posted this somewhere else but i'm not sure the correct section.

So I met this girl on a dating website, met up and had a great night, went back to hers and banged.

I was a virgin and she could tell. I couldn't cum after like an hour of thrusting and I had to jerk off to finish.

The next day I texted her and she was cool with it, we had a regular convo. Then I brought up sex again and she hasn't messaged me back for 3 days now. I know shes read it and she's been active on the dating website and fb.
How can I approach this for a second chance or something.

I'm thinking of just texting her saying i was a virgin and apologize for my preformance. Is there anyway to get her to respond positivly without me coming off as creepy or needy.

Cliffs
-Met girl online
-Lost my vcard
-I did not preform well, she was experienced.
-stopped talking after
-how do i text her back without sounding needy or clingy.

why did you bring up sex? Why could you just not ask her to hang out. Be smooth about it. Most of the girls would respond to "hey lets cuddle" or "hey lets watch a movie" better than "hey lets fuck".

Don't bring up your damn virginity or your damn lack of experience. It's life. She has to get over it, not you.

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If she hasn't responded to you in 3 days, move on. Don't settle just because she was your first lay, she's probably already forgot about you and is boning some other guy rite now. If you start txting her with excuses you just come off as needy and it wont change anything.

Just a little word of advice, back when I lost my vplate I unfortunately had the incident where I came far far far too quickly and she obviously realized I was a virgin.

At the time I went for the stewing with anger by myself which I think might have been an accidental freezeout. Anyway I was downstairs having a drink and she just comes downstairs basically jumps on me again.

That one went from fucking to fuck buddies to relationship. So its not always bad. Infact its probably thanks for her I've got so much confidence now and can fuck a girl senseless.

never complain about going too early, thats the way it is, no excuses, just make her happy in other ways and go for it again when you are able