hi guys,

Here is what happened:

Sunday evening:
8pm-10pm Date A, brought her back to hotel but she did not agree
10pm-midnight Date B, brought her back to hotel but she did not agree
(I was visiting the city and the two girls are both my friends and the excuses I used are "I brought a gift for you but I forgot them in my room")

Monday evening:
Dinner date with C, followed by drinking wine with her in her apartment
After an hour of drinking and chatting, I made a move, but she did not agree and said I made her uncomfortable


I felt that I am totally fucked with these golden opportunities, I desperately need some advice, please!

More details....did you build comfort? Attraction?

if you made them feel uncomfortable it is probably because you had a hidden agenda and girls can smell it a mile a way.

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My guess is that there may have been attraction, but you probably took huge leaps on the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. Eitherway, we need more details.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

u obviously suck at ready girls. do they think your going out with them as a friend?

My unwritten rule is get them ready to fuck BEFORE you get them to the final location. You should already be making out with them heavily before you ask them to come lay next to you. Not have sex, just lay next to you and sleep so you can feel their body against yours. At least that's what you tell them anyway. You pretty much don't want to ever say "Let's go to such and such and fuck." Also, your attempt to bait them back to the room with a fake gift was transparent and lame.

And the girl who rejected your physical advances, did you get any ioi's from her previously? Did you do any kino ahead of time? I can already tell that you have some serious sticking points in your routine. You also did this in a short period of time, so the failure of the first one kind of snowballed onto the second and third. I would recommend slowing it down a bit and not trying to sprint for the finish, so to speak.

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