Believe in yourself you can do it.

We have all been there. Everybody that started out had the same problem as you. When I started I followed the 3-second rule from Mystery now I follow the 1-second rule which is more efficient and effective for me.

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I got over this by taking up jogging. I'm totally serious. Not only is it a good health choice, but if you fuck up your game somehow, you can literally run away. There were several times when I awkwardly ran from women, but in any other situation, you have to slink away. At least with jogging, "Alright. I gotta keep my heart rate up. See ya." Not too many prospects though, as for many people jogging is all business, and you have to catch someone who's resting or walking. Still, it helped me get over that fear a lot. At least for daytime game.

Alot of people have got great advice, just like ethan said, dont go out to pickup, forget out picking up altogether. Go out have fun. When your having fun then just snap and go screw it walk up to a chick ask her to dance or talk to her, if she rejects you. Go back and party and act like it didnt effect you. When you dont react angrily to rejection like most guys the chicks are gobsmacked. He got rejected by me, but he doesnt care what the hell!!

My first approach was lastnight, i thought getting rejected was gonna make me feel really shit. But it was the opposite i felt awesome, why because i actually approached a chick. Maybe im just weird, but i felt great getting rejected. Because at the end of the day, no one in their whole life will ever not get rejected and if they've never been rejected its because they havent even tried. Like people said on this forum make a tally of rejections. Some who gets rejected 100 times, is gonna be alot more skillful and confident, then someone who has picked up 10 times and never been rejected. Because when they do get rejected they sadly will probly jump off a building or something.

Hope that helps. Just have fun and then do it. But must be having fun first.

You're not the only one. I've been ACTIVELY practising for 7 months, and yes I still have AA as well. It never ever goes away. But what I did find out was that:

- When talking to just anybody, ANYBODY, the AA slowly drifts away and you get into state.
- It may never go away.
- The feeling holds you back, but it should kick you into approaching mode
- Don't put pressure on yourself with goals like: "I HAVE to kiss a girl today, or I have to get a number today".

Hope it helps.

Wallie

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