Hey I'm out and about all the time and I try to game girls constantly.

However I have one major problem that is my downfall.

I'm fine with opening girls and such. But I cannot continue the conversation. My brain just goes and I'm literally clutching straws.

Here's an example.

1) Opens girls with any opener, question..blah blah...they appear interested and willing to talk to me.

2) continues with the conversation in relation to that opener

3)Changes topic then asks a question

4) conversation dies down...the girls input dwindles...I can't think of anything to say or I ask daft questions and they can't be bothered to give any input

5) Nice meeting you and bye....


In short...I'm 24 and and not having much luck in creating sexual attraction with women. My last relationship was 8 months ago and I've had so many mess-ups since then. I talk to them but I can't seem to create much attraction at all. I talk to them, they aren't interested, I talk to them...we can't hear each other, I talk to them...they get chatty then instantly friend zone me.

I've read so many PUA material and I'm hopeless in getting past the opener stage.

Any advice would be great thanks.

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What do people actually banter about? I have a hearing problem so not sure. Thanks

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"I'm on a drug...it's called Charlie Sheen"

You need a routine, not just an opener.You need small talk skills too. One thing I've found that works well is having some "issue" that you are struggling with and you need to get her feedback on it. The issue should be a DHV. It'll make you seem more interesting. Get her opinion on it. The more you talk, the more other topics will open up for you to discuss. And the longer you talk, the more opportunities for kino.

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That sounds great thank you...but what is your routine? What do you chat about?

What do you do to isolate the girl?

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"I'm on a drug...it's called Charlie Sheen"

everyone has their own routine. If we gave you ours it won't be authentic because it didn't come from you. For example, I have this routine where I ask Caucasian women(because my school is 76% white) if they know the difference between hispanic and latino men. Then I get into this whole history teaching expert thing, talk to them in spanish and be all suave.

Or you ask them if they ever been to a big city if they are from a small town, compare experiences

or you can just banter using observational humor. She drops something, you make fun of her "oh this is why we can't have nice thing" or "oh you are embarassing me in public"

come on bro use your creativity!

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