So since starting PUA, my game has definitely improved. I'm approaching more and able to hold conversations ALOT better and build attraction quite quickly. I'm very good at this with girls I just want to bang but don't actually find them interesting or actually like their personalities enough to want to date (I don't date girls I don't find interesting, I'll date a HB 5 if she's interesting enough and has a good personality)

Since starting PUA I haven't actually met any girl like this, most of the girls I've laid Ive just thought "go home" or in the morning I've just been a miserable fuck with them as I want them to leave so I can play some games or meetup with mates.

So during this time I've naturally assumed when I meet a girl I actually think could go somewhere I'll be able to play it perfectly and have the confidence to N/F/whatever close...oh how wrong was I...heres the story.

*waiting at train station, HB6/7 sat next to me, train arrives, we get on, I find a seat, she sits opposite, both have our headphones in then we both pull out the same book from our bags and start reading, I notice shes reading the exact same book and "perfect opener" kicks in, I tap her on her knee and make the ear pulling notion*
Me: Damn good choice in reading material. Lets have an interesting journey instead of just mindlessly sitting here reading away.
Her: haha yeah okay, I'm totally up for that, I like having lil random chats.

*Anyway we talk for the whole journey, I started off using PUA material but started drifting off into natural conversation i.e. clicking. She actually had a fun and interesting personality and was into similar stuff I am. i.e. she didn't start bitching about her friends and could actually hold a conversation*

So the train journey ends and we both get off at the same place (my uni hometown, she's also a student) and AFCness SEVERELY kicked in with this girl and it must have been because I actually felt like I "liked" her.

I didn't even have the courage to ask her name or number, she even lingered then looked sad when she decided to go. I spent the entire walk home kicking myself up the arse. I'm not too bothered after having a think as I PROPER need to concentrate on my studies but still, I don't want this kind of thing to happen again so does anyone have any advice/has been in similar "good with the bitches bad with the nice ones."

I've had a similar situation before. Met a girl on a plane and we got on quite well talked for the whole journey, plus a bit of kino (cuddling etc. no kiss). When we were about to get separated I was wondering what can I say to get her number, but I got very nervous. I really liked the girl.
So I asked if she was on facebook and when she said yes I told her that actually her phone number would be better. She gave it to me immediatelly and we were together for 3 months great sex etc.
And what I did was quite afc, but I think if the girl likes you you can't really say anything wrong just ask the number, doesn't matter how. My opinion.
Your mistake here was just not to go for the number that's it, but you know this already.
And if you get nervous don't try to fight it, I blushed and all that shit, but looking back now, in the grand scheme of things who gives a shit.

Just take the risk my friend. You know you guys were vibing well and there should have been no doubts in your mind. Once you make a connection, your chances of seeing this girls goes up. I remember my oneitis, I decided to go for it sober with her one night. I texted her to meet me and that I had a present for her, and before meeting I was psyching myself up that I was going for the kiss once I met up with her. I liked this girl for a few months before pulling this stunt off. Bam, kissed her and she was basically mine after that. Lets just say it was the best decision I ever made and I never regretted it. Holy shit was it nerve wracking but I did it despite that. I wasn't going to let my afc tendencies get the better of me.


10 years from now you want to look back and say shit, I don't regret doing that shit at all. Good luck man!

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