I've been having problems lately with what I'll call the "follow up" as I have said frequently on this site I am looking for a girlfriend so I'm very conscious of my long term goals with women.

The last time I made out with a girl it all ended in disaster I totally misjudged my position and mistimed my approach. First I came on to strong and then not enough. Needless to say this has shaken my confidence in this regard!

Tonight I had a fucking fantastic session with a girl I met the week before, I mean this will definitely make my list of greatest experiences with a girl. It was so sexually charged that... fuck... I can't even explain.

Anyway I want to follow up on this and I want to make something of this if at all possible, usually I wouldn't bother posting and just carry on regardless but since I made such a mess of things last time around I thought I'd at least ask for some advice. I will see her again tomorrow morning at a lecture and I'm wondering how I should play it. I know for certain that she is into me so that is not an issue.

Also I have her purse, she gave it to me last night to hold and I forgot to give it back. I know that must fit in somewhere.

Any advice is welcome because I really need it fast. Don't be scared to reply buddies!

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Just keep seeing her on the regular and it will become a gradual thing. There isn't really a science to it. Do boyfriend things when she is with you and before you know it you will be a couple. Play it as two grown people would.

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This is one thing I would do. I'd call her and tell her that she has to promise not to get mad at you. Of course this will intrigue her and she'll get all excited and ask what this is about. Then you tell her, "It's about your purse..."

Kind of stall and hem and haw a bit, draw it out some. That way she'll be left to fret about it for a few moments. She'll be like "Boy, if you lost my purse!" Then when you can tell she's starting to get pissed, just laugh and be like "No, I'm just fucking with you. It's still here."

You might be wondering why you would want to do this. Here is why. Because that gets her blood pumping. It shows that you have personality. It's far more amusing than calling her and being like "Hey Jenny, what's up."

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puaninja, Your comment was a little late but I met her this morning at the end of a lecture. I didn't bother contacting her so she thought she had lost her phone, money, ID, credit card (it wasn't a purse but one of those crappy little handbags without a strap, a clutch?).

I went up to her and she hugged me before I said anything (probably a good thing!). I asked her about last night and she told me how she lost her bag and walked into college this morning crying. I felt like a bit of a prick then so I said "I got you a present" and pulled the bag out of my pocket. She went fucking insane screaming and jumping on me up to the point where I actually had to tell her to calm down because my classmates and professor were walking past!

She seemed really pleased with me and kept kind of hugging me. Rarely has a girl been so friendly after a long session of drunken groping the night before. It's looking pretty good but my next step is to keep up the familiarity, have you anything to say on that?

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Your next step is f-closing bud. Forget about familiarity. I don't even know what that means!

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Ha! sorry I have a tendency to think like a girl sometimes. Thanks for the advice man!

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