A few weeks ago I took out this chick I've been talking to for months. She's definitely shown me IOIs like calling me handsome and well...kissing one another (which was just once for a brief moment). So I took her out to a hookah lounge where there was belly dancing. We had good conversation in the car- I was enjoying myself and trying to not focus on the outcome. When the belly dancer was doing her thing, I wasn't going crazy and piercing her skin with my eyes like the other dudes there. She even asked me if I thought she looked good, in which I replied -she's aight. Anyways, she's Pakistani and she saw guys from her community and said hi to them and I was chill with them, but then when we took our seats I couldn't escalate in my kino the way I wanted to because she didn't want them to think she was "dating" anyone. It's a cultural thing guys, so I couldn't really comment on it aside from saying lets go to a different venue, in which she said no and said some shit like "we're already here." Even though there was a hookah lounge about five min away. Before we left i paid. On the way back to her house we make good convo and when I get to her house this is what happened:

*important part*

She said she had a lot of fun, gave me a big hug, and then I allowed my face to linger close to hers and I looked into her eyes. Her response: girl rolls her eyes and quickly gets out. Then about an hour later I get a text saying "Woww. Really?" I just asked her if she was alright and she said yeah. Haven't heard from her since.

What did I do wrong? And I shouldn't make any attempt on texting or contacting her in any way to chill again, right?

_________________
Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.

why didn't you escalate.

_________________
In a funk? Read this

pua-lounge/the-importance-patience-this ... his%20game

How could I have done that when I got to her place? I was doing some kino on the drive back to her place. But again, I couldn't go kino in the lounge because those guys were there

_________________
Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.

Sounds to me when u got 2 her place she wanted you to kiss her and you didn't.