I know this is a hard question to answer and every situation is different.. but when do you stop pursuing a girl if she is not responding at first as you want?

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I always give the girl 3 chances. By the 3rd time I try, if she's still not interested, I'll move on. By that I meant chill and don't be desperate while being persistent.

Also if I draw the line if she's an attention seeker or has any sort of self-destructive behaviors.

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I recently gave a girl FIVE chances. But to be fair, she kept flaking then texting me and apologizing. It was almost as though she was intentionally trying to lead me on just so she could keep flaking on me. But this is a prime example of why you should always game multiple women and not invest to heavily in any one particular woman. And why you should set limits, like 3 flakes then you're done. Because crazy girls like this will continue to manipulate you for whatever sick end they are trying to acheive. It's unfortunate, but girls like these spoil it for the reset of womankind and they are the reason guys are FORCED to be the way we are.

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yep, set yourself a limit and respect it. My strategy is not very strict but I always respect the 3-times rule.

1- I give the girl 2 chances

If her two reasons don't seem legit, I will only give two chances. If a girl gives me stupid excuses like "I'm tired" twice or "I have a lot or work to do", I only give two chances. She is obviously not interested to make some space for you in her schedule.

2- I give the girl 3 chances

However, if her two reasons seem legit or at least one is clearly legitimate, I will give it a 3rd try. Sometimes it's hard to judge if the girl is being honest or not. In fact, If she tells me "I really can't tonight, my parents are in Italia and I need to watch for my brother!! " and on the 2nd try she says "Sorry too much school stuff to do on saturday ". In this case, I'd give a 3rd try because the 1st is very unlikely to be a lie and idk for the 2nd.

After the 3rd try, neeeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxttttttt

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