So I know this girl, and I kissed her at a New Years party, we have been texting ever since and we don't really say good night but rather just continue talking when we are free. I'm really good friends with most of her close friends so they have been able to tell me a lot! It seems she likes me but she doesn't want to hurt my feelings by leading me on, because she doesn't necessarily want a relationship right now. Also she may seem slightly afraid that I like her more than she likes me back?! Which I'm not sure, and I'm going to quickly go off her if she stops playing along I think. However thinking about how she will now be acting now she doesn't want to lead me on even tho she may like me, I guess by accident she may play hard to get ?! Even if she doesn't mean to or know that she is doing it?

What do you think I should do, I'm actually quiet keen on her because she's a really cool girl to hang out with
Should I be playing hard to get as well ?
Should I start texting her less and almost make her miss me?
What other tactics can I use to make her have a greater liking towards me ?

Other info : she says she doesn't like guys who are dicks, or people who play hard to get, but she told me the other night at a party that she seems to like guys who are genuainly hard to get.

I'm also 16 going on 17 and she is in the same year as me.
We are both quite attractive and nice genuine people

Thanks guys any help is much appreciated!!

you need more girls than this one. Women are competitive when they see you can garner the attention of other females. Don't do it out of ill will, just do it because it will be better to just have those girls in background while your main girl gets her ass in gear. I saw at least 5 girls. May sound like a lot, but that should be the quota.

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Thanks, she says that she isn't intrested in player type guy? Should this effect my tactics of seeing more other girls if I want her to like me more?

That may be a sign of her getting jealous rather quickly, and thus getting more female attention may get her even more competitive. So yes, I would try to see more girls and make her jealous. If she does indeed get turned off by you seeing other girls, which is odd since seeing them does not necessarily mean fuck them and then dump them, screw her and you can give your shot at those other girls.

Well, put yourself in her shoes. Imagine all the guys hitting on her and then try not getting jealous (which is achievable, but a long process to get into this type of mentality). She is only saying that because she doesn't want to get hurt, but I say keep doing what you are doing and she will come around. Just keep being real with her and don't do shady shit behind your back. You like her enough to want to be in a relationship with her, so don't mess up by lying. Yes, do see other girls. A girl likes to tests your boundaries and if you find yourself being limited by her then she is slowly turning you into her lap dog. Do what you want. She will come around once again. Remember, we are dealing with girls here. They say one thing and do another. This isn't a logical process, so don't treat it as such.

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Well I think that she is not ready yet and you should wait . I know from experience that is hard to go into another relation after a big disapointment.