He was just a student and he was a twat! However he did have game!

moving post man, read it twice

anyways I need to ask you, I know most women will prefer White men but was there ever a time when you felt and actually experienced women taking a black man over you mostly because he is black?

I have dated girls who were White but said they would never get with a Black man yet they were happy to get with me. Then again, this is the USA and it is the deep south.

Most people have their own sexual reference and stereotypes based on how they were raised. No woman would be the same. However, most of the women I met that weren't into black guys because of the hygiene and social intelligence. Not every black guy is like that, but it's the general stereotype. I've also met some women that would jump into bed with black guy if given a chance because they wanted to try something new or just simply a big cock. Again, that is their sexual references, you have no control over it.

you went to Budapest?

any good ideas on where to go there?

I am going there this summer and I have heard it is h3ll for Brown people because we get confused for gypsies apparently. My fear made me miss a trip to Sweden but I am definitely going to go to Hungary for the sake of traveling.

Adventures in Eastern Europe, I was there for four nights with L and a few other guy mates and yes it's true it's not just a stereotype the women are ridiculously hot, almost every young woman is in shape and perhaps to estimate on average each woman +1.5 to the UK. Would definitely recommend going, very fun unique place that was v different from anything I've seen before.

I'm general, my game is tightening massively. The majority of sets are hooking and attraction is looking obvious in many cases. Plus I've been able to blow almost any new guy out, with confidence, strong frame and energy levels extremely easy. I've been making a point to always escalate + isolate so it now feels very natural. However I definitely have not got the sexual threat/ full closing skills part down at all and it's getting a little frustrating. Have a look through the FR to help me sort out this sticking point.


Fr++: ASD prevents the lay. Again...

So the field was an open bar on the top level and a darker bar + dance floor on the bottom. Since the last Hb, is the one I'm focussing on I'll keep the rest brief and to try to maximise replies to this.
Because it was Saturday ( weekdays had more tourists) most people were native speakers. We pretty much got blown out of every non English speaking set, so we do our usual thing of building momentum and having some fun amusing conversations. My first good set was a native who spoke decent English. Went reasonably well, L wasn't yet in the right mind frame to actively pursue his target. I isolated to the bar and then to dance floor. Felt a bit of fear but I knew I had to go for it, if not for her but the next girl. So I burnt the first good set to ground by touching then going for k-close. She told me she had a boyfriend in the army abroad, she still stuck around and seemed attracted but I'm not going to be that guy who breaks up relationships. Even though it didn't happen making sure I pulled the trigger definitely set the precedent for later tonight.

We keep going again, L is now in top mode after a bit more momentum. ... I'll skip over a few sets here because it's not really Important. Then I see a 3 set (HBtall, HBblonde, HBredhead) locals but they speak good English.
I approach, they aren't green straight away they give me a few frame/shit tests but it's fine and they warm up quite quickly, I signal L to come in. He chats to HBtall, I am with the redhead and blonde. Decide to have HBrh as the target, I'm Interacting with both well (about 15 mins, but I'm shoulder to shoulder with HBrh and pay her slightly more attention. I then reach down (with subtelty for obvious reasons) and take her hand by the side, she reciprocates touching, it's ON. They go inside to the dance floor, L cba with HBtall and finds some new targets. I isolate on the dance floor and escalate a bit more physically there. I then take to a quiet isolation point on a balcony.

Heavy seductive vibes are going on here we are v close and talking slowly. I go for the k-close
HBrh: I'm not that easy.
Obviously it's only token resistance/asd so I smile leave it for 1 minute, second time it works fine. [should this have been a red flag as to what was to come? I.E in future should I find a new target if it takes all that effort to get one kiss?] After a few mins:

Radar01: let's go outside for a walk.
HBrh: (shy) why?
Radar01: (hold tension)...(smile)... let's go.
HBrh: Ok I'll tell my friends I'm leaving.

My hearts pounds hard, for the first time in a pick-up in a while probably shows I'm breaking into new territory.

Bump into L before I leave he's very excited that I may be getting my first cold approach fuck. He says it's on for him with a milf (lol).

I think I'm doing well up to this point but I think I butcher it up from here. It's a long time period of time from this point, so I don't remember all the details.

We leave together (at this point it's about 30-40 mins of the interaction). We are hand in hand or arm over the shoulder for about an hour walking, after it's officially on I've found conversation is very comfortable and easy since pressure seems slightly off. I spend most of this time building a connection half the time it's fun half the time it's a deeper link. [Should I have focused more on sex itself!?/ done something more sexual theat like?]

We arrive by my hotel. Heart beats again.

Radar01: You should come up and listen to *band we like].
HBrh: I can't go there... With you.
Radar01: We are both adults, we will only do what we are comfortable with. (credit 60 yoc).

But no bacon, so we walk past and I say let's grab a seat. We talk a bit more, a makeout that gets a bit more intense, she kisses my neck for a while, I caress her ass. At this point I try using some sexual threat stuff (with little previous experience so I'm probably a bit uncalibrated) 'I'm usually a gentlemen but look what you've done to me'. Put her hand on my crotch etc.

At one point she says " I'm surprised you haven't gone further with me" this was one mind fuck of a comment. I replied with " Well I did invite you to my room" but was this a shit test or what?

HBrh: you're supposed to be enjoying the city, look around you?
Radar01: It's kind of hard to concentrate with a hard on.
HBrh: giggle giggle.

I persisted a few more times and walked a bit further. But about 3 hours in I called it quits and kissed her goodbye. I may have possibly killed the sexual tension by kissing far too much.

I tried to convince myself and L that she just wasn't at all DTF but in reality a better closer probably could have sealed the deal.

Dealing with this amount of ASD/LMR and not pulling through is so mentally draining ; I must be better prepared next time. I'm pretty sick of having to write FR++ instead of LR , getting so close just feels like I need to nail the last step that bit better before the lays start rolling in. Help and clarification of this part would help me so much.

Thx
Radar01