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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 5:49 am 
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How do I deal with guys hitting on my girl at clubs etc. Some jackass tried using a boyfriend destroyer, we just ignored it nd i took her away. Whats the best thing to do?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 5:59 am 
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I tell them she is with me and smile, After that any further contact has nothing to do with her and is an insult to me. Flatten their asses out...Im a bit older than most here though. I have a frame of mind on the subject.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 6:04 am 
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call on that.

HAHA DUDE. NICE ONE. YOU'RE SHAMLESS MAN ! TRYIN TO DESTROY ME INFRONT OF MY GF. NICE ONE.

its called framing. you choose whos cool and whos not. they will start to react to you. first rule NEVER REACT !

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 6:08 am 
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I see where your heads is on it. And I understand game recognizes game and there is no need to be rude. But if someone gives you the hint you need to recognize that too.

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I completely agree with Evahgo.

Just keep it straight at first- you won't lose face in front of anybody, esp. your girl. If he persists, then deal it as disrespect to yourself.

If it's not right in front of you, don't be worried about your girl. If you're worried, she might as well cheat, as some put it.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 9:05 am 
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I personally like to get violent. Its part of who I am, my Identity. I out AMOG and Alpha other guys.

But a cute way to handle this is dominance. Grab your GF and kiss her. He will know what the deal is.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 10:26 am 
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Bars and clubs are where single people hang out. Avoid taking your girl there. That's just pouring blood in the water; the sharks are bound to come.

Some guy was hitting on my gf once. I walked up to them and he started using a gay lisp. "Oh, is this your boyfriend?" I said, "Oh honey, hush!" and blew into his ear. Guy was pissed!

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But a cute way to handle this is dominance. Grab your GF and kiss her. He will know what the deal is.
The moment his GF feels like a trophy, he loses half the game -> Approach with caution.

@OP

If you and your gf are solid, an easy way to get rid of the intruding scumbag would be "Welcome my man, i'll give you a 100 bucks to rid me of this chick" - deliver this playfully as if you owned the club and they will fuck off while you'll definitley score some points with the gf.

Like someone already mentioned, game recognizes game, so make him notice you got your shit together and he should take a hint. The last thing you want is to display jealousy or over-protectiveness.
And needless to say, violence is the last (but sometimes very neccesary) option.
Very true, same goes for if she can tell he did it because he felt threatened.

Basic TD AMOG tactics always apply.

A note of caution with game recognizing game, a LOT of guys in the community dont recognize other guys game like naturals, its often a challenge to their skill or they really dont care about it. It depends heavily on who he is and where. BF Destroyer means he knows about game, which is why I would not try to test game with him. Even being nice will make some community guys act like a shark that just smelled blood. Be careful mate.

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Extend arms in both directions with fists clenched and lock elbows. Then start spining your whole body like a tornado. All people in your vicinity will be struck by your awesome fury and feel the wrath of your havoc. This will teach all men not to talk to your girl.

*Note: Make sure your girl is away at the bar getting you guys more drinks while you do this or she might get struck too.

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If a guy is hitting on my gf in front of me...dude who cares.

Hold her by the waist right next up against her body. He'll notice, and while he talks, or says something reply to your girls ear with a "I think this guy thinks your phenomenal. Can you just tell him goodbye, because I think I just found a great spot to dance."

Well, then my girls just take out their hand give a quick handshake says bye while I'm still right up against her and holding her in front of the other guy. That's about it.

Nothing fancy. He persists? We're pick up artists in the making right? So get in touch with your feminine side and act "gay" towards the guy, and he'll run. Run a quick pattern on the guy, freak him out on how nice you think his eyes are, have a straight face and he'll run.

Thats it. Have your girl say bye while you're up against her. And if he persists act gay towards the guy. This works like a charm. Its common sense...have the girl he wants (ur girl) reject him. And then if he persists, you turn "gay" for a minute or two and act sexually acted to him and he'll run.( i somewhat repeated myself here for a reason...this type of stuff doesn't require special answers).

Have fun!

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When a guy hits on your girl you can do a few things:

1) "Amog" the guy. This is stupid and why would you do it unless your insecure?

2) Join in the conversation. I do this if the guy seems like an interesting dude.

3) Go talk to other people. If some dude wants to hit on your girl and you find that boring... go talk to other people... specially girls. ;)

If you have a problem with guys hitting on your girls then you have a problem with your realtionship and your security. Who cares.

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guys I think most of us lost what are we talking... its not just hitting... he used god damn

BOYFRIEND DESTROYER.

we all know what can NLP and other weird shit can plant time bomb in peoles mind. it not effective at the time but it will grow inside over time...

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shoulda played up the boyfriend destroyer. Reverse that shit and ask the dude what makes him better...make his ass qualify and brag. Make him use...LOGIC!

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Logic....a woman's worst enemy.

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Ha, I have always enjoyed watching guys trying it on, I don't know if that makes me confident or a pervert.

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