Serious question.... you can only pick one, don't cheat! M&M,Skittles or strawberries?

Strawberries lol why?

The foods actually represent certain popular traits in women....strawberries is an interesting choice....

M&M hater!

why strawberries?

Well, M&M's can be good sometimes but strawberries taste good to me alll the time. I'm a huge fruit lover! I love going strawberry picking in the summer with my aunt and making jams and pies. I just love the taste, it's sweet enough without overwhelming the taste buds... I have nothing against chocolate, I just prefer a regular dark chocolate bar lol milk chocolate is too sweet sometimes ...

what do strawberries represent? lol

It means you're fun and quite creative! Whats the craziest place you ever had sex?

I'm a virgin to be honest.

I love your honesty
Any particular reason for that?

I wasn't ready in High School.... A lot of College guys lack a certain amount of self control. I just like to have a connection and a certain amount of trust between myself and a potential partner. I'm not holding out for any religious reasons. I just want it to feel right I guess. I've heard so many horror stories lol and I have soooo many friends both male and female who regret how their first time went down. I don't think virginity is special or holy. I just think it's an experience and I would like to share that with someone who it feels right with.
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HOW DO I PROCEED WITH THIS? I fucked one virgin before and the other two I dated never let me get it in. I hate when girls hold there sexuality over me, hold there pussy over me.....so i have to take em on 50 dates and buy shit and still get no where physically.....how do I avoid this?

Lol just got a girl saying i've tried that line on her before but had never spoken to her so I guess it is being overused!

I posted this topic almost a year ago, so yea it would be overused by now. Here's another fun one you can try, I have a lot of replies with this one.

"Strange, you look just like my friend's sister whom I'm not allowed to sleep with. Is your sister [insert a random name]?"

I got like 80% response rate with that one. I overused it in my town but I'm pretty sure it's still fresh in other states so test it out.

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I still got decent response rates with the previous one and some good conversations going, only 2 people replied with they have heard it before.
And thanks I will be trying that one too!

Going back to the original opener i've been stuck in the following spot with two girls. I followed your original post which included a conversation with slight alterations, and have got stuck in similar situations just after I mention going home with me. One example:

Me: You are a very fun and creative person who loves a romantic setting. And you want to come home with me ?
HB: Ha I don't know about that one.
Me: Oh... so you are not fun and creative?
HB: Funny guy eh?

Or was it just a lost cause?

I don't know how the whole conversation goes so it's hard to tell. But from her responses, it seems that she wasn't interested. Most of the time, during a few replies back and forth, you can gauge the girl a bit. Then you will have an idea whether she's genuinely not interested or just the ASD.

One more thing is facing rejections, don't take it too personal and being too defensive or give out negative vibe. In your case, you attempted to qualify her at the end after she rejected you. It just shows her that you're petty and being negative against her for not taking on your offer. Just like shit test, you don't react to her bullshit, instead you push through with a ridiculous joke or ignore it.

So with such response like hers, with my personality, I'd say something like "Oh don't worry! Of course, I'll feed you before the pillow fight Sushi or steak?" (I acted like she said yes and assumed that her reason for not taking on the offer is something so ridiculous. You get the idea. It's all about frame control.)

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She did seem to be more interested earlier in the conversation but thanks for the tip there great help, am still learning!

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This is actually a pretty good thread. If I found this I could've seriously turned around a dozen or so interactions.

This is definitely legit. I have 2 numbers and a 3rd on the way, and were supposed to go for drinks tonight. All HB8s. A HB9 just responded so we'll see where that goes. I've just followed the formula with my own little touches. Like saying, yeah I totally knew you were a strawberry. All of them who responded have gone with the strawberry so that does flow nicely into the strawberry field routine. One girls answer for how many was, Well, I'd just stay in the field so I can get strawberries whenever I want. Some for breakfast or dinner, some to just snack on whenever. I laughed.

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That girl is definitely a keeper I found the strawberry field test is the most effective way to subtly sexual escalate. You can just flow into a sexual frame smoothly with this. It's great to use to game in person also, not limited to just online. You can use the opener anywhere during day game, just tell them you'r trying to decide what dessert for dinner, or whatever excuse you have. They respond well also.

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Hmmm... What's the strawberry opener? I hear a lot of references too it, but I haven't seen it.

When a girl responds but just says something simple like "strawberries", "chocolate, why do you ask", etc., what should I say to keep the playful banter going? Instead of jumping straight to question 2 (roller coaster, body of water, etc.), I would like to flirt around a little bit first.

The following are some I have used to get so-so results; curious what you think I could do better or differently

"Not sure if I should tell you what it means, I don't want to offend you :p"
"Haha very interesting choice.. why did you pick that? those actually represent certain popular traits in chicks "

Yeah you're totally a strawberry I called that one...

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WHAT SHOULD I SAY NOW???
ME: Hey there - just wanted to say hello and that your profile really caught my eye.. cute Serious question, and you can only pick one: chocolate, whipped cream, or strawberries?


HER: Is that something dirty?



ME: Well aren't you quick to jump to conclusions... Its a pretty innocent question actually, I'll tell you why later if you answer



HER: Ok, then i'll go for chocolate

ME: Yeah you're totally chocalate I called that one


HER: Why? Because i'm fat?

Okay I know you follow my routine but be flexible with every girl. With experiences, you will be able to adapt your game accordingly. In this case, she's giving a big hook to qualify her and make a deep connection. So it comes down to if:

- you want to push through for a quick number -> "The food rather represent for certain popular trait in chicks, it has nothing to do with that . Next question"
- you want to create more comfort and better impression -> "Not at all. But why? Do you feel that you are one?"

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