a sweet heart I felt like it would be wrong to just kiss close her and go on to the next girl. I just didn’t feel as if it was right. If it was a very confident chick who oozed sexually energy, I would have fucking gone for it. But not this one. I did my thing all night and had a lot of freaking fun. I am essentially getting comfortable in clubs now. This was the first time I’ve just danced with girls like that. Soon, it’ll be kiss closes and f closes etc. It’s all about habituation. We leave at 3AM, my friends get some food, we get a cab back to their house. They had one housemate who got kicked out the club, so there was some slight domestic situation going on there lol. I just bid my friends good bye, shook their hands, thanked them for another amazing evening, and left to go to mine. I live just a road away, so I reflect on the night as I’m walking. I had so much fun. My energy levels were so high. I got approached my random guys to talk lol. Basically, I’m making friends at the drop of a hat now. Life is sweet. I do some late night cooking. Sir dines on steak and sautéed mushrooms. I’m listening to some lovely blues. It’s 4AM. I feel great.

It’s reading week, so I’m not up at the earliest of times this week. I’m awake, but incubating in bed the next morning. I’ve had about two hours of proper sleep. My bed feels like a fucking womb right now. Jackal calls me. He wants updates. I tell him what happened last night, tell him I opened set after set, and told him that there was that one girl who was without question keen. Told him she left her friend to hang out with me, told him we vibed off each other and could have gone home together. He asks me what stopped me. As I mentioned, it just didn’t feel as if it was the right thing to do, but as I speak, Jackal analyses and evaluates what I say in his mind. He’s heard it all before. He doesn’t call me out, rather, he teaches and explains to me what happened.
My problem as of now: MORAL BARRIERS.

Jackal told me that for whatever reason, be it socialisation, friendship groups, upbringing, I have internal barriers erected to uphold a gold standard of squeaky clean, straight-laced ethics. I didn’t go for the kiss because the girl was a sweet heart, because it wasn’t the gentlemanly thing to do. In reality, this is nonsense. If a girl is attracted to me, and displays this, enjoys my company etc, then it is indeed wrong for me not to have a romantic experience with her. It makes both of our lives more interesting. I was a bit of an tease to this girl, and that was wrong of me. Would have been better to close. The past doesn’t matter anyway, we have identified this barrier. We must now, as if with a wrecking ball, demolish it and make progress! After Jackal’s advice, I am going clubbing Friday. I am just going to do it. Jackal told me my mission has been upgraded to F Closing. He says I may need to fuck a few ugly chicks to break my boundaries, certainly if I want a girlfriend. I am excited because I know Jackal KNOWS I can do this. What is more - I do too.

I used to be the guy who used to stand in the club all night, not speaking to a single girl. I have not danced with a girl till tonight. I certainly did not used to hold eye contact with them manner I did tonight. It was quite sexy for both parties concerned. Really built attraction. I know what I need to do now – get the proximity, escalate, then boom. Jackal is changing my life. I don’t want to let him down.

‘You can lose your virginity in 2 years, or 2 days’ - Jackal

Peace,
R

¬13/02/13

Day Game & New Beginnings

I’ve needed to get a handle on my life for a while. Not too long, I believe I held it down during my first term, but this term has become more erratic. Nothing crazy, but I need to tighten down the discipline. I’m still working hard and scoring well, but I need to make sure this stays like this. Today was an example of how my affairs are fucked up right now.

I am to day game with Jackal today at 12. It’s 11:20 and I’ve only just been able to get up. This is not to say my alarm did not go off at 7. More to the point, I was a bit of a wreck…Have been doing things to my body I shouldn’t. Nothing crazy (or illegal), but it does need to stop. Today made this very clear.

I was 45 minutes late for day game. I met Jackal at quarter to one, apologised and told him I need to get my act together, and he was supportive. Very supportive. He didn’t seem phased by my lateness. I believe he understands my position for one, and also knows I have too much respect for him to be so late without a damn good reason. His presence calms me. As I’m running through the city centre to meet Jackal, the realisation that I need to reach a healthier equilibrium dawns on me emphatically. This is the last time this happens.

Jackal teaches for 5 minutes. He tells me of the importance of introspection and analysis. He uses the example of opening, and tells me to put myself in the other person’s shoes. The grandiose and energetic nature of our approach has received different responses from different sets. I have been in sets which have been going well and the presence and aura Jackal engineers has caused girls to ask if there is a camera around or whether they’re on TV! Said set invited us to join them later on at a bar they were going to for a friend’s birthday…But what Jackal spelled out was that we need to be analytical and ¬¬embody a gradual evolution in our game. He is careful not to get me over thinking, he simply tells me to consider other peoples perspectives to develop my game. He made a lot of sense.

The reason I could not afford to miss meeting Jackal today, even if it was for five minutes, was because his presence and energy is infectious. I have never met anyone who has this effect on me. Once I have talked things through with Jackal, I have no doubts about myself or what I can do. He is very blessed to have the trait of leadership, and I am lucky to have someone around who can lift me up so far. We opened sets. I needed a quick warm up, had to open a few and go for closes before I actually got the ball rolling. Opened a very pretty set directly and we walked around for a while, she was asking me all sorts of questions, we had a cool chat. I went for the close. It wasn’t my usual script. She tells me she has a boyfriend. It’s said in a manner I can believe…but I go for a facebook close just to make it worthwhile. Done.

I then open random sets completely solo on my way home. I remember Jackal telling me solo game is not harder…just different. I open a three set asking for directions, and manage to get some IOIs! This was pretty cool. It was snowing kinda hard so I bitched out of the close for want of getting home. I then opened other girls who were standing around smoking etc. I think to myself, I really did get rid of approach anxiety. That shit used to kill me….

So, day game was only 15 minutes with Jackal today. I went for a while solo, which was fun, but today was really about new beginnings. It was about achieving a healthier, more positive balance in my life. There’s no questions any more, I’m doing it.

I really clamped down after this. Cleaned the house, got on with my work. Was a really perfect day. Then, at 11, I headed over to my friends and we went out clubbing.

Club Game

This was an awesome night! I have gotten opening in a club down now. I opened indiscriminately. Opened pretty much every girl in the club, large groups, mixed sets, whatever. I just went in. I danced with about 5 girls. 2 of them I gave strong eye contact. I facebook closed 5 girls. One girl asked me for my FB after I opened with my alias… ‘People just call me Chance’. Hah! Two groups of girls were so fucking cool we hung out a lot. Also one group asked us to pose for a variety of photos lol.

Anyway, this night was interesting for one reason. I met a very cool girl. How it went was I opened her and her friend when they were sitting outside the dance floor, was just indirect and situational. We got talking. I facebook closed there and then. We met them back up later, and I got talking to the girl I liked. She was really cute. She had a very distinct look, and she just had a cool vibe. Through the night we’d meet up, dance, make & hold deep eye contact, I kissed her on the forehead and on the cheek, I took her by the hand and went to different rooms etc…But I was with my friends and we did what we do, basically hit on every girl there. This meant I did not properly isolate her…Then I realised, I looked around and her friend was not there, she isolated herself! I kept doing my thing, dancing with a variety of chicks, then when I went back over said chick gave me a strong IOI of hair tossing. There is 0 doubt in my mind that not only could I have kiss closed this girl, I could have taken her home. We talked about a variety of things. My friend even took me to one side and said dude, go for it, she’s into you. He’s not even a PUA, though he is devastatingly effective

Why didn’t I pull the trigger?

I facebook closed there & then and genuinely want to know more about her. She was such a sweet heart I felt like it would be wrong to just kiss close her and go on to the next girl. I just didn’t feel as if it was right. If it was a very confident chick who oozed sexually energy, I would have fucking gone for it. But not this one. I did my thing all night and had a lot of freaking fun. I am essentially getting comfortable in clubs now. This was the first time I’ve just danced with girls like that. Soon, it’ll be kiss closes and f closes etc. It’s all about habituation. We leave at 3AM, my friends get some food, we get a cab back to their house. They had one housemate who got kicked out the club, so there was some slight domestic situation going on there lol. I just bid my friends good bye, shook their hands, thanked them for another amazing evening, and left to go to mine. I live just a road away, so I reflect on the night as I’m walking. I had so much fun. My energy levels were so high. I got approached my random guys to talk lol. Basically, I’m making friends at the drop of a hat now. Life is sweet. I do some late night cooking. Sir dines on steak and sautéed mushrooms. I’m listening to some lovely blues. It’s 4AM. I feel great.

It’s reading week, so I’m not up at the earliest of times this week. I’m awake, but incubating in bed the next morning. I’ve had about two hours of proper sleep. My bed feels like a fucking womb right now. Jackal calls me. He wants updates. I tell him what happened last night, tell him I opened set after set, and told him that there was that one girl who was without question keen. Told him she left her friend to hang out with me, told him we vibed off each other and could have gone home together. He asks me what stopped me. As I mentioned, it just didn’t feel as if it was the right thing to do, but as I speak, Jackal analyses and evaluates what I say in his mind. He’s heard it all before. He doesn’t call me out, rather, he teaches and explains to me what happened.
My problem as of now: MORAL BARRIERS.

Jackal told me that for whatever reason, be it socialisation, friendship groups, upbringing, I have internal barriers erected to uphold a gold standard of squeaky clean, straight-laced ethics. I didn’t go for the kiss because the girl was a sweet heart, because it wasn’t the gentlemanly thing to do. In reality, this is nonsense. If a girl is attracted to me, and displays this, enjoys my company etc, then it is indeed wrong for me not to have a romantic experience with her. It makes both of our lives more interesting. I was a bit of an tease to this girl, and that was wrong of me. Would have been better to close. The past doesn’t matter anyway, we have identified this barrier. We must now, as if with a wrecking ball, demolish it and make progress! After Jackal’s advice, I am going clubbing Friday. I am just going to do it. Jackal told me my mission has been upgraded to F Closing. He says I may need to fuck a few ugly chicks to break my boundaries, certainly if I want a girlfriend. I am excited because I know Jackal KNOWS I can do this. What is more - I do too.

I used to be the guy who used to stand in the club all night, not speaking to a single girl. I have not danced with a girl till tonight. I certainly did not used to hold eye contact with them manner I did tonight. It was quite sexy for both parties concerned. Really built attraction. I know what I need to do now – get the proximity, escalate, then boom. Jackal is changing my life. I don’t want to let him down.

‘You can lose your virginity in 2 years, or 2 days’ - Jackal

Peace,
R

morning guys i met jackal again last saturday night and im very disapointed in myself. i achieved virtually no success with any sets except a few guy sets that i did some magic for. i think i know why my game was so terrible last week heres why...

my job comes with alot of responsibility and we have to work to dead lines (graphic designer) so id done over 70 hours last week and i was exhuasted plus id started work at 6am on the saturday i met jackal... my energy levels were just awful! another thing i believe that got in the way of my success with women that night was the amount of weed i smoked before i went out, i wont go into it we all know its bad for us but saturday was the final boot up the arse i needed and i can proudly say i smoked my last ever zuut after i got back to the hotel in birmingham. i already feel sharper im ready for tomorrow!

the combination of my bad day and bad attitude made me late to meet jackal and the guys, i got out about half 9 and met in the pitcher and piano. it was full of girls! yet i spent most of my time chainsmoking talking to guys in the smoking area. after a while i was opening sets but i could feel my body language and facial expressions being negative ultimately my energy was super low! jackal reminded me tho of something he said the first time we met which put me at ease he said that every failure or mistake we make we learn from it and i have! i know what needed to be done and ive done it, i know what i need to do and ill do it. jackal talks alot about momentum and i know for a fact if i just hadnt been so lazy on the saturday and spoke to people on the train, bus on the way to meet him etc, (like i was supposed to) the night would have gone alot smoother.

i feel i must appologise for the lack of information about talking to girls and sets and i can assure you, who evers reading this that my game has changed! i feel on form there will never be an fr from me like this again. i cant wait to go out tomorrow and show the guys what i can do for real.

im setting myself a target tonight i here by swear on the life of my pet dog and best friend if i DONT get two tongue closes tomorrow with jackel i will smear dog poo on my face and in my hair and by a pack of three condoms from my local chemist! i swear ill do it! ill film it too but it wont come to that... i will be kissing atleast two beautiful women tomorrow! thanks for reading guys and i recomend you keep an eye out for tomorrows post ill be writing it in the early hours of sunday morning!

peace! x

I’ve been studying and practicing game for a little over a year now, although don’t have a huge amount of time on a weekly basis. I’ve had some decent results over the past 12 months including; 3 minute kiss closes, same night lays, day twos, instant dates and long term relationships. Trouble is these have been relatively few and far between and would like to radically increase the consistency of my results. I also feel that I have reached a plateau and recent results have been less than favourable.

My goal is to generate a series of multiple long term relationships; I do same night lays but mostly have the intention to see the girls again in a commitment free scenario. I would describe my style as relaxed and paced, which means that I tend to stay in set for a long time once (& if) attraction has been generated. I’d ideally like to develop my skill sets to generate attraction and comfort more easily and rapidly.

A couple of months ago I met Jackal in town and requested that I join his crew to sarge on a regular basis. I’m aware that there are detractors of Jackal on this site and I’m not prepared to enter into any discussion about any other PUA for the following reasons;

1). Jackal certainly doesn’t need me to defend him and sure he wouldn’t want me to.
2). I believe that to enter into such discussion is a negative activity and I’m only interested in positivity!
3). We are all different; all have diverse styles, strengths and weaknesses. I think you can learn something from everyone you meet.

I’m happy to sarge with pretty much anyone as long as I’m actively learning and developing as part of that process.

To move from a mindset of conscious incompetence into an area of conscious competence I deem it necessary for me to understand further the mistakes and sticking points that I make. Jackal suggested that I begin writing field reports in order to document, understand and learn from others, so here goes...

28.02.2013

Met Jackal around 8.30, did a few warm-up sets and then went to a table where Jackal had already opened a 2 set. The girl I was chatting to was shit testing me hard, but it was a good learning experience and she was fun with it. We ended up doing a ‘joke-off’ since we’d been telling each other jokes. This involved me leading her to another couple to see who got the biggest laugh from our respective joke telling abilities!

She fucking won and gave me more shit for it! Lol; which was ok because I didn’t find her attractive and the whole thing was fun anyway. I have difficulty remaining in set and building momentum if I don’t find a girl attractive. I’m somewhat picky, which is an alpha trait I’d like to maintain but do need more practice and therefore need to learn to talk to everyone and not just the select few.

I was pleased that I’d moved and led the girl into the interaction, but didn’t feel it was going anywhere and wasn’t that interested so left Jackal talking to the girls and moved to another venue.

I approached a seated two set inside the new venue, who I didn’t find immediately attractive. I opened with ‘I’m waiting for my friend to arrive so came over to talk to you guys while I wait for him cos you looked interesting’.

This seemed to hook immediately and I sat down and we all started chatting. The conversation turned sexual due to me stating that ‘you look like the bad one out of the two of you’ which prompted her friend to reveal all kinds of things about the other girl. At this point Jackal arrived, introductions were made and then he motioned to one girl to move. She immediately complied and he ended up sitting in-between them!!!!! (I’d been sitting opposite up till this point).

He motioned for me to move closer to one of the girls which I did but felt awkward sexually escalating on a girl I did find attractive. Things went ok, I number closed anyway for the practice. I was surprised at the suggestions the Jackal was making to his girl and that she seemed ok with his sexual dominance and language!

We moved on to another venue and Jackal opened another 2 set whilst I went to get drinks. I immediately joined the group and occupied a girl who was really interesting to talk to. We got on well and seemed to vibe together. Again I was sitting opposite whilst Jackal was sexually dominant with the other girl who was blushing at his suggestions! Lol

I number closed the girl and have been texting today so will post more details should any materialise.
We left to go home and whilst walking back Jackal ‘ordered’ me to approach a girl walking towards us wearing earphones.

This came as a bit of a shock since I had really seen her and also my PUA brain was turned off since we left the previous venue. Ergo my opening was ‘sorry (fucking rookie mistake!), just had to say that coat looks awesome on you’ – she completely blanked me and walked past.

I was like ‘oh well’ it’s been a decent night anyway; this is not a Jackal mindset!!!!

‘Re-engage’ came the order -‘re-engage’. I reluctantly trundled off to re-open what I considered to be a blow out set. Strangely she was pleasant and engaging and I walked with her for a few minutes and then number closed. Even more bizarrely she texted me the very next morning which just goes to show that perceptions and instincts can often be wrong!!!

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'It Comes Down To A Simple Choice: Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying'

01.03.2013

Met the crew early on Friday eve; joining the regulars Jackal, Diego, Dolphin, Majik were seasoned PUA Diamond and new guy Joe.

I was feeling a decent energy which I believe was due to the revelations of the previous eve and a relaxed day at work! Pretty much straight into sets at the request of Jackal. Winging Majik then opening a two set immediately after of which Majik got his first number close of the night! BOOM

I must have been busier than usual cos I hardly spoke to any of the crew, it was noticeably busier than the previous evening and set were opened but didn’t bother to close since I wasn’t attracted to any of them. In short interactions went well and on par with the previous evening.

The key point in the night came when I shifted venues and started chatting to a brunette who I made fun of for being too short. It was her hot blonde friend who I was really attracted to and after ten mins began chatting to my target.

After a few mins the short brunette said they had to leave (maybe jealous?) and so I number closed my target and felt pretty good bout it. When I told Jackal he asked me why I didn’t bounce with them and he was right. I guess it felt more comfortable to number close and leave it there since my text game has been decent of late.

After hitting a couple more bars and a couple more interactions we moved back to the first bar and I noticed the hot Blonde and her friends in the corner of the room chatting to a couple of guys. Me and Jackal walked outside for a cigarette and he suggested I re-engage and tell the hot blonde to come home with me.

This felt too direct for me and my instincts were not to carry this through since she was clearly occupied and seemed rather ‘sweet’ when we spoke. However, in the interests of pushing my own limits I decided to walk through the group of friends, turn her round from the guy she was speaking to and told her to come home with me!

The reaction was not good! A simple raised eyebrow, look of disgust and turning her back to me told me that I was done! I still felt pretty good since I had the courage to step outside of my comfort zone. I still can’t quite figure out whether the failure to re-engage was something I was projecting since I was unsure about carrying out the ‘task’ or whether my instincts were correct and I should not have re-engaged so directly?

I guess it’s a moot point since in reality the best play would have been to bounce with them when they left! Lesson learnt, move on!

Tasks and challenges for this week...

Kiss close 2 girls since it’s been a few weeks since I achieved this and be more sexually dominant in both my body language and speech. I’ll let you guys know how it goes.

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'It Comes Down To A Simple Choice: Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying'

08/03/13
Turning the Screw

Life has a tendency towards an internal chaos which can explode on a person. Life can be fruitful and exciting if a person takes it by the reigns, but unmercifully complex if a person has good intentions but a slack grip on the steering. For the last two weeks I have been working hard academically, and playing hard in clubs. My club game is now at a point of comfort wherein I can create sexual tension with most girls –I am still working on forming a good mechanism for opening, but I’ve now escalated twice and gotten kiss closes. Upon reflection against the goals set December ’12, I have achieved the targets of opening 10 girls a night and getting a kiss! This is a source of much pleasure to me and has contributed to a more concrete inner game which I have been building.

I have been doing club game exclusively for the last two weeks. Nothing in the day, and nothing in bars. Whilst my club game has strengthened, the rest of the picture has become more dull and grey. Notwithstanding, there is still a very interesting thing that has occurred. Despite this fact, my inner game has truly gone up a notch. I will illustrate with an example: this time last year, I had to give a presentation for a class, and had to get drunk to be able to do it. It was an experience that was shackled with nerves and felt quite bad. I just wasn’t a confident guy, I just couldn’t do it. My entire academic year was spent like this, and it sucked. This year, I’m a new man. I gave a presentation last week, I was confident, comfortable, and performed well. I answered all the questions for my group (of 4), and all of them came up to me at the end to shake my hand and tell me I was brilliant! One of them texted me to specifically say how well I answered all the questions given the grilling they gave us. I was rather proud of this. I’m also on the board of a large business related student-led group now. I felt amazing sitting in the meeting with the rest of the board and discussing the running of the charity. I cannot believe I have come this far. My heart was broken first year when I couldn’t’ do these sorts of things due to lack of confidence. Life has been so kind to me for allowing me to develop myself. I have been given a second chance at a young age, and I can now create the reality I want to live in. Jackal truly has re-built me.

Jackal is a man I respect, and I am proud to call him a friend and a mentor. I was lucky to be able to meet up with him this week socially, just to catch up. No real pick up was done on this day, we just talked. I shared my worries and apprehensions with regard to my recent quietude on the day & bar game front, but Jackal tells me the morphogenetic cycle of PUAs, the peaks and troughs, the off-periods are just normal. He likens it to working out at the gym – you take days off, expect to be punished for it. But no matter how hard you try, there will be days when the iron feels heavier than it should. Jackal tells me what I’m going through is normal. I immediately feel at ease. Jackal also showed me some of his stand-up…I was fucking impressed. His ability to be perform was first rate. This is a man who studiously engages with social-psychology and observes with a masterful eye from all angles, and the end result is a pleasure to see. I tell Jackal I want him to keep doing what he’s doing. He says he has not done a gig for some time, so I feel the need to encourage him, but I am not worried at the moment as he is doing the right thing in taking up the gig he’s about to do. Jackal taught for some time today also, he taught me practical theory on pattern interrupts and their usage for dealing with stressful or emotionally charged scenarios.

Fast forward to Friday. Pimping night. We roll up to our usual spot. Jackal is in set with Dave, who I’ve not met before. I stand around for a while.

I feel appalling. I want to go home. I look around at the women, and I do not fancy any of them. I do not want to be here. I do not want to do this. I don’t feel good.

A few minutes pass of me aimlessly standing there. Jackal materialises, and he begins to put me under his spell. I begin warming up, I open sets, straight up sit down which was an interesting thing Jackal made me do tonight (did it twice, worked both times) and had a great deal of fun. I am now warm and feeling good! It was great to meet other PUAs, met Joe and Dave tonight, Dolphin appeared later and was cool to touch base with him. We progressed to the next place. Jackal had me stop three girls in the street and kiss them all on the cheek. Done with ease. One of them asked me if it was for a bet afterwards, and said I should have just told them cause they would have let me do it straight away! Such a nice compliment. Opened set after set in new venue again. Dave winged me for one set, and it was such a fucking pleasure to be winged by a real PUA. We opened a two set and spoke to a girl each, my girl wasn’t really hooking, so Dave swapped us around! He did it masterfully, he kinda walked around behind me and physically moved my girl to him, and put the other girl in my space. It was all done so naturally and fluidly. I was impressed and also appreciated that he winged me! Now I’m talking to a hot girl…Interaction is going amazing, IOIs, lots of eye contact (Note: I learned this recently. It’s a fucking game winner) and this girl was very interesting. After some intense eye contact and putting our bodies real close to one another, it got really quite heated. We were looking into each other’s eyes longingly and she looked at my lips, then at my eyes, and then again at my lips a few times. She wanted me to kiss her! First time I’ve got this lol. So, I knew a kiss close was on. Continued the interaction with my dress sense story:

Me: (story about gay guys hitting on me etc etc)
Her: (in response to me saying I’m not gay, and said while high sexual tension) Prove it.
Me: (Go for k-close!)
Her: (moves off and giggles)

No dice! But we kept talking right after this happened. After a few minutes, the girls say they need to go on, but the girl I was talking to said she wants to see me later on in the night. Interesting….Hah
I had a fucking hardon during this set. The sexual tension grew too high between us, which is why the kiss closed failed. I went in a bit slow too, you can’t let em think about it – Jackal says do it while they’re talking! Jackal explained the concept of Push/Pull to me. You must push to create tension, and they pull away to demonstrate higher value and increase your chances of success. I was pushing and pushing and got us both hot under the collar, but given I did not pull, it did not work in this case. Happy that I do now go for the kiss close! I remember a time when that was impossible haha! I am glad to have properly learned about Push/Pull anyway, it clicked tonight.

So it’s now me and Dave, we’re zipping around, opening sets her and there. Dave is a cool guy and I like his company, so it’s a pleasure to spend time with him. We continue opening sets, and then we bounce to a new bar. As expected, many sets were opened here. I got a lot of IOIs, one group of girls were discussing how to open me, they commented on my cheek bones lol. I went outside for a while, and they came over. However, I was on my way out – I heard one of them say ‘oh no he’s finished’ in reference to the fact they thought I was smoking. I’m used to getting female attention now but it’s fucking bullcrap. My approach to it now is to ride it and just be holistic about it, if I want to approach, I can, but I also want to experiment and find the girl who will open me from it. This way I can find a girl with real confidence.

ANYWAY, me and Jackal convene outside. He inspires me with his heroics tonight, and I’m told to open two more sets before I can leave, as I have to write an essay tonight. Opened both sets and stayed in there for as long as I wanted, both sets were pretty girls who were cool as hell. Asked me lots of questions, and were really pleased to meet me. Interestingly, upon asking for my age (to which I made them guess) these girls thought I was 18 lol! I’m 21, but I was quite flattered because before I lost weight girls used to think I was in my thirties…Also, concerning where I’m from, all girls guessed at my being from Oxford or Cambridge. Last year, people used to think I was from Bolton or other such places. No disrespect to Bolton and the North, my SPAM is a Leeds man and is basically a legend, but I find it quite unbelievable that my voice has changed so much.

I’m happy to be back on the horse.

I am only a student PUA, I’m not the real deal yet. I will openly admit, that right now, if it was not for Jackal, I could not do this right now. I couldn’t. In a different life, had the man’s story been somewhat altered and another path been chosen for him, this man would be a professional PUA and teacher, and probably one of the best in the UK. I am very confident in this statement, and anyone who doubts it should spent one night with Jackal. The enthusiasm, passion, energy, drive, desire to see his students do well, constructive and well-thought-out encouragement, professional and confidence-inspiring leadership – the man really does have the full package. He does what he does for free, I want to use this post to thank him. Tonight made very clear that Jackal is a Stallion among mere foals. With him in my life, I believe I really can succeed in my career and personal life.

‘To me one man is worth ten thousand if he is first-rate’ – Heraclitus

Enroute back home, given I left at 11 to write an essay, I walked through one of the bars we were at previous. The girl I tried to kiss close saw me, and her friend shouted out for me. I ignored and walked on. I do this a lot, I punish girls for missing their chance with me. I suppose I do this due to the fact that I put a lot of work into myself, I am hard working, academic, studious, and without sounding arrogant, am told my dress sense is great…physical appearance seems to allow me to get by too. I truly consider myself high quality, and I believe girls know this, I wouldn't get IOIs daily if it was not for this, hence, I am always willing to weed out the weak. I don’t need you. I am truly progressing with escalation and am becoming more outwardly sexual, a girl kissed me on the cheek in the library today which was totes random...lol.

Peace & Love,
R

NOTES:

*OBEY THE LAW OF PUSH/PULL.

09/03/13

The night proved eclectic. I was due to be in my student’s union tonight, enjoying the company of my friends. Due to several issues with ticketing, my friends did not end up going, and instead went to another club in town. I had two groups of friends going, so it was no problem – however, I ended up not being able to find the latter group. After some searching, I grew frustrated, and left. I went to the club my friends were at via taxi, couldn’t find them there, although a barrage of texts 20 minutes and phone calls proved that they were well-hidden, so I just hopped in a cab and went to join Jackal’s crew.

However, my time in the club was good. I am now so fucking comfortable in clubs and bars, I feel at home and totally relax. As such, my body language has just naturally begun to exude confidence. I received a fair number of IOIs in this club; one I really was happy about was the barmaid. I went to the bar to get some water, I gave her the usual big smile and strong eye contact, and she was really quite receptive. She gave me my drink, and afterwards we smiled at each other and it was a pretty decent gaze, we kinda stood there for a few moments. I felt a connection. She was very pretty, prettiest girl I’ve spoken to for a while actually. Remember, at this stage I was trying to find my friends, so I did not bother closing. This was a silly rookie mistake really, and is suggestive of a very lax approach to pick up.

So anyway, I bounce around the place, manage to secure a few IOIs, one girl gave me pretty strong eye-contact as I walked towards her, she kinda prompted me to dance but like I said, trying to find my friends, I smiled and walked on.

IOIs are there to be tested. It is perhaps best to think of IOIs not as an approval that a girl finds you got, but as an invitation to escalate. I believe we will be better pick up artists if we adopt this philosophy.
I’m then in a taxi and off to a bar to meet Jackal & Crew. Walk around the venue, find Jackal while he’s in-set. I stand there observing, and then Jackal calls me over. I greet Jackal, greet the girl briefly, and sit down away from them with my body away from the girl so as to show lack of interest in her. I was trying to wing basically, but I didn’t do it properly. What I should have done was simply walk up to Jackal, given him a big, warm, value-boosting greeting, and walked right off without acknowledging the girl. Proper back turned shit. I am learning more about winging now, there has been time where I’ve ballsed it right up and talked to the girl, but in future I will wing my friends properly. I never, ever join sets without my friend specifically telling me to.
I am pretty much cold, but I don’t need to warm up that much today. I just go right in and start opening sets, it’s no thing. Danced a lot on the dance floor which was awesome, and got a very, very complimentary IOI..
I’m dancing to a song. I am a good dancer as far as clubs go, I could potentially be good objectively if I took it a bit more seriously and practiced moves etc, which I may start doing, but I can move. I am dancing, and a group of girls is in front of me. They’re kinda designating one of them to go for me. This happens. One of them gravitates towards me and then begins the hair touches etc, she tries to grind on me at one point but it’s very half-baked and I’m not bothered. Like I’ve said before, I want confidence, so if a girl properly opens me, I will actually consider her decent. I do not find one singular girl in this entire bar remotely attractive, older age-range, but nonetheless I’m in it to win it. Anyway, one girl was with her girlfriends and some guys, they kinda huddle together and point me out a second. Then, this girl double takes towards me, gives me a strong stare, kinda shakes her head like ‘…wow’ and begins to fan herself. I do get this sort of thing quite regular. Needless to say, I just carried on dancing. My friend prompted me to open one girl on the dance floor, which I did, but I couldn’t really be arsed.

I will outline two of the interesting sets from tonight.

#1
Two set. I open them, Dolphin joins me after a few minutes, I let him get one girl while I take the other. We talk for a bit, girl is asking me loads of questions, we enjoy our conversation, I’m in my happy, jokey frame so I’m just chatting away. Verbal is something I am strong in…It’s not a particularly amazing skill, as you can see I’m a virgin, but I can certainly do it as well as most guys who consider themselves good. Ask anyone who goes out with me, they’ll vouch for my verbal game. Physical game is fucking crap though…lol…Yeah I am newbie give me a break! So anyway, me and this girl have been talking for about 10 minutes. Just real social. Then…I get AMOGGED for the first time. And amogged hard.
Guy walks in, goes straight to the girl, says something like I see you’ve met my friend. He immediately kinos her. He then disables me very well. Here is a break-down of what he did:

1) Shook my hand. Kept my hand there. He was aggressive, did it like he was mad.
2) Looked at the girl, and said isn’t she beautiful. Asks me what I rate her out of 10.
3) I say I don’t rate people out of 10.
4) He says ‘You must be the binary of people who doesn’t rate then. Do you use the binary scale?’ (By now he has taken the frame…I did not realise this til after, I assumed the cunt was her boyfriend!)
5) I’m kinda like yeah, whatever dude. He tells me I don’t use any scale.
6) He moves in on girl, holds her and tells her to kiss him. Girl says she is not sure I will be happy about that. I have my back to her at this point. He kisses her and walks off. Girl then shouts out to me, I have already walked off and when she shouts my name for the second time I just do a talk to the hand thing while my backs turned.

This guy was a good PUA. While the girl was telling him that she wanted to talk to me, he just moved right into her and told her I was a wing man and I’m not interested. He was able to totally control the frame.
This would feel shit for a normal guy, but I’ve got Jackal as a teacher. He tells me how to control the frame in future using a very interesting handshake method. I did not realise I was getting amogged, but now it’s happened, I will be ready in future. Said girl glanced at me on the dance floor later on in the night, we held eye contact for a second, but I looked away. I was totally not interested in her any more. The guy who she kissed was fat and ugly. I would not allow this woman to lick the bottom of my shoe. From an interesting psychological standpoint, she must have felt like a bit of a slut, and perhaps even a bit remorseful, but I remember from when I was flaked on by my crush Jackal told me the pain of missed opportunities is healed by the influx of new ones. The joy of closing heals the pain of rejection, Jackal said. Think about it then from a girls perspective….They get hit on 100 times a night, so they do not give a flying fuck if they miss out on you. There is the odd guy who probably will evoke some remorse though. This guy who amogged me did get a lot of stuff about the girl wanting to talk to me, but because I actually did leave the set he was able to close. I could have gotten the girl back if my game was stronger. This has prompted me to take the Venusian arts much more seriously.

#2
Jackal tells me to stop two girls. I do so. I say I want to talk to them for two minutes, they say they will time it. I take a girls hand, Dolphin comes in at some point and takes the other girl, and I talk to them about my night. She is holding on to my hand, and she gives me a few shit tests, tells me she’s engaged, tells me that she is more drawn to Simon who joined us at some point, but then after passing the shit tests and giving her my opinion story on my dress sense, she tells me I’m working what I’m wearing well. She then says she would have a pop!

I’m just nodding and cool with the comment. I look at Dolphin and he’s smiling, which then makes me laugh a bit as I don’t think we expected it. Said girl high fives me and leaves. She was older than me considerably but whatever, she was good looking.
Jackal then told me to open sets by saying come home with me. I said it to one girl and she was not very fucking amused by it lol. Then said it to another who actually smiled, then one more who didn’t hear whatsoever and I bricked it.

I did not really feel great about doing this, but I did it anyway.

I have been doing pick up for some time now and have not had any sort of connection with any girl I’ve met. I’ve spoken to loads, and I have learned that girls are nothing special, and only one in every hundred is even worth you glancing twice at. Only one in every thousand is worth a second of your time. Romance is bullshit. I am totally indifferent to women now. I have never, ever felt any nerves around them since starting this. I do not care about women any more and I am quite sure I will not have a relationship with one for a very long time. I put a hell of a lot of work into myself, I have had to formally learn to become a pick up artist just to speak to women, and having now spoken to hundreds of women, they have all fallen way, way, way short of what I want from a person. They have all demonstrated a pathetically low calibre and I no longer have any desire for forming another half in my life. I am just going to do pick up, work hard, and live my life. I am going to change my mind set so the focus is on me and my development. I am detached and I do not care. I am taking my journey to become a pick up artist very seriously from now on, and actively pushing myself.

Thanks.
R

Dolphin gave me an outstanding method for Kino I had not considered. This is advice I am truly taking on board and will do on the next girl. Thank you for your help, I appreciate everything you gentlemen do to help me in my inexperienced state.

R

08.03.2013

Bit behind on posting my reports!

Friday nite and hitting the town with kiss close mission at the forefront of my mind, focused, driven and unable to accept anything but ultimate success. At least that was the plan at the start of the evening!!!

The energy seemed low in the group at the start of the evening, not the usual flurry of electric optimism. It seemed to take a while for the crew to warm up and I ended up focusing more on winging, ultimately losing sight of my own goals and ambitions.

Nonetheless it was a fun night, Chance has summarised the evening far more successfully that I could ever hope to as his passion and writing skill exceeds my own. (Refer to his previous post)

Even though I lost focus on my mission I still enjoyed the interactions we had and it was great to see the new guys move forward in their game. Just need to make sure from now on that I ensure my goals are given the priority.

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