either in a conversation normally or in the presence of other female/male too.

What does that indicate?
That she is setting a standard for you because she is interested or saying that you're simply not her type?

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. It's just a topic of conversation. Don't take it as some subversive attempt at undermining you since she is talking about mankind and you happen to be a man.

Yes, we've heard it all before. She wants a guy with a chiseled jaw, 6 foot or taller, blue eyes, a large bank account, confident, charming, yadda yadda yadda. Wooptie do.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Fuck lol. I don't stand a chance!

we all know what women say they want and what they get is not always the same.

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When she talks about her ideal man and you don't fit the description, return in kindness. If she's curvy, tell her you like skinny girls with small butts. If she's skinny, tell her you like curvy girls with big booties. But then go deeper... Tell her you don't care too much about looks anyway, and you're looking for a girl full of energy and also intelligent (it's okay if these fit her description, here you're just trying to convey that you're not shallow, even if you really are).

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

I had a girl tell me tonight that she wanted only tall, dark, muscular men.

I'm not any of those three.

But I consistently pushed and did well with her, made her laugh, and she was totally getting into me.

She was married (had the ring and everything) sadly, or else I totally would have pulled.

I will probably bang her friend.

But seriously, completely ignore what girls say they want.

I want a girl that weighs 120 pounds, has giant boobs, a big butt, tiny stomach, short and blonde.

Does that mean I won't go after a 140 pound, taller brunette? Of course not. Especially if there's chemistry.