| I know the feeling, and I generally experience an increase in interest, and sexual interest from girls, when in a relationship, or in a few weeks after, as you can imagine, I've spent some time trying to reproduce the results, when I am single but alas, with no luck, but here is some thoughts on what could be causing it:
1. Commitment, I think that it generally turns on most women, when you show them that you are willing o commit, maybe it is a reflex that stems from basic nature, which tells woman to find men who can provide for and protect them and their offspring for more than 5 minutes, but if commitment play's a factor I dont' think it is on a conscious level.
2. increase in testosterone; there has been many scientific debates on how big a part pheromones play in physical attraction, but studies show an increase in our level of testosterone when we find new sexual partners, the increase in testosterone and therefore pheromones could play a part.
3. Uninterested, If you recently came out of a relationship, you might not be keen to imediately get back up on the horse, many girls experience plenty of guys hitting on her, and the fact that you are not, might peak her interest, It might also lower her shields that she can have a casual conversation with you, and that she doesn't feel she needs to be on guard.
as i said these are just speculations, and feedback/critisism is always welcomed. _________________ No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens. ~Abraham Lincoln
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