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PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 4:11 pm 
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Ok so I'm pretty new to this and don't really have that much trouble opening girls, especially under the right circumstances. However, I feel like my convos sometimes get boring and I run out of things to talk about. I can bring up something but its usually not interesting and it's just a plain old conversation. I know this usually falls under routines I think, but also is there a good way to learn some witty/clever responses. I think learning some if these will be able to help bring my conversations into more interesting topics.

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Ok so I'm pretty new to this and don't really have that much trouble opening girls, especially under the right circumstances. However, I feel like my convos sometimes get boring and I run out of things to talk about. I can bring up something but its usually not interesting and it's just a plain old conversation. I know this usually falls under routines I think, but also is there a good way to learn some witty/clever responses. I think learning some if these will be able to help bring my conversations into more interesting topics.

Thanks in advance
There's a quick answer and a long answer. I want to give you the long answer.

In order to be better at conversation and making things interesting, you have to be an interesting person with unique experiences. Once you start making a more interesting life for yourself, then you can share those stories and passions with the women and people you talk to. Furthermore, you have to be genuinely curious and interested in the people you talk to. If you don't care that much, then it gets tiring and difficult to feign it for so long. It's crucial to have a true interest in people and care about what they have to say.

With that said, I believe that you will do much better in the long run for conversation.

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I have had a pretty interesting life for only 22 yrs old I would like to think. The part about listening to what people are really saying is what I might need to work on. I admit that sometimes I just don't listen. I will try this. what was the short answer though?


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what was the short answer though?
Bullshit routines.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 6:36 pm 
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Well yea, you can learn quips and plays on words. Like if she asks if you are single, you say "No, I'm plural." I remember a funny line Kong used on Simple Pickup when these girls asked him what he'd do if DPS got called on him. He was like "Who are they? Double Penetration Society?"

I usually go for a sarcastic humor with girls. If they say something that can be misconstrued I'll play it up and try to make something funny out of it. I'm not the funniest guy in the world, and often times the jokes and things I think up on the fly are somewhat lame, but in set they come across as playful and will usually get the girl to laugh, even if she thinks it's retarded. Remember, the stuff that was funny in second grade is also funny when flirting with women.

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Yes ninja that's what I'm trying to say. I can usually pull some good joke like that on the fly, but I wanted to learn some more "Swauve" ones, for lack of abetted term. I feel like these response can definetly help up a guys game


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what was the short answer though?
Bullshit routines.
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If they are situational responses, meaning that they are based on what the person says, then it's hard to come up with any to give you without the context of the situation.

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From my short experience, lame comebacks are the shit. Chiks go for it, why fkd if I know!
I was practicing on a hired gun at a bar last week (hb 8.5). She comes over and says your hands are empty (hinting for me to buy a drink) I smiled, put my hand out towards her. She giggled and gave the whole bar that look of this is so lame, but she couldn't resist and took my hand!

It's about how you play the moment, not plan the moment. Keep practicing bro.

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Somebody was showing me some website that was all in Japanese today and I was like "KonichiWHAT?"

Shit like that. Play on words. Show that you have some intelligence and humor. Doesn't have to be too complicated.

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Witt is improved by time infield and in social situations where your goal is not to pick up a girl, but rather converge in a conversation and take over with no use of frame control.

Think of it this way, merge into a group at a party, and sprinkle in your humor slowly and casually until you take over the group with entertainment. You want to be a dancing monkey. You want to learn to gain peoples attention by taking over conversations with your topicality, not tone or frame. It is something hard for me to facilitate through text, but in field I like to push a guy into set and just act like we know them, and try to take over the group with conversation.

It is a challenge to do, but after doing this long enough it will click.

If you want the short cut, take some IMPROV classes. Or go to an IMPROV comedy club.

Having a cheat sheet of some C/F and Banter Lines which are general enough to fit into nearly any conversation helps as you can begin to see the patterns of people who can think of their feet.

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You should definetly try out a method by sasha and james marshall.
If you go up to them, open and then start conversation go for this:
Question-Statement-Question-Statement
So what do you do?
Rockclimbing huh?! So you're an adventurous type.
I know that feeling when you're finally up there!

This build interests into the sillyest conversations.

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