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PostPosted: Fri Jan 25, 2013 8:29 pm 
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In honor of my bro Daniel balboa I decided to sarge on this asian girl that I always see on campus.
Respect.

Much love

Anyways started a blog and a twitter cuz i want to start my own business. This is just the beginning but ima stick with it till it takes off. its in my signature if you want to check it out i would greatly appreciate it if you followed the twitter

Today i was in a shitty ass gaming mood but i gotta get some reps in everyday and stay dedicated and diligent it was a shitty day but eff it all that matters is that I got out there.

approach #13
Random girl walking wanted to try my walk infront of her. Lol whats wierd is these girls know your going to do something so in order to make it not awkward they try to avoid eye contact if you go straight direct and confrontational. I stand right infront of her and go direct. She just stops deer in the headlights.
-keep talking but i'm in a shitty mood and just want to get some in


#14
Go into a coffee shop and sit with a random girl.
In the college town i'm in there is a HUGGEEEEE christian community its almost impossible to game without running into some super christian girls. I sit with her and realize her book is about the bible. Nothing wrong with that but as soon as we start talking she immediately asks me my views on religion. I tell her about reading about Buddhism and that I plan on reading extensively about all of the 5 major religions. Its kinda weird because i come from a christian background and shes the most convicted person i've ever met. We talk about it and she actually tells me to go ahead and find out for myself (an oddity) she thinks the truth will win. Ive never met a person who believed that much. Idk if anything is true or not but I know that it was kinda a breath of fresh air.


A random babble not really teachable:(religious you may not want to read)
I just don't know what to believe anymore. There is soooo much information in the world and so many perspectives for example. On one hand all major religions teach you not to value materialistic things specifically currency BUT in order to do all the things I want in life I need lots of currency. It all seems like a paradox and I am questioning the world and existence. Why would a god or any god put us here on earth just to send us to hell or accept us into heaven. Everyone tells you their religion is right and they all seem to believe it, whose right and whose wrong??? why are we here??? what should I value?? i have a feeling only i can answer these questions for myself.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2013 4:35 am 
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The start of a new week *deep breath of fresh air* AHHHHH
Lately i haven't been feeling like sarging as much because 3 sets a day everyday seems arduous as fuck. Even though its tedious then a mofo I still push myself cuz this is what I truly want and love. Despite all the fuckin flakes and setback I will become a PUA i kinda think I was born for this.

#1 coffee shop girl
Went to a coffee shop. Sat with a girl introduced myself shook her hand and begun talking. Couldnt get much out of her she kept to herself. Low interest.
-Try negging low interest girls to get them to open up??

took a break cuz my state was in the toilet I just didn't want to be there, flat out. Its just soooo tedious sometimes when it becomes a chore you forget to love the things that your really enjoy. FOR everyone that reads my journal I'm in what you call the "pain period" its when your first starting out to intermediate level. Your not great or anything but your regularly sarging and running sets. You often get rejected and your #'s arent great but if you stick with it you become great. 95% of people dont become puas and its because of this stage. make sure you stick with it!

#2 girl outside of target
walked up to her went direct and hugged her 3 or 4 times. She was feeling it but instead of sticking with it and talking i just kinda let it die and walked away...shit state
-hold her hand try to climb the ladder

#3 girl at a grocery store.
Went direct. it died I hugged her after about 30 secs and bounced weakly
-stay in set



#4 while i was writing this this badddddddd asss Asian girl walked in
oooowiieeee shes super fine i had seen her before. i hit a double take on her Lol I go direct and go for hugs quickly. I figured out you can get hugs within like twenty seconds of the interaction. We fluff for a minute and I get her number as she leaves. I'm trying to talk to strengthen the close but she bounces
-escalate even moree

Learning points:
I am starting to feel like daygame is very similar to night game. Its all about getting physical extremly quickly. Rapid escalation is the key but in day game its harder because the environment is not as sexually charged.

My state was such shit today. I really didn't want to game I just wanted to run my sets and leave. I feel like its important to plow through this and run your sets because if you only practice when you "feel like it" you wont get the consistency or momentum to becoming better.

I was watching a little video on text game and it was talking about building intrigue through text which i felt was GENIOUS i even tried to practice a little

For this week i'm trying to hold womens hands more. I need to get intertwining fingers but its hard to get that quickly (possibly a limiting belief?)

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#5 random girl in the caf
Sat next to her and she was warm from the go. I start giving her hugs and start touching her and looking into her eyes. She seems pretty receptive untill she mentions her Bf. I # close and offer to show her the library she accepts and we walk over there. I'm pretty sure its a flake so I just start messing with her.
-Bf destoryer ?

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Yeeepp run into this all the time.

She likes you, is receptive then throws out a rough shit test. You have to treat it like a shit test otherwise she is going to loose considerable interest when you fail.

The way I usually go about the I have a BF,married,age,etc is treating those words like it's the most irrelevant thing ever(Show her you really don't care and focus on her)

Don't have a crack at her BF/relationship etc it will make her focus on her relationship, you want her to be enjoying the moment and emotions shared with YOU. Good luck man, your making a shit ton of progress lol

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2013 5:06 am 
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Yeeepp run into this all the time.

She likes you, is receptive then throws out a rough shit test. You have to treat it like a shit test otherwise she is going to loose considerable interest when you fail.

The way I usually go about the I have a BF,married,age,etc is treating those words like it's the most irrelevant thing ever(Show her you really don't care and focus on her)

Don't have a crack at her BF/relationship etc it will make her focus on her relationship, you want her to be enjoying the moment and emotions shared with YOU. Good luck man, your making a shit ton of progress lol
preciate it man i finally feel like i'm getting somewhere. Its taken lots of work and dedication.


#6
needed an approach so just went for a hired gun
told her she was pretty. went about my biz cuz i was generally busy.
- designate time for sarging

#7 funny as hell
Went to the passport office. I walk in there are 5 chairs and I sit a seat away from a guy and a girl who are spaced out evenly *woulda sat next to her but it woulda been between the two* they were talking but I got the feeling that he wasn't doing it right because she was warm when i walked up and started talking to them. Lol I asked them if there were in school (college town) he said he was and she said she was taking a break. I started talking to her about what she was doing with her life and how was the whole "break" thing going for her. lol then she drops the bommmbbbbbbbbb. She drops in the "ohh its going greatttt just enjoying the married life :)". I knew she knew i was going to start flirting with her so she threw it out. Now had I read bingoberry's statement earliar i probably woulda plowed through it but it was funny to me. she asked me how was school and I said "oohhhh just enjoying the single life ;) lol then i proceeded to stop talking to her
-plow????


#8 girl i had in a class
I go to the DPS to get a new drivers license. If you have EVERRRRRRR EVERRRR EVERRR participated in the American drivers license process. LONG AF AND BORING AS HELL. I see A girl i had in a class and sit next to her. We talk and I tease her its light flirting. I asked for her number and found out she and her BF broke up. She gets called before I do NBD
-flirt harder escalate more

I came to a huge realization more after this

#9 girl on a bench
Sat next to her because she had funny hair and i felt bad. She was cool and all but i just wasnt feeling it from her and I didnt really want her to be honest. I didnt move closer or hug her or touch her or anything just a nice polite conversation. I validated her (just had to tell you I really liked your hair) and bounced.


What I learned

I was thinking about why havent I had any lays lately like why did I get the first one and I havent been able to have some success in some weeks. Then I was thinking and I've had some day 2's and isolations since them but why havent I been able to get the kiss close. Then i realized I havent been leading correctly, see every interaction you have with a girl or another person YOUR RESPONSIBLE FOR. I was thinking about some words that Danial Balboa told me and constantly talks about in his journal "escalate like a dirt/scum/filthbag. Theres a part in his journal where he specifically says "I havent had a day 2 where i couldnt get a kiss in a long time (it was a year or something)". I have been pussyfooting and have totally undervalued physical escalation. Basically i been pussyfooting

My old model of game that I thought of was like this emotional connection + sexual connection = lays
Its not that that is wrong infact I still believe that its right its just not as even as I thought. See no matter how strong your emotional connection with a girl without the sexual connection you will never get lays now i realize its more sexual connection = lays. The emotional part of the connection only serves to break down her barriers in order for her to fuck you. See you can fuck a girl lots and lots and lots and THENNNNN get to know her. Women have a notion that they dont have sex with strangers even though they fantasize about just that. You WILL most likely get resistance if you never connect emotionaly but you dont have to. BUT YOU WILL NEVER EVERRRR EVERRRRR GET A LAY if there is no sexual connection.

At first when i started to heavily do the things neccesary to become a PUA i read Chiefs outer game guide.
I was so fucking shocked at the fact that he has little to know verbal game on there.
Its probably the smallest and least explained part *to my memory ...no offense chief could be wrong* I found this weird because almost all of the methods focus on WHAT TO SAY. The part that really matters though is the compliance ladder. Many guys have claimed to pioneer ways to get lays but its pretty much all the same thing. You get her to do smaller things which lead to larger things described in one word as ESCALATION. In reality what to say doesnt really matter because in order to emotionally connect with a girl all you have to do is shut up and be interested while she talks endlessly. We all know that once you the ball rolling that BITCH WILL NOT SHUT THE FUCK UP. Women..love...to...talk

when i wanted to kiss a girl I would be all over her and trying to hold her but the girls wouldnt hold eye contact or they wouldn't stay put. I now realize thats just because i needed to:
1) build more compliance (hold hand, kiss on the cheek, etc)
2) start being extremely sexual to that point of no return aka dirtbagging (push her, spank her, grab and manhandle her)

60 said couples kino first then sexual kino so thats what gotta be done

Also the reason why I keep getting flakes is because i continously stay, social. I dont elicit a relationship or directly flirt with the girls. So the sexual tension isnt built. well enough

THE GAME ISSSSSS ESCALATION NOTHING MORE AND NOTHING LESS

When i first thought about this i was like Damnnn i've been gipped and conned. This whole time i've been reading all this bull about what to say (its more how you say it anyways) and none of it matters because any guy can get physical with a girl and rapid escalate. Then i realized that "of course anyone can do it with enough practice anyone can do anything." Basically all that pick up stuff only serves for # purposes
1) to make her laugh
2) to raise your value through good conversation
3) to distract her while you escalate physically

basically pickup aint as hard as you think it is if your a rookie its actually very simple

1) make her laugh
2) shut up when she talks
3) escalate physically

I realize thats over simplified but as far as i see it, thats pretty much everything i have learned

I finally get it, I understand this stuff. :D

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2013 9:56 am 
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Here's an easy sentence to remember what game really should be aiming to accomplish:

"You can't have sex without first getting sexual."

Look, I love to build an emotional connection. There really is a lot to be said with bonding with a girl and it will make EVERYTHING better and easier. But at the end of the day, the sexual component (or lack thereof) is what is going to make or break your ability to move things along with her. Without a sexual component, its just another interaction. That is, after all, what separates a male-female interaction from every other interaction. Just get fucking filthy with it.

Also, I still haven't read any of the 60 YOC stuff but if I am reading into this correctly the "couples" kino you mention here is probably along the lines of what I think I sent you via PM, when I made the distinction between sensual vs. sexual touching.


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Today i felt ehhh but my game was good. Its funny how you figure something out and it just changes your entire mindset

#10 girl in line
Waiting on campus to talk to the financial aid people and saw a girl in line. We just fluffed and i teased her but she was next in line (lol short line just me and her) and left after 30 secs.
-find a longer line

went to campus sarge cuz it was the PURRRRFECTTTT DAY

#11 i saw a stealth hottie. (a stealth hottie is a girl in the day who doesnt dress provocative but you can see the potential in her ooowieee she was fine under those sweats)
She passes me and i see that big ole booty under those sweats. I run her down Johny Berba style and begin to talk to her for a moment. I ask her where shes going and she says "sorry i was going to meet my bf for lunch its right there" lol I just tell her shes gorgeous and bounce
-maybe i should test these women to see if they actually have BF's


#12 walker
i'm beginning to be more direct and get that "strong presence" J. berba and sasha daygame speak about. I see a girl and tell her shes very pretty. we talk for a moment I ask her where shes going and she says home lol I grab her hand and we walk to the parking garage holding hands. Shes completly shocked and a little creeped out but she doesnt let go. I hug her and ask her about a scar on her neck.
whats that scar on your neck, you could be a murderer lol
--knife fight
ohhh caught you
--i had surgery
shes kinda dodging around its a little sensitive but i press on
why?
---I had cancer
O.O ummm sorry *hug* get her number and bounce
probabllyyyyy a flake....

#13 grocery store line
girl infront of me is checking out and I say "damnnn you must really love TV dinners". She tells me they arent hers they are the girls infronts. I introduce myself and immediatly begin going wild flirting with her. I start hugging all on her and tell the cashier "my girlfreind is paying for my groceries" lmao she gets done checking out and goes before I #close

things I learned
1) I kinda feel like the "normal" life wasnt meant for me...pickup is kinda in me. My uncle isnt married. My grandfather isnt married. My other uncles are either in struggling marriages or single. The men in my family arent into the marriage thing.

2) you can get sensual kino or couple kino verryyy early in the set, I'm talking like 10 seconds in. Like you can hold a girls hand or "claw" her quick as fuckkk its not a big deal.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 7:57 pm 
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Dint sarge during the day, didnt have time. Game is starting to become a integral part of me I feel like i've adopted the right mindsets...

#14 girl I kinda know in the cpu lab (never closed at all)
she comes in with her dog and I Immediately start flirting with her and walking over towards her and touching on her escalating. Its going pretty well and we begin to talk about what happened between her and a dude that I know that she messed with. She wanted to continue the conversation so we go outside so her dog can run around. I start to escalate more. I begin touching her and sitting closer lol apparently I wasnt smooth enough because she is noticing and tells me to stop (playfully) its that kid like ...stoppp touchinnggggg meee all drawn out and shit. LOL i take this as a cue to keep touching her. She keeps telling me to sit back down. She aint doing shittt and if it was that bad she woulda just got up and left. She mentions that she needs a can opener. I tell her to come to my place and she can get one. She drops her dog off at her place which is a few places behind mine and comes back. Lol I try to begin to escalate but she wasnt feeling it used my can opener and bounced no hug no kiss.
-2 steps forward 1 back?

Went to a ghettoish party its was bangin. You know just like the movies with loud rap, people basically humping on the dance floor, its dark and its hella black people.

#15 Some random fat chick that opened me
Just talked to her for a moment to get introduced to her freinds.
-stay in the set longer and learn some group theory

I'm chillin with my boy just enjoying the music and he says "brahh whose the baddest bitch in here to you"
O.O umm her over there
"well go take your shot at her bro, fuck it"
lol i just walk up and get behind her

#16
i was dancing with her, she was grinding on le cock but I dont really know how to dancefloor escalate lol or dance so i was just kinda bouncing with her think it pissed her off and she stopped.
-congruence issues?
-dance floor escalation

#17
Walked out the party to put my jacket in my car. This group of hispanics and a white girl open me. They say where is the party? I tell them where and then they ask if we have to pay to get in. Lol "naa but you can pay me and they laugh" I tell them to follow me and usher them in. I flirt with them but i was leaving to go to another party so i didnt close any of them. At one point I ask them why they arent drinking. Lol they shit test me and say
"bring us something"
I tell them -woahhh dont try to play me for my alchohol girls- I walk away and i hear one of them say
"i dont think he's gonna bring us anything"
lol I turn around and walk right back into the circle and say - nahhhh your right, i'm not bringing y'all ANYTHING-
they laughed its kinda a cocky funny alpha thing to say

the other party was a bust and we come back
my friends wants to comes and brings two chicks. The one for me is a hispanic chick with big tits mmmm just my type.

#18 hispanic chick
Shes being awkward as fuck, its loud and we cant talk so i just begin hugging on her, shoulda been talking in her ear real close like urghhh just thought of that. I start to try and get dirtbag with her. I try to pull her on the dance floor but she aint bout it. Sooo i begin to try to become alpha after all...I'm the man (mindeset)
So i litterally just grab her hand and begin to drag her but she wont leave her freind and my boy. At first shes game but I try to go from "little brother" hand hold to laced up intertwined fingers. She lets go :(
-build more compliance

I walk out the door and there is a cop staring right in my face. I do an about face right back in and say cops and everyone scatters crazy like, its people running around and it clears out quick. Nothings more scary for a black man than a cop...besides a paternity test :lol:. I kid, I kid. That was the night

What I learned
There is a certain amount of escalation you can do on the dance floor thats rapid. Also you gotta be a fucking dirty bastard. I'm now at the point where i am just escalating, grabbing hands, and trying to get physical quick. The mindset you should have is that your going to fuck this girl, your going to escalate on her shes gonna resist and your going to plow until she says no and leaves (no rape if she genuinly wants to leave let her go) or you get sex. Escalation is game fella, you gotta be a touchy fuck.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2013 8:17 pm 
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Objective for the week is to go for kiss closes.
A weird thing has been happening to me lately, I havr noticed that if I grab a girls hand to lead she'll taje it but they won't lace em up???

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flirtation:
As I figured out last week escalation is game. I think I have been getting alot of flakes because I fail and have failed to escalate the conversation and physically escalate. Flirtation is simply just another part of escalation. You have to make sexual innuendoes pull out chase frames and generally act like you want to be with the girl. The conversation cannot stay indirect and social. thats death.

mindsets:
I have come to realize in these past couple days that I havent sarged that I have some inner game issues in regards to attractiveness that are holding me back. I have come to realize that all of my natural friends generally believe that they are attractive. They think they are the shit and that they have something great to offer to a woman. I know that I have PLENTTYYYYYY to offer to a woman more than most buttt I have negative conditioning dating back to childhood that has been fucking with my self esteem. I was the fat kid that always got picked on, I sometimes revert back to that mindset and low self esteem ego that believes that I am not worth anything, am not attractive and gennerally suck at life. It really messes with my confidence and I need to eradicate some of these inner game issues that have been pulling me back since I was a child. Alot of times I realize that I just don't expect a girl to like me, in fact a majority of the time I expect to be rejected which is just negative and can really kill your game. Everyone is insecure but I feel like when I take an objective step back and the general population those of us who aint gettin any are veryyyy insecure about ourselves because we think that we arent good enough. Even great looking people are insecure because they feel like they are only worth their looks which do fade. I realize that I have to work on my mindsets and the way I approach life in order to change the results i'm getting with women and the greater world at large.

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#1 random hit and run approach earlier in the week
Walked straight up to a girl in a parking lot and told her she was beautiful lol as I saw that her kid gets out the car and says "mommy!!!"...lol i just laughed and walked away

#2 Was feeling shitty so i made an approach
It was raining outside and the girl just simply walked away lol

#3
campus sarging
Sat down with this girl but she got up a few moments after because she had to go to class, she was mildly interested...shoulda pulled

#4
Wanted to see what would happen I decided that FUCK IT i'll just have fun with this ran up on some random girl said "hey emma...wait your not emma" and began talking to her after a lil I just let her go

#5 random stop and direct, didnt hook


teachable points
I have been thinking about allll the times in my life when I had women on me *its been sporadic* it always came at a low point when I was like "Fuck it i quit women i'm just done with it" then it seemed like girls were texting me and all on my nuts only to hop straight back off when i began to be aggressive. You cant be aggressive with this, you gotta be receptive. after all you cant MAKE a woman like you if she isn't attracted then you cant do anything by being aggressive. Even mystery uses the IOI count to decide when to start escalating. Shes in a way gotta choose you then you turn it up. Thankfully alot of women are giving lots of guys tons of IOIs we just arent converting it.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2013 3:02 am 
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i've had some approaches this weeks havent chronicled them! Ehh I havent been pushing myself enough, I haven't been having enough fun with this either. After about 5 months seriously pushing myself I think I could be better. I gotta dedicate myself to this more and more sometimes it just get daunting to me but FUCK IT

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The system: it has occured to me that I have been stabbing in the dark soo I quit..naaaa jk if anyones gonna become a pua its me. I'm sticking to it! but really I have been stabbing in the dark because I dont have a system that can carry me. I'm relying on momentum to get me through Its not repeatable. In everything there is some form of organization or plan that Can be repeated over and over again. In fact thats what they talk about when they talk about method! I have now figured out that I have to have some type of repeatable thing so I'm developing my own method...(could take years)

Got like 7 approaches in but none of them boiled down into actual conversations, this has been a big sticking point of mine sometimes I just don't know what to say...which is dumb cuz you can actually say anything.

I'm doing great going for the approaches, I still get some form of AA but i can overcome it and go for it.
What worked today and how i'm boiling down my method is this so far.

1) Approach

2) open indirect or direct

3) judge reaction
-red = completely creeped, tries to walk away, just a definate no-go
~neg or tease(PLAYFULLY) to test whether you can open her up

-yellow = responsive generally happy, kinda quite though, pretty ambiguous about the whole thing
~ tease(playfully) transition to comfort quickly go direct

-green = laughs, smiles and begins to IOI immediately
~ go direct

4) Get to know each other (this is where i'm a hit or a miss sometimes I dont go direct enough) (60% of the seduction)
- vaccum (WHO WHAT WHERE WHYS HOW)
- make statements to keep the convo going
- kino lots and lots
- get lighly sexual
- get very very flirtatious
- get direct
- learn about her
- escalate

5) close (havent gotten here consistantly which is why i'm changing it up)
-set up day2
-kiss close
-f close

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I also realize that I am at my absolute best when I am most flirtatious and touchy feely and direct so tommorow My objective is to get here as fast as possible
-hugs
-holding hands
-sois
-genneral escalation of vibe and physical

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Just ran a set i'll dissect this one because it was pretty good I feel

I walked into the cpu lab of my apt(its a college living thing) and see a lil hispanic girl probably a 7 sitting on an open computer I sit next to her. Now i'm nervous as fuck and it takes me literally 3 or 4 minutes to open but i push myself. I honestly have been pushing myself today. I cant think of any sets that I didnt open other than during crossing periods at campus

1)I open her indirect with a simple
"hey"
she responds with a "hey" I'm nervous and i sit quietly looking at the screen
Then i ask her whats shes studying

2)shes a yellow or red

3) I immediatly judge the reaction and tease her because shes got a laptop and is on the cpu (they are next to eachother)

4) she opens up and starts asking me questions, IoIing me etc At this point theres mutual attraction

5) i start going direct, I hug her, we start flirting etc etc

6) she tells me she is going to leave because she cant study with me in here. I say we should hang out and she should give me her number and I put my phone infront of her. she says you just give me your number. I said I asked you first I laugh and then I just deadpan face her and turn around (i feel its a shit test)

7) then I just start talking again after she puts her number in my phone to solidify. I need to start coming up with plans at that point but didnt

She leaves and we hug goodbye she tells me this reminds her of high school, I just smile and say thanks

What I learned
The teasing after the IOD definately works, after you get IOI's start flirting immidiatlely and dont respond to shit tests just dead pan her then grin and keep going!

this is what i feel the current situation looks like in my system

1) Approach

2) open indirect or direct

3) judge reaction
-red = completely creeped, tries to walk away, just a definate no-go
~neg or tease(PLAYFULLY) to test whether you can open her up

-yellow = responsive generally happy, kinda quite though, pretty ambiguous about the whole thing
~ tease(playfully) transition to comfort quickly go direct

-green = laughs, smiles and begins to IOI immediately
~ go direct

4) Get to know each other (this is where i'm a hit or a miss sometimes I dont go direct enough) (60% of the seduction)
- vaccum (WHO WHAT WHERE WHYS HOW)
- make statements to keep the convo going
- kino lots and lots
- get lighly sexual
- get very very flirtatious
- get direct
- learn about her
- escalate

5) close (havent gotten here consistantly which is why i'm changing it up)

a) #close
-logistics
-set up aday 2[/b]

-kiss close
-f close

What worked really well is just calling her out on her bullshit, she said she had a BF i asked what his name was etc it worked well

Social proof

a system that I have realized always happens in social proof

1) positivity, positive mood and good body language
-this is all happens before the actual building process

2) talk to the lessers
-befriend the dudes, compliment them on their style in a no homo fashion, shake hands kiss babies kinda shit
-flirt(lightly more so playfully) with and befriend ugly women and obstacles. Dicarlo said that if you touch 1 girl in the group you can touch them all. If you already kinda flirty with the ugly the good ones will be less likely to find it wierd


3) move on the the majors
Talk to targets ( go direct at some point and run game)
befriend the man or woman who is running shit (if you know them you know everyone)

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