Hey Guys! I need some help around here.

I'm 19. First day of Community college this beautiful cuban girl (23 years old) with red hair comes and sits next to me. We just exchanged a couple of words... the next class day she comes and sits next to me again... coincidence? doubt it... We had some cool in depth conversation about religion (I'm atheist, she's supposedly Jehova's witness), Got her number. After that we just keep sitting together and flirting all the time.

This girl is a sh!t tests master... she keeps me on my toes with questions, and teasing me to see How I react. For example: the day we really started talking; the conversation opener was a bracelet I had that said "I love Jesus" (which I wear because my christian mother gave it to me.) she asked "Your girlfriend gave it to you?"... obviously trying to find out if I had one.

Sometimes she throws random age related 'sh!it Texts', and negs the shit out of me... I think I do a pretty good job at passing them and brushing them off. One day we were in our typical flirting and smiling when one of the teachers made a comment about us flirting all the time.. Which surprised both of us, but it was all shy laughs and smiles from both of us. 2 hours later after we said goodbye she randomly text me first with "So funny, your face turned bright red in class today"... I had my weakest response of all time to a show of interest. My reply was "Never... Really Lol. When was this"? trying to act a little cocky which I think I failed miserably... she never responded back to that particular conversation.


I been using Kino and Escalating little by little... specially when it's time to say good bye after the class. (cheek kisses, my hand around her shoulders). In one occasion as we were saying goodbye I told her playfully "come and give me a hug" which she replied "I don't hug and I Kiss".... didn't pick it up fast enough. I was an idiot.

Today was the same. Flirting... good vibes good everything. We come out of class I put my hand around her shoulder "she says, what is your hand doing there" I reply with "I like the way my hand looks there" we kept walking when she shouted "Cotton candy" which I ignored because I wasn't excited about it, and because I didn't noticed it. we stop there and she got her cotton candy.. She told the dude selling them "He didn't want me to get cotton candy" the douche "jokingly" said "ohhh... if I was her I would break up with you".. we're not even dating... so, I just brushed it off and laughed. Ate from her cotton candy as we walked out and kept flirting.. Hug her and gave her a good bye kiss. the mood was light! confidence through the roof and as she was leaving I told her "what you doing next Saturday" "she said going to my aunts house* flaky flaky! I told her "alright, another day that you'll be free?"... now comes the biggest shit test so far; in a good mood and flirting matter she said "I'm not going in a date with you" I replied "Is not a date, It's like going out lol", she than claimed "I don't want to go babysitting" and "You can't drink"... I kept playing it smooth and trying to brush it off. I told her "You sure like to play hard.." "You'll end up going with me anyway" she laughed and part ways there.

It's like she knows she has the upper hand in experience... and keeps shit testing me. Not sure what should do next? I'm about to give up with this girl.

She's an attention whore, just getting off on the attention you give her in class. Her actions - making fun of your age, rejecting your advances, show that she isn't interested in you.

How do I teach this girl a lesson?

Easy, give your attention to another girl, and not to her. Lesson learnt.

As in going completely cold on her? I'm going to admit this; I been helping her a whole f*cking lot in our math class... which as put me behind a little...

she's used to sitting next to me, for help and what not. If I sit with another girl.. I'll have to change my routine drastically and sit in another row. she'll be shock that's for sure.

First error you made is putting her in front of yourself. By that I mean that you are going out of your way to help her with her work before you are done with yours. Get your ish together. If you need to do your own work first let her know kindly and tell her you will help her when you can. Be a challenge.

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she thinks you are a baby, prove her wrong. sit elsewhere, talk to other girls, take longer ( or dont respond at all ) to respond to her texts. be more cold during conversation, less interested and more of a detached i dont really give a fuck vibe. dont walk with her after leaving class all the time. dont laugh at her jokes that you dont find funny. call her out on shit you dont like. challenger her ideas you disagree with. and next time a girl says she doesnt hug she kisses for gods sake kiss her on the goddamn mouth

All you guys have some what open up my eyes... some great comments! but I wanted to hear something more specific like the OP above me.

She even gave me a compliment yesterday... when we were talking about getting jobs. She said I should work for Armani Exchange by the way I dress. which skyrocketed my confidence on the spot...

I know that if I was this girl's age, she'll be jumping up and down right now.. and that little voice at the back of my head (conscious) would not be reminding me to act a certain way because she's older.

But enough with the lame excuses and "questioning the Universe"...I'm gonna get back on track and treat this girl how I treat all other bItches. No more paying full attention to her during our assignments and making sure she passes her sh*t. As well as going my way after class instead of walking her to her car (sight).

Keep flirting with her and hit on other chicks also at the same time.

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STOP reading pua material. Go out, get LAID

you're comming from a frame of seeking her approval

you don't have to go cold on her or ''teach her a lesson''

that is just switching it up from being approval seeking, to being reaction seeking, it's what a little kid does when he he's needy for something, he sucks up first, plays nice and trys to supplicate to his parents and does favours, then when he realizes he can't get what he wants he gets emotional and throws a fit or trys to make his parents feel bad

don't do that, just be normal, stop allowing this girl to use you for favours, but if you like her there's no reason to stop talking to her, you can still be friends if she isn't attracted to you and you can meet her female friends and try to sleep with them instead, if she won't go out with you, stop asking her out and ask out other girls, work on being less invested in specific girls unless they sleep with you, and more invested in the idea of meeting a higher number of girls to run your game on, work out the logistics first and don't do all this SHIT TEST she likes me, she likes me not stuff where you focus heavily on one girl unless she focuses heavily on you first, see if the girls you are interested in will come hang out with you alone under a context that is clear (not social or to do homework, hanging out for the sake of hanging out) and once a girl is hanging out with you, don't talk for 20 years and do nothing, take a shot at kissing her

GOOD LUCK

What I like to do with girls who illicit my attention is to do compliance test with them.

Stuff like, so when are you going to buy me a drink? Make them work for my attention and approval.

If they comply, then I reward them with my attention (number, or date)

If not, I drop them like a hot potato because they're just fishing to use some unwitting bloke.

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