so a while back I asked you guys if blondes require a different type of game.

Some of you gave me good answers and a lot of you starting ranting like usual. One good piece of advice I managed to get was "take em off their pedestal". A particular user in here told me that when you ignore a blonde in a group of girls and give her less attention, it works and makes her want you even more. This applies to a lot of women but it seems in my experience that it applies to blonde girls a lot more.

So a week back I was at a party, talked to these group of girls (4 of them, 2 brunettes, 1 ginger, and 1 blonde). I kept minimal attention on the blonde, never showered her with complements (like I have done on cold approaches before), didn't give her much attention, etc.

It seemed as though she could not deal with and this girl KEPT on pushing the conversation with me and asking me questions, even talking to me more than other girls did to the point I was replying to her.

Basically, by not caring as much about her being there, I had success with her and ended up nailing her.

THANKS GUYS.

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People say blondes do not have the same IQ level as other women. I have found that to be somewhat true but I think it's due to circumstances and they don't even have to try. Blondes are more rare and if they were born blond, they will get approached more as a whole.

sad how so many dudes desperately hit on em

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Sounds like you were doing a good push pull on her. Congrats she is use to getting hit on so when you don't it makes her wonder why. The key most people forget is you still have to show her some attention. Most just ignore her. Good job on the lay.

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Paramount,

You are one of the guys from this forum that I would never want to meet. It seems that every single threads I've seen of you is purely superficial and has no real content.

This hair obsession of yours is crazy and pure mental masturbation. A girl can dye her hair on any given day and that will not change her personality.

I am seriously advising to stop thinking on a superficial level, worrying about nationality, skin color, hair color or all that non-sense to justify your lack of success. Thinking like this will only harm you in the long term.

MrMatt

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I would not want to meet you either, so lets agree to never meet.

As for superficial, well, I used to have the whole all girls are created equal mentality until I noticed some girls gave me no results while others gave me lots of results.

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Seconded! I have found more success with hot women when I started to just love women! I dont give a fuck what her stats are. If shes playful and not a bitch.... game on!

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I agree with paramount. Blonde girls need a completely different game. due to the very nature of the atoms that make the hair that specific colour it changes their mentality. therefore the game must be different.
in fact it has been proved by scientists that blonde girls have their own unique kind of personality different from every woman in the world.
actually hair colour is the single most important factor when it comes to pick up.

Pfff...

A chick is a chick! I don't give a shit about her hair color!

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Agreed.

Paramount - your opening post on this thread basically says take blonde girls off the pedastal. Two things with that - 1) The same is true of girls with ANY hair colour. 2) Even if you say in your head "take blonde girls off the pedastal", by somehow turning blonde girls into being the "best" type of girl who are mysteriously difficult to pull, and who need some special attention to be able to succeed with - you are putting them on a pedastal. Yes, you can pretend that you are taking them off it, but in reality, you're just saying they're somehow better than other girls and somehow more difficult for you to succeed with because of their hair colour.

Now you can have "a type", nothing wrong with that. But I'm not sure why you seem to think blonde girls are different. What exactly makes them different? One or two blonde girls reacted well when you 'took them off a pedastal'? Well do that with a few brunettes too and you'll see a similar result. Do it with a few more blondes and some of them might not react so well. Girls won't all react the same way to your techniques, but that has got absolutely nothing to do with their hair colour.

I wouldn't go as far as out to completely change my approach with things like hair , but there are a few, albeit IMO mostly minor differences when it comes to hair. Fro example, from my experience women with red hair are more likely to to have bitch shields. But with regards to race, you definitely sometimes gotta change your approach, just because women from different cultures may look for different things, such as a more romantic type of guy.

I am speaking from pure experience, again, redheads love me a lot more than other kinds of women but my results with blonde girls have been really bad. It is like I have done well with all kinds of women but them in the past so something is indeed up. It isn't just hair color alone either.

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It's probably because you've got this "I do really bad with blonde women" thing in your head. If you think that going into an interaction, then that's how you will come across. I'm not into all the philosophy side of things, but generally it does hold true that if you mentally picture something happening a certain way, it is far more likely to come across in reality.

That's what I mean about you are actually putting them on a pedastal, even if you say you're not. Simply by thinking blonde girls alone need to be treated differently and that you get different results with blonde girls, you essentially are putting them on a pedastal.

I have tried to see all women as equals, only to be burned and rejected by certain groups of women at higher rates.

It isn't like I started off as being this guy who makes a big deal out of this shit but I saw the results and had to adjust as needed.

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