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PostPosted: Sun Jan 27, 2013 8:08 pm 
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Agree with the main points in the thread very much. Can we move the thread on a bit to talk about content? Obviously Skills you've listed your own dancefloor stuff in the opening post, but do you (and other people) want to open it up more and give some advice on what exactly 'being sexual' is in a wider general context?

It's an area I need work on; when I was at uni, a few beers and it was far easier. Now I'm trying to kick the booze and sexual escalation is a lot harder! I actually find it a lot easier in a club, because you're almost expected to be overtly sexual, but even here there is an element of calibration - on the dance floor, at the bar, in the smoking area etc all require different 'types' of 'being sexual'. So what do people class as 'being sexual'? Is it body language, is it dropping a dirty joke in to a conversation, is it innuendo, or does it not even need to be any of those things? Can it just be a well timed wink and smile? What do we think?

I know in the opening post Skills mentions the different styles, but is there some generic advice or tips that people think are worth passing on, both for me and others who have so far found the thread to give good advice but would like to get into more detail.
Examples and break downs to get a sense, you have to do the work in THE FIELD, and a lot of trial and error and failures, keep in mind all these guys have been doing this for YEARS:

Stebe Jabba( honesty, authentic, sexual)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTomKxvEVz0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcsA6eJzVRA


Tva_oslo (philosophical, intellectual reasoning sexual) friends with 60yoc and aaron sleazy

http://www22.zippyshare.com/v/82697531/file.html

sexaddict911 (chivalrous/gentlemen sexual) Look under "the dream" here:
the-skills-secrets-to-text-game-vt138170.html

Warped mindless(sexual inuindos/shoke and awe)
esp-model-of-escalation-vt97891.html

Me(dance floor sexual):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjymYC2IdZI

and trolling humor sexual/grandmaster style:
1-vt130740.html?start=0

aaron sleazy (escalation sexual) friends with 60 yoc and tva_oslo(teevester)
http://www.aaronsleazy.com/forum/viewto ... f=19&t=709

60 yoc (silence, risk creepy sexual)
http://60yearsofchallenge.files.wordpre ... n-vibe.pdf

Gunwitch (pushy persistence to the limit sexual)
http://wayofgun.com/gwmauto.html

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2013 12:34 am 
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Thanks for the links Skills, exactly what I was looking for. Cheers man.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:14 pm 
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All very true. Here's the problem for most beginners. Which I had in the beginning. Firstly when I was I was escalating,basic touches,like hand touch and brushing her legs and all,then the silent awkward starring(which works wonder). The then I reached the point of touching her leg,ok then she was all feeling it. Ok then she moved away,then the next day she texts me saying,that she was so turned on she wanted to 'fuck me' ok here's the problem,some women want it,but reject it cause of morale obligations,then some guys will take this as a no. How do you truly know she wants it,and is fighting the feeling?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:45 pm 
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All very true. Here's the problem for most beginners. Which I had in the beginning. Firstly when I was I was escalating,basic touches,like hand touch and brushing her legs and all,then the silent awkward starring(which works wonder). The then I reached the point of touching her leg,ok then she was all feeling it. Ok then she moved away,then the next day she texts me saying,that she was so turned on she wanted to 'fuck me' ok here's the problem,some women want it,but reject it cause of morale obligations,then some guys will take this as a no. How do you truly know she wants it,and is fighting the feeling?

It is cover by multiple people on the links, but anyways, women have greater consequences of being sexual than man do, we have no problem fucking anything that breaths, and bragging about our conquest. With women is different, they suffer slut shaming, society will call them sluts, whores, they can get pregnant, emotionally attached, and lose social and financial standing... So they go in most cases on auto pilot with the asd, or some type of resistance, specially if their friends are present. But anyways, you will most of the time encounter some type of resistance or avoidance of sexual tension when she is getting turn on.... Ok so now in person, assume she wants it, a girl will not go on isolation or agree to go to your house if she was not somewhat interested/attracted, the more field experience you get, the more body language signs will be obvious to you and the less to none lmr. Rinse wash repeat minimum 3 times without being NEEDY/SMOTHERING, remember escalation is attractive, lead and take the responsibility from her, reassure her of 3 things:

1.- you don't kiss and tell
2.- you won't just fuck her and leave her(use her)
3.- you don't judge

I also like the 60 lines "we are both adults we are not gonna do anything you are not comfortable with" .... For me personally i have good success with massages(look for my massage post). But the short answer is "experience" "body language reads". The more turn on she is the harder for her to say no. Look at the video of jabba how she is resisting to be kissed and then he makes out... He ignored, rinsed, washed, repeated. I think i saw that 3 times in the video.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 08, 2013 9:28 pm 
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This is something teevester(tva_oslo) wrote i really like and i do something very similar for those of you that do a lot of the traditional mystery method:

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First of all, I don't really think fit into the category of using "value" game as more people refer this to mysteyr method where demonstrating social value was one of the key points. In fact, I don't focus on demonstrating higher value, even if i do indirectly by dressing good, behaving in a cool way, body language and sometimes social proof - it is still important to point out that this is no my primerily focus.

My primary focus is sexual prizing which is a type of prizing where I demonstrate to her that I am good lover which offers sex without consequences. i frame myself as a good who can give her exactly that.

Mystery method: creating attraction by showing higher value.
Problems he usually meets: shittests
Benefits - can get a slighly higher lay ratio and is well fitted for "ho" - women who believe they are super hot (witout necessarily being that hot)
Cons: Takes too long, and it gives plenty of lmr, and the sex tends to be weak.

ME: creating attraction by making her perceive me as a good lover
Problems I usually meet: anti-slut defence
Benefits: Good sex quickly, less lmr, very good for freaks (girls who loves to control men with their sexuality)
Cons: Doesn't work well on women who are attention whores, desperate for social value.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2013 1:01 am 
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What do most guys that are good with women have in common, they are sexual, by being sexual you will never fall into the friendzone, and you will not waste time that you could be wasting with a girl that reciprocates... Yesterday I saw a video of a friend that is good, opens good, rapport good, and all that other stuff, but he does not close cause he is so scare of escalating, getting physical, being sexual, that he just rambles on and on and on and never shuts the fuck up. So his success and his lay ration is probably very low, while his effort is really high. Some other guys go on dates for 4 hours or more, and do not fuck the girl, then the girl becomes flaky... Here is what is happening they get with the girl and in their mind "oh shit everything is going so good, and she is enjoying my company, i do not want to fuck it up by showing that i am a MAN and getting physical" that is the wrong mindset to have... If you notice the community put a high emphasis on getting laid, the reason is that if you fuck a girl, that is the best way to get the girl invested and possible the best way to land a relationship. The mindset of an afc and a chode, is she is not that type of girl(she is a classy girl, she is different), so let me get to know her first, and be sexual last. That is a Disney movie bullshit. All girls are sexual but they need to play the society Disney role of covering it up, so they will not be label a slut which is seen negative by society(a bunch of bullshit). Now when you are sexual you need to calibrate what you are doing so you do not come across like a pervert. So lets take a look at different seducers and how they are sexual:

Stebe Jabba( honesty, authentic, sexual)
Tva_oslo (philosophical, intellectual reasoning sexual)
sexaddict911 (chivalrous/gentlemen sexual)
Warped mindless(sexual inuindos/shoke and awe)
Me(dance floor sexual and trolling/humor sexual/grandmaster style)
aaron sleazy (escalation sexual)
60 yoc (silence, risk creepy sexual)
Gunwitch (pushy persistence to the limit sexual)
Rsd (a combination of all of the above kind of)

If you do not learn how to escalate and be sexual, it will take you 10 times the time of someone that is sexual to get decent results.... Focus on being sexual put yourself out of the comfort zone be sexual. If you are training or following a method, or listening to advise of the so call "Gurus" and they are not putting and emphasis on escalating and being sexual, run Forest run, run fast the other way. So when is the best time that is good to get physical and escalate, the sooner, the easier and the better...
I totally agree with this post. Being sexual and sexually escalating is one of the most crucial things you need to learn in order to become successful with women. All of the best ladies men know how to sexually escalate and get physical with women.

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