This is something that is kind of bugging me.. A lot of girls seem to be interested in other guys, even though they have boyfriends.

I keep noticing IOI's from my friends girlfriends and then the other night I met this dude and his girlfriend was there but he couldn't stay the night only she could and they were all lovey dovey until he left, then almost immediately i notice she throws IOI's at me and then we ended up hand fucking.

Why would girls do this in the "spur of the moment" even if they have been dating the guy for like 3 fuckin years.

It's the same thing as when a bunch of people are talking about somebody who isnt there, then you leave the group, and they start talking about you!

Could be a multitude of things. One, she's bored. Two, shes trying to asses her value to see if guys still want her, three, she wants her boyrfriend to find out and keep him insecure about her and keep trying to win her affection.

She might want to start a fight between you and him. She might be testing your friendship, or he might have told her to do that, to test you himself.

Because you have a limited perception of what her arrangement is with her boyfriend. Maybe he cheated on her in the past and she has no respect for him and cheats on him too. Maybe they have an open relationship. Or maybe she is just a slut and cheats on her boyfriend eventhough he thinks everything is great between them.

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I knew someone who told me their backround before, but honestly they are close and then she said she felt like a horrible person maybe like an hour afterwards, and while it was happening said she normally doesn't do this. And told me not to tell anyone

I mean as a person she doesn't seem like a slut, I'm friends with her best friend and she's only slept with that one guy.

I honestly do think it's fully just validation, she's really insecure, everyone tells her shes really good looking, but she said she used to starve herself. So she obviously just feels like she can't meet up to the standards everyone else gives her and i acted completely uninterested in her, but kept pulling her in with kino. She thinks i don't like her at all and i don't compliment her at all, unless she does good stuff for me i want her to repeat

If it doesn't seem right don't do it,. Just Don't.
You'll be stronger, confident and more attractive.

I wouldn't take it that she's up for fucking or anything like that.

1) Girls love validation, they like multiple guys thinking they are hot stuff and makes them feel wanted.

2) They love their boyfriend "coming to the rescue" or whatever if he hears some guy has been chatting his bird up.

3) They love making their boyfriends jealous. Most of my ex-girlfriends have always stated to me that they don't like that I DON'T get jealous about how much attention they get from other guys. (I have a "if you cheat on me I will tell you to fuck off and never talk to you again, you aren't the person I thought you were" rule)

4) They want to either cheat on their boyfriends or start seeking a new male for when their relationship collapses.

5) They want to friendzone you.