Quick question,

Went out last night with a girl I like. Was waiting for her in the park listening to some tunes staring at the sky and she just comes in and gives me a good ol snog. Very nice. We go to the London eye and plop ourselves on the floor and curl up a bit and just chill and watch the London skyline. Then back out and off to the pub, quick banter and then off to the cinema where she snogs me again. But then when I went in for a kiss about an hour later, bam she moves away? But then she grabs my hand and puts in on her leg and let's me stroke her. Back to train station arm around her waist, she leans in gives me the briefest of kisses, looks me in the eye, smiles and ..... leaves to get her train?

I just smiled and walked away without looking back and dropped her a text later on, which got a fucking quick reply.

Is she playing hard to get, does she like being in control and is she push pulling me? Feel like I'm getting enough iois. How can I deal with this?

Classic. This girl is awesome, she got you good(because here you are asking a question). You have to control the interaction, start leading her. Every time she comes in for a snog tease her off and make her wait. Kiss her when she least expects it and then pull away first. Do this gradually and she will be eating out of your hand. Time use her tactics against her. I might advise getting more assertive with this one.

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i agree, she thinks she has you where she wants, tease her, and BAM go for the kiss, when she least expect it! do you own push and pull with her, because at this time it seems like she's in charge. she pulls away when you try to kiss her, but she puts your hand on her leg and she kisses you, when she wants

Cheers lads, pretty much what I thought. Pretty tough this one is as she is fucking hot both personality wise and body wise and I am striving hard not to appear too interested.

Quick follow up Q, going to invite her round mine on sunday, which will be the first time we can actually be anywhere private properly. How should I approach this based upon her previous behaviour? Maybe get her out and about before this so can kino and push pull her and then direct back to mine?

Go out before and tease her. When she leans in play with her. She'll either be into it or get annoyed. If she gets annoyed pull her strings a little and be a bit forceful when you decide to kiss her. By forceful I mean go for it, don't wait or give her the chance to push you away or back away because she will seeing as that's her game. If she manages to pull away punish her playfully. Depending on how comfortable you feel with her try biting her playfully(Know the difference between a playful bite/nibble and a full on "Lets move this to the next level" bite). My rule when i'm seeing someone is the earlobe is for playing or teasing, the neck is for escalating things. This is a good move because you can be playful with it now and easily move onto something more serious next time when you have her back in yours. If she lets you do it once, she'll let you do it again and transitioning from earlobe to neck is probably the most natural move you could make.

Biting is a sure way to get the juices flowing and drive her mad if you do it right.

yes, go nuts with the teasing and push and pull effect!

i think it will drive her direct into your arms...

use a lot of kino, but make sure she respond positiv since she will be changing your normal behavior to her, this might confuse her a bit, so be aware of negativ responds.

i hope this works out for you!