Hey guys, I've been frustrated lately because I can't seem to close very often. I'm physically fit, tall dark& handsome, hell girls even tell me I'm hot *sigh*

I'm a genuine nice guy with some shyness and good confidence however I would classify myself as rAFC. I can Get Girls interested be cocky/funny, flirt, push/pull yadayada but when it comes time to man up, create Sexual Tension and escalate I just CANT find a way to pull the trigger! About a week ago I had isolated a really nice HB9, she gave me multiple positive IOI's, but the sexual tension just wasn't there, and I couldn't bring myself to K-close. I know some guys would kill to be in my situation which is frustrating but is also extra motivation.

Any thoughts or advice is welcome

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Just gonna have to break out your comfort zone and escalate.

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Bumping this post...

In the last month I have been in numerous situations where I have isolated with a girl, received multiple ioi's, but I seem to put the close off on a point, without generating any sexual tension. So when the time comes to actually close, I just cant bring myself to pull the trigger! It's like 1st min resistance all over again, and believe me, its frustrating as hell!

In most of the situations that I'm talking about, a simple routine like Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me?" close or even something AFC like "lets make out" would have worked. (I was walking a HB9 home that was ready to jump on me, and when we came to her house, I was feeling this intense resistance. I said goodnight, gave her a hug, and went on my way. I looked back a couple houses away and she was still standing there watching me leave.)

Anyone else having trouble with this last minute feeling of resistance? Any help gratefully appreciated. this has happened multiple times, and is really frustrating and depressing for me

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Imagine having sex with the girl. Really visualize it. Visualize a dominant man giving this girl the night of her life. Humans have a self fulfilling prophecy pattern...I read that somewhere. Visualize you and this girl and the rest will come naturally. It gets your head out of your ass and lets you overcome those doubts you have. Remember to touch, touch, touch, touch, and more touch.

Time to go to wikipedia and type in self fulling prophecy. Something should click.


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I actually lol'ed at this. Sorry. She was probably like "WHAT IN THE FUCK?"

Anyway, you have some anxiety. Normal. Read up on DiCarlo's Escalation ladder. You're thinking too robotic. Truth is you want to be touching before you're even kissing. Touching builds up tension more than you think.

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Good advice.

It's basically sexual state projection plus kino.

Are you familiar with sexual state? That's what you should work on the most here. Quit following Mystery's shit.

Thanks for the replies!

I checked out DiCarlo's Escalation ladder. That's some quality stuff right there.

So lack of kino and projecting sexual state seems to be the source to my problem. Defiantly feels god to discover your sticking points so you actually know what you need to improve on.

Thanks again guys. Cheers!

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good buddy,
it happens,
wel next time , try to play wid her hair, if u get chance , try to smel her hair, and if the gal she didint move
then kiss her on the neck or ear,
and hug the girl as a( not a st huggin, but i can say the shoulder hug) and walk some more steps, for a while,
and mean while if the girls starts herself playin wid the her hair, take some private place and try to kiss her on the head...
just give a try......

Read this:

http://www.authenticpua.com/dating-arti ... l-tension/

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