I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We aren't really official yet. I usually see her twice a week. When she has the house to herself for a week she wants me to stay over every night. Should I do this or only a few to maintain mystery and the impression I'm busy? We are early 20s

6 months is a long time. Do you want a relationship?

She has asked me and I said I like wher things are now and I have an ex still kinda hangin round the picture. How long u think this one will be around if I don't commit?

she will eventually get tired of it. She is human, remember that. Expect an ultimatum at some point.

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And then I'm pretty much forced to give her an answer? What should I say to keep things as they are at least for a few more months while I decide?

Let's call the relationship what you have for what it is. You and this girl aren't going out... you have a fuck buddy. You see her twice a week and you don't want to stay over her house for a week. You've been banging this girl (I guess you're banging her) for half a year and you want to continue banging her, with no strings attached, for the other half of the year. There's nothing wrong with that. I've had a girl ask me "what are we?" and I told her we are what we are. We sleep together. I was banging her for about a year and she decided to stop sleeping with me because she wanted something more serious. She has a man who she has a kid with and I think they either got engaged or married. My thing is why string a woman along if you don't want to really keep things serious? When you're ready to get serious with a girl one day, you'll be able to tell her without hesitation, "You are my girl and I'm your man. That's what we are"

I think you shouldn't worry if staying at her house for a week straight will kill the interest. It may draw her more closer to you and you to her. Do you want that? This may be her way of trying to convince the both of you to get more serious. Do you want that? My opinion just stay at her house for a that week and if the "what are we?" question pops up just answer honestly. You may not keep her but you'll find someone else if she has a problem with it. Not to sound cold-hearted but it's worst being with someone who doesn't feel the same way about you the way you feel about them.

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