| 30/01/13
The Heartbreaker
Opening, conversing, and closing is becoming easier for me. It’s business as usual now. I’m developing the skillset, and it’s becoming second nature for me. I’m enjoying this experience. Today, I can honestly say I am happy and fulfilled in my life. I am truly changing myself. I broke a big barrier for myself when I asked my crush out – have never done something like that before. Started text gaming this week too, which is coming along. It’s all a learning curve. It really is a skill set – it’s getting easier by the week. I get the occasional bad set, but it’s never been anything awful yet. That will come, no doubt, but I’m enjoying myself.
So, I’m buzzing. I decide to text my crush! I’m direct, to the point, and make my intentions 100% crystal clear. I open with ‘Here’s the plan:’ and detail that I want to take her for coffee on Friday. I’m hopeful, but not too concerned. I’m ambivalent towards it, but I do actually think she likes me and will let me take her out once. We’ll see where it goes right? Well, after an hour, I get a reply. She tells me she’s very flattered, but she’s interested in someone else. She tells me she wants to be upfront so as to not lead me on. I tell her they’re a very lucky person, and that I will talk to her soon and that she shouldn’t be a stranger.
But…Why have I been getting IOIs for all this time? She has the stared at me? Why does she toss her hair when I’m nearby?
Well, guys. I think she’s attracted to me, but she’s got something going on with someone else right now. Fair enough. I will be open and honest with you guys – I felt a bit deflated after this. It did hurt at the start – I kinda thought shit, interested in someone else, what’s wrong with me? It was a very nice text, mind. I know how the game is now, chicks flake, change their minds, and all the rest of it. It’s no thing. Better to pick yourself up, dust off and keep pimping. I need support, and I can only think of one person to turn to: Jackal.
I text Jackal. I tell him my crush flaked. My energy levels did drop, but Jackal’s response gave me a lot of strength and bolstered my resolve. He tells me I distinguished myself as a MAN. She will speak highly of me to her friends, and there could be further possibilities from this. Jackal tells me I saved myself a lot of time – I could have waiting a month of thinking about her and then got shot down, at least now I can explore other avenues now. I’m going to open another cute girl at Uni tomorrow if she’s in my class that day. I may take my time with this one, just ask to generally hang, and then give her my intentions then and there. I think the more time you spend with someone, the more they invest in you, subsequently the less likely they are to flake. I just want to get to know this girl as a person anyway, cause she seems cool.
The Hallmark of a Great Man is how he picks himself up when he falls. Lets keep on the horse.
Decided to have a few drinks to relax tonight. Went to my SPAM’s friends flat at their University campus, chilled and drank there, met this guys SPAM who invited me to a house party in the city centre. I go to the house party, meet some random people, and go to the club from there. I have arranged to meet my friends from Uni at the club – and when I get to the place, I completely ditch the new people and have a fucking awesome night with my boys hahaha! I am getting more comfortable in club game. I opened many sets, and I was able to command a few of them and stay in set for as long as I wanted. Club game really is weird. I get IOIs from chicks, open then, and they’re not up for it. Directness is the order of the day. Think establishing eye contact is important too, as Dave the Natural told me about this. Needless to say, I didn’t get close to kiss closing. Just don’t get the dynamics yet. But comfort is building! May try a different club next week.
31/01/13
Day Game
Energy levels low today. Tired from club, and bit heart broken. This is going to be the toughest sarge of my life. I meet Jackal, we’re in a different place this time. Jackal buys me a cup of tea – the caffeine boost and inner warmth couldn’t have been more appropriate! Jackal opens a large group, gets a free cig, and has them in stiches of laughter. My energy levels were totally low, so he had to direct me over. He tells me to get their opinions on the girl situation. I actually enjoyed talking to this set! Was fun. Jackal totally brought my energy levels up. Jackal then has me open the most beautiful girl with red hair…I go over, open, stop her, chat and attempt to close. She’s really receptive to my compliments. She’s studying fine art, and I tell her I’d like to take her to a gallery sometime. She’s a 6’1 model. I ask for the number.
Girl: I’ve got a boyfriend sweetie! (smiling, but said very sincerly)
R: Well he’s a lucky guy. Nice to meet you, have a good day.
(we hug)
Damn, this girl was hot! I had her going, and because she told me she had a boyfriend in the manner in which she did – I respected it. I could tell she had a boyfriend, her tone had that semblance of regret and comfort. She was very friendly though, should have taken her facebook. Ah well.
Open another set, she’s walking to work so couldn’t get her to stop, but she was cool lol. She was kinda unattractive from the front. Good body though. Whatever.
Open a two set of Estonian girls. Have a cool conversation with them, they were job hunting, we talk about the city, about the snow, and I get them both giving me IOIs. One gives me much stronger IOIs, but I close the other one cause I found her more attractive. Silly newbie mistake as they’re more likely to flake. Get a number close anyway so energy levels are recovering. Say I’m gonna take her out for coffee. Not gonna happen lol. I will practice my text game on her, and try and fuck her. Gotta lose that V. I bid them a good day and wish them luck in job hunting, give them a group hug and go back to Jackal. I was kinda happy after the close. Jackal tells me not to celebrate – looks needy.
Walking back with Jackal. He was very supportive of me, he tells me I’m doing well. I thank him for the support he offered me via text when my crush flaked, because honestly, they text took a weight off my shoulders. Really lifted my spirits. The pleasure of talking to cute girls and number closing took away from the pain of having girls flake.
I then point out to Jackal a group of girls where one of them is dressed up in a very bizarre manner, with newspaper orbs and stuff. He tells me to open them, and always remember to close! I go over, open asking wtf is going on, and then hang out with them for a while. They invite me to go with them around the city getting peoples reactions. It’s cool and good fun, they’re taking pictures of me and stuff which I like haha. They’re 4 Greek girls, and they teach me how to say asshole in Greek lol. I open randomers on the street to get their opinions on what is going on. I then spot a cute girl sitting on a bench, open her, chat to her for a while, go for the number close but again she was a girl with a boyfriend. She said it in an honest manner, I told her to have a good day and went on my way!
Then got a FB close from the Greek girls.
All in all, good day. 1 number close, but got to speak to Jackal a lot and he gave me some great support. His worldview is always so refreshing.
Brothers, have you ever had a crush turn you down? Your words would be appreciated.
Regards,
R
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CHAT
Oh YEAH! 
Since then i have been striving to better my self and make sure this won't happen again!
Your consistently meeting new girls and suddenly she won't feel so significant man , i mean really since yesterday's sarge my one-itis feeling have dropped significantly after talking to alot of beautiful women and getting a few numbers.
