This situation happened yesterday night, and I need help with the situation. It's also found in my field report in the journal.

Around 2:30 am (club closes at 4 am) a blonde girl (I'd say HB 8.) and her tiny, brunette friend which was also quite good looking stood by us for a few seconds. This time I didn't hesitate and approached her, situational I believe and I asked her name. (Floor) The next thing I said was: Do you know my friend Marlon here? and introduced her to my friend. After 2 lines they already stopped talking. So I decided to talk to Floor again, and she said to me: "My friend likes attention, but she's a bit shy". I looked to her friend and she had a boring look, like she was forced to go out. Me: "It doesn't look like she wants attention right now". Her: "Well she's just having a rough time, but she's really a cute person". Me: "Well I like you more". Then I complimented her on her earrings and asked where she got 'm. She told where and I said: "So you're kind off a shopping person"?. Her: "Maybe..". Me: "Well maybe sounds to me like a yes, I like it as well, we should go shopping some time". Her: agian "Maybe.." with a hidden smile. While talking she was kino'ing me and I kino'ed her back but every time again she insisted in telling me that I should hit on her friend. So what I tried was telling my friend he should do it so I had a chance with the blonde girl. But both my friends refused to do that, since she didn't look happy or interested at all.

I figured that I wouldn't have a shot with the blonde, and I thought she just wasn't interested and I started talking with the friend. She had something on her mind, but refused to tell me at all, it was a 'long story'. I'd try a different approached, and I opened my hands and wanted to dance with her. She grabbed my hands but she didn't give any eye-contact at all while I was looking her in the eyes. No IOI's. I looked to my left and the blonde girl put her finger on her lips and then pointed to her friend, indicating that I should kiss the brunette tiny friend. So I looked again and there was just NO interest at all. I was confused about what was happening, and I had no clue at all what I should've done there. It was strange because the blonde was giving kino and good eye-contact, and yet she wanted me to go to her friend.

Later on, I noticed the two girls again, and the blonde girl was kissing some other guy, while his friend was stuck with the tiny girl. His friend also (offcourse) failed to make that girl happy.

Now my question is: How should I have handled this situation? Eject or persist?

Wallie

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She played you. You fell into her hoops gladly. You did everything she told you to do. See how weak that comes across?

You stick to your ground man. "Talk to my friend" "I only talk to people who are enthusiastic about life."

"Kiss my friend" "I only kiss girls who are passionate" and move to the next topic. VOMIT your personality onto her. Fuck what she says. Have fun and don't be her little bitch. If she still persists with the bullshit, walk off. Simple as that. I bet the guy that was making out with her didn't take any of her shit.

Let me ask you something. If you were attracted to a girl and she was clearly interested in you, would you tell her, "Hey, please keep my depressed friend Jeff over there company!" No? Neither would a girl. Her interest in you was improving her friend's mood. Her friend was bumming her out as well, so she hoped you could help fix that. She was never into you.

Eject was certainly the right answer.

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RSDTyler

That's solid advice, and I know see this is another issue that I need to work on. Clearly what you said is right: I was playing HER game, instead of running my own. Well I guess, perhaps I just had to either go in seductive mode, or just eject and find someone better.

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