Hello everyone,

First of all, let me tell you that I am normally the first one to be against these type of "this one girl" threads, but I guess I'll make an exception. I normally think that people should look on game improvement and not only to make it work with one girl, but the situation that I am in is so unorthodox that I am wondering if I should keep going or let it go.

It all started about 2 1/2 years ago when I starting hanging out with a girl that later became my one-itis. At that time, I had no idea that a PU community even existed, I was a virgin and an AFC. However, for some reason that I still don't understand today, she seemed to like me (easily HB9-9.5).

At the time, I was really into her... I'd invite her to some places but for some reason, I could never kiss close her. Long story short, I missed 2 legit opportunity to kiss her. She was basically standing there waiting for me to kiss her, but I didn't. A couple of weeks after, she slept in my bed and I didn't even kiss her... I thought that was my final strike so I went on with my life. She did the same and eventually had a boyfriend. That's when I decided to do something about my life and joined the community.

I started studying PU, became good at it and slept with some girls. Then, after 2 years, she broke up with her boyfriend. For some reason, we decided to met 2 days after she broke up with her boyfriend (we didn't see each other for the entire time she was with her boyfriend). We went to a party together, and since I was now experienced with girls, we made out all night long (fingered her but she was on her period). The unexpected part is that she kissed me the next morning when we said "bye", so got me wondering if I was actually more than a rebound (which I thought I was). Saw her a couple of weeks later, she came at my place, had a legit date, kissed, went to bed and did some foreplay. One thing lead to another, and next thing I know, I have a condom on. However, I couldn't get really hard because I was feeling guilty (at that time, I had a girlfriend that I wanted to dump, but I was still "officially with her") so I basically said I was sorry and I can't sleep with her tonight.

She is my Achille's heel, and even if I don't manage to go out with her, I'd still like to sleep with her in order to kill my demons. So basically, I already had 6 strikes with that girl and I am the first one to be shocked by the fact that she's still somewhat around after that. Now I'm trying to set up a date with her, but I can't decide on if I should or not. She never text or call me first, but whenever I do, she'll answer positively and give me stuff to work around.

Should I keep trying or let it go? Takes 7... Impossible or not?

Gentleman's, let me hear your thoughts about this.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Go for it. You'll keep regretting for years for not doing this, besides - what have you got to lose?

you have unfinished business to take care of. Don't ask another question until the deed is done.

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Unfinish busines? I think I should create a new term to define how unfinished this business.

I just texted her (after 2-3 weeks of no contact) with 2 lines back to back, though it was funny so here's te texts:

Me: hey, I'm having problem applying toothpaste, can you come over?

Her: hahahahaaa that has to be the worst invitation of my life!
(5mins later)
Her: how are you doing?

I did not answer yet, but I'll probably go for "Hey, let's be serious for a sec.. I want to see you at least once before the end of the world! That means we have 29 days :p".

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

If I were you I'd take a step back and look at the bigger picture...

You are cheating on your girlfriend. Even if you don't feel bad about it now and don't care about her, you'll feel like the biggest piece of shit on this planet down the road, trust me. I had a girlfriend for five years and I cheated on her multiple times and at the time I didn't have a single fuck to give. Fastforward a year after our breakup and I feel like I have blood on my hands. Hindsight being 20/20, she was the most loyal woman I was ever with, and could have easily married her. So either dump your girlfriend to be with her, or just forget about her.

If I were you, I'd ask the question "who do I like being around the most?" Or "who would I rather spend the rest of my life with, if any of the two?"

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Looks like I forgot to say that I dumped my girlfriend a couple of days after I almost slept with the other girl.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist