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Yeeepp run into this all the time.
She likes you, is receptive then throws out a rough shit test. You have to treat it like a shit test otherwise she is going to loose considerable interest when you fail.
The way I usually go about the I have a BF,married,age,etc is treating those words like it's the most irrelevant thing ever(Show her you really don't care and focus on her)
Don't have a crack at her BF/relationship etc it will make her focus on her relationship, you want her to be enjoying the moment and emotions shared with YOU. Good luck man, your making a shit ton of progress lol
preciate it man i finally feel like i'm getting somewhere.
Its taken lots of work and dedication.
#6
needed an approach so just went for a hired gun
told her she was pretty. went about my biz cuz i was generally busy.
- designate time for sarging
#7 funny as hell
Went to the passport office. I walk in there are 5 chairs and I sit a seat away from a guy and a girl who are spaced out evenly *woulda sat next to her but it woulda been between the two* they were talking but I got the feeling that he wasn't doing it right because she was warm when i walked up and started talking to them. Lol I asked them if there were in school (college town) he said he was and she said she was taking a break. I started talking to her about what she was doing with her life and how was the whole "break" thing going for her. lol then she drops the bommmbbbbbbbbb. She drops in the "ohh its going greatttt just enjoying the
married life

". I knew she knew i was going to start flirting with her so she threw it out. Now had I read bingoberry's statement earliar i probably woulda plowed through it but it was funny to me. she asked me how was school and I said "oohhhh just enjoying the single life

lol then i proceeded to stop talking to her
-plow????
#8 girl i had in a class
I go to the DPS to get a new drivers license. If you have EVERRRRRRR EVERRRR EVERRR participated in the American drivers license process. LONG AF AND BORING AS HELL. I see A girl i had in a class and sit next to her. We talk and I tease her its light flirting. I asked for her number and found out she and her BF broke up. She gets called before I do NBD
-flirt harder escalate more
I came to a huge realization more after this
#9 girl on a bench
Sat next to her because she had funny hair and i felt bad. She was cool and all but i just wasnt feeling it from her and I didnt really want her to be honest. I didnt move closer or hug her or touch her or anything just a nice polite conversation. I validated her (just had to tell you I really liked your hair) and bounced.
What I learned
I was thinking about why havent I had any lays lately like why did I get the first one and I havent been able to have some success in some weeks. Then I was thinking and I've had some day 2's and isolations since them but why havent I been able to get the kiss close. Then i realized I havent been leading correctly, see every interaction you have with a girl or another person
YOUR RESPONSIBLE FOR. I was thinking about some words that Danial Balboa told me and constantly talks about in his journal "escalate like a dirt/scum/filthbag. Theres a part in his journal where he specifically says "I havent had a day 2 where i couldnt get a kiss in a long time (it was a year or something)". I have been pussyfooting and have totally undervalued physical escalation. Basically i been pussyfooting
My old model of game that I thought of was like this emotional connection + sexual connection = lays
Its not that that is wrong infact I still believe that its right its just not as even as I thought. See no matter how strong your emotional connection with a girl without the sexual connection you will never get lays now i realize its more sexual connection = lays. The emotional part of the connection only serves to break down her barriers in order for her to fuck you. See you can fuck a girl lots and lots and lots and THENNNNN get to know her. Women have a notion that they dont have sex with strangers even though they fantasize about just that. You WILL most likely get resistance if you never connect emotionaly but you dont have to. BUT YOU WILL NEVER EVERRRR EVERRRRR GET A LAY if there is no sexual connection.
At first when i started to heavily do the things neccesary to become a PUA i read Chiefs outer game guide.
I was so fucking shocked at the fact that he has little to know verbal game on there.
Its probably the smallest and least explained part *to my memory ...no offense chief could be wrong* I found this weird because almost all of the methods focus on WHAT TO SAY. The part that really matters though is the compliance ladder. Many guys have claimed to pioneer ways to get lays but its pretty much all the same thing. You get her to do smaller things which lead to larger things described in one word as ESCALATION. In reality what to say doesnt really matter because in order to emotionally connect with a girl all you have to do is shut up and be interested while she talks endlessly. We all know that once you the ball rolling that BITCH
WILL NOT SHUT THE FUCK UP. Women..love...to...talk
when i wanted to kiss a girl I would be all over her and trying to hold her but the girls wouldnt hold eye contact or they wouldn't stay put. I now realize thats just because i needed to:
1) build more compliance (hold hand, kiss on the cheek, etc)
2) start being extremely sexual to that point of no return aka dirtbagging (push her, spank her, grab and manhandle her)
60 said couples kino first then sexual kino so thats what gotta be done
Also the reason why I keep getting flakes is because i continously stay, social. I dont elicit a relationship or directly flirt with the girls. So the sexual tension isnt built. well enough
THE GAME ISSSSSS ESCALATION NOTHING MORE AND NOTHING LESS
When i first thought about this i was like Damnnn i've been gipped and conned. This whole time i've been reading all this bull about what to say (its more how you say it anyways) and none of it matters because any guy can get physical with a girl and rapid escalate. Then i realized that "of course anyone can do it with enough practice anyone can do anything." Basically all that pick up stuff only serves for # purposes
1) to make her laugh
2) to raise your value through good conversation
3) to distract her while you escalate physically
basically pickup aint as hard as you think it is if your a rookie its actually very simple
1) make her laugh
2) shut up when she talks
3) escalate physically
I realize thats over simplified but as far as i see it, thats pretty much everything i have learned
I finally get it, I understand this stuff.
