Is solo sarging as disadvantageous as one might assume?, since you are on your own? there are none of my friends with the balls to sarge so it is going to be a difficult start to my sarging career.

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"Losers always whine about "their best", winners go home and fuck the prom Queen!"

"..Carla was the prom queen."

"Really?"

"Yeah" (Cocks gun)

You have to start somewhere. There will be some disadvantages since you don't have your friends to give you social proof but there are ways to overcome it. When you first get to the venue you should quickly open a set. Everybody else will think that you know them and by this you gain some social proof. By opening more sets you gain even more social proof so if you consistently are in a set then you want really need the social proof of your friends. Sarging alone might even have some advantages. You won't have the pressure of knowing that your friends are watching.

If you number close some girls that you aren't really attracted to then use them as pivots the next night.

Best of luck

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hollywoodinpa on The Transition to Natural Game:

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yeah. the key is to just walk in with a big grin on your face like you own the place and just go up to the first guys or girls that you see and just talk to them for a good 5-10 minutes. BOOM. you have a few new friends. it sounds hard but really isnt too bad. i went to a party a week or two ago where i didnt know anyone but i just walked in, talked, and by the end of the night knew everyone. its really cool. just have confidence and you will do it

You just have to act like the cool friendly guy that everyone wants to talk to. Don't look like you are trying to pick up, try and give a good friendly vibe about yourself and no one will mind you talking to them.

Last night I went solo sarging after a bad date from myspace, which, by the way, I have officially taken out of my game. Those girls are ALWAYS fat and ugly. I flirted with the girl at the coffee shop and got rejected for a number (she said she had a boyfriend, I know I just didn't build Enough attraction, she did blush though, it was kinda funny). Then I headed to the bar to get something to eat. I was by myself at the bar and got to know the bartenders (tip: remember names as much as you can, it makes you seem more familiar with the place). A guy and a girl came up to the bar and asked if the seats I was sitting next to were taken. I said no, and I'd be happy with some convo. Just then a HB 8 and 7 were at the bar ordering drinks. I kinda gave them some shit, then ran the ring routine on them and told them an irish joke in my best irish accent. They went back to their table. Then I engaged the couple to the side of me. I told them about my bad date (which came off slightly as a DLV to me, because I was meeting women on the internet, but I covered my ass well). One of the things I learned from the night: Always ask how people know eachother. I kinda spilled my game out and told them all about how I pick up women, just cuz I was kinda bored. (Didn't tell them where I got it though, so don't ya'll worry). Meanwhile, this girl is mad IOIing me, almost to the point where I thought her boyfriend was going to start some shit with me. Turns out they were friends for a long time, on their first date, but she was diggin me much more then him. By the end of the night I asked for her number, and she told me she didn't want to be rude, after all, she didn't come there with me. But, She gave me an email, so the dude wouldn't see her give me her phone # . After she left, engaged the HB7 for a while and realized I had a fools mate going on. I'm not into girls who aren't a challenge and I left and went home. But, I solo sarge all the time. Be loud, boisterous, confident, and interested in other people (to some extent). Dress nicer than anyone else. Open sets, talk to the hired guns, whatever. Try solo sargin at Barnes and Noble or any book store. There are usually single women their all the time, with the sole purpose of being picked up in mind. Use Herbal's opener with the dating for dummies thing (look it up if you don't know).

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What we all learn is to keep trying.

yeah, i go solo sarging, because my friends arent really into the PUA thing... I simply show up, surroundeed by the friends, then, when i go sarging, i make sure the targets see me with the group, before I branch off to make my approach.... but idk now that some of my friends are getting into it... we'll see

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Sarging solo is the only choice I have, since noone here knows about PU other than one friend of mine (which is the way I like it). It's nice because the only people I would have to compete with are the naturals, but since I'm a PUA there's no such thing as competition. It would be nice to go out and see how others do it, you know, ping info off each other and set up sets with greater ease, have a little competition so my game gets that much tighter. It sucks opening a 3+ set and trying to bring friends into it that aren't that good at talking to girls. If you've got solid wingmen/fellow PUAs in your area, I envy you.

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I have tried both, the good wing is someone that is slightly better than you. Alone sarging is just fine as well... Just remember to pawn!
A pivot is btw the best companion ever, even if she is unaware of being a pivot!

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