I met this girl and we are getting pretty close and our 'friendship' is escalating... But once I mentioned 'us' together she said it would never work out because of her PAST/history. She did tell me things about her past but why would she rule me out if we haven't even given it a shot really?? She didn't give me much details of her past but she has dated a couple guys that I know...

Any advice? Thanks

SHIT TEST! Agree with her, tell her your right it would never work, she's not your type!

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Just carry on. Typical girl melodrama. Say one thing and feel different the next day most likely.

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Tell her that's cool because you have been talking to this other girl recently that you are thinking of getting with who is way to young for you but you two have one of those strange "physical connections". Then tell her that the two of you should still be friends.

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So pretend I'm cool with being JUST friends? Should I bring up how it is great that we are JUST friends every now and then too?? I read it works sometimes somewhere...

Of course tell her.

"I think it's a good idea to LJBFs, so don’t even think about us having sex together"

Even though you told her NOT to think of you guys having sex together, that image will still come to the girl’s mind…“us” and “sex”. That is the story you have implanted in her mind like a tiny seed.

Then using sexual innuendo, and kino, every time she thinks about sex YOU are in her mind!

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But the LJBF status alone won't do much. She might be content with that. You need to add jealousy on top of that and make her want you and feel insecure about herself. That's why I suggested mentioning some invovlement with another girl. The key here is to make the other girl everything she is not. So if she is skinny, the other girl is voluptuous. If she is thick, then the other girl is model-thin and petite. If she is young, the other girl is older and mature. If she is old, the other girl is super young and pretty. The thing about women is that they are always insecure about women who have things they don't, no matter what it is. So exploit this weakness.

You can talk to her as "friends" about this other relationship you are having. Then when you are ready to make your move you can tell her that you and this other broad broke up and you are lonely and need a friend to hang out with. Once you get together you can tell her that you always thought the two of you would be good together and then move in for the kill.

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Thanks for the advice guys. One problem here is she knows I dig her so I gotta come off as it isn't a big deal that I'm not with her. So I'll play the LJBF card but continue to flirt and lay kino game too...

Also, I'm not good with being a girls "friend". So where can u take a girl as just "friends"??