One was a French girl who believed I was ignoring her and believes I did it on purpose because I found someone else. She isn't totally wrong about that...however, she wanted to see me more than once a week and that was a problem for me since I was seeing a few other girls at the time. That is the first girl.


The second girl, I don't know why, but I just flaked on her. Pretty bad mistake on my part. I tried to reschedule with her but she responds with a "you must not care enough". This is my second girl.


Any useful directions here guys? If it helps, I closed the french girl, but have not closed the second girl.

Now for all you ethical guys who are going to ask why I want these girls back. Well for the french girl, I like her company. I would not consider her a LTR, but she is a solid once a week kind of girl. Now, for the other girl, I haven't even done anything with her. Which is why I would like to see where it would have gone. And there you have it.

Mr. A out.

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did you lie to the french girl? or mislead her into thinking she was the only one? if shes aware of your lifestyle (dating multiple women, doing fun stuff, always busy, etc.) then she should be able to accept seeing you only once a week. if you get back with her, its important that youre honest with her and that she knows shes not your girlfriend. its better to lose her than to lie to her, lead her on and ultimately break her heart.

with the 2nd girl, i wouldnt put too much effort in. try to reschedule a few times and then give it up if shes being all bitchy about it. whatever you do, dont be logical and argue with her. dont try to explain yourself. remember, girls do this to us all the time and if we acted all butthurt about it like she is, theyd stop talking to us. so just keep it light like its nbd and she might come around eventually. so it be something like:

you: hey ive got a bunch of episodes of [tv show] to catch up on tonight, come over and watch em with me.
her: blah blah blah you must not care enough blah blah blah [or whatever she said]
you: lol ur silly

then leave it alone for a week or so and if you dont hear from her reopen with something else.

I think I know what I must do. I just got a little rattled by the situation because my harem has been going through a rough patch and I was getting concerned.

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