Here is a great video on how to push things physically with a girl. Most guys biggest obstacle is getting physical and showing the girl their intent, they open the girl, they start a great conversation, but then they get lose...I'l admit that getting physical was my biggest sticking point! I think its because we were all raised to think that women are these angelic creatures who don't want to be talked to sexually or made out with on the dance floor...we start making excuses in our head like "shes not that kind of girl" haha
My eye opener was when I was gaming the "good girl" of the group, she was a very pretty girl, every one told me how she was a prude, how she would never put out, how she was shy ect ect ect....I spent the night gaming this girl, at the end of the night her friends and her came back to my budies place for drink, I started getting tired of this girl because all night she has been super conservative!!!! had her coat on, her arms crossed and I thought to my self "this girl is a good girl she's not like the others" I was getting ready to leave and ditch her when something in my head said "just go for it, see what happens" I literally grabbed her hand, ripped her coat off, and started making out with her...I honestly thought she would slap me but to my suprise she was all over me! haha I was in shock!! she was in my pants within 2 mins and this was a girl who 5 mins ago I thought wanted nothing to do with me because I was to wild for her haha
any way here is a video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKoT67zx_lQ