Hey hey! Shazram here, recovering AFC and I have a quick question.

Which is better to start off with, direct or indirect game? My major problem with indirect is that I have a hard time actually asserting myself as sexually available. I realise this also comes down to me not probably having enough DHV spikes but going up to a woman and saying 'what will it take for you to fall inlove with me' works out a lot more positively. I hear direct game is more of a higher level thing though.

Thoughts?

it is a whole bunch of crap. Direct and indirect depends on the situation. Some guys are purely direct, some are indirect, and some guys are both (me). For example, you wouldn't run up to a girl who is 20 yards away and go indirect, you made a big deal out of it trying to catch up her so might as well go direct. Go with whatever style you are comfortable with first. You will gain confidence and then can change your game if you need to. Good game is GOOD GAME. Anyway, once you get yourself solid inner game, it is not going to matter.

My personal preference is indirect because it conveys my personality and I like warming a girl up. However, I know when I need to start amping up the direct game to avoid being friendzoned or if I suspect the girl is a time waster, but this is just me.

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That's a fair point. I'm new to this all and am still figuring out what suits me better and how to approach a variety of different situations. Thanks man.

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Good thing you are still a newbie. There is a lot of advice out there and I suggest you keep an open mind. Most of all practice and practice. You will develop your style over time.Everyone is unique. Just don't suck in too much information at once like I did and most of the people who started out did. Confuses the shit out of you and you get lost for awhile.

Taken from the 7 habits of highly effective people:

"Identify and apply the principle or natural law that governs the results you seek. How we apply a principle will vary greatly and will be determined by our unique strenghts, talents, and creativity, but, ultimately, success in any endeavor is always derived from acting in harmony with the principles to which success is tied"

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