I have this thing where, on a few occasions, it has felt almost natural to start telling girls things like 'I need to stop messing about with other girls'.. 'I must stop the fucking'.. etc.. These are girls I meet on the first/second time etc..

At first thought this sounds like a crazy thing to say, and maybe it is, but I have had girls respond quite well to it.. as if I am this giant mountain they now want to conquer and to be that girl who changed that guy. It's a bit of desperation on my part, as I want to set the tone immediately and tell the girl.. I am more of PUA challenge for her.. than an easy AFC that will fall into her hands..

have I got this wrong?.. should I be steering away from conversations like this? or is it ok to do this?.

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I wouldn't necesssarily recommend saying that, but as you explained, the theory behind it is sound. The fact that you say you shouldn't be messing around with women in general is also the same as telling her you shouldn't be messing with HER. That goes back to the Push/Pull strategy of telling a girl "We shouldn't be doing this" as you are making out with her and undoing her bra.

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What about if you are telling during a first date in a bar and not in bed undoing her bra?.. almost like you are creating that impression in her mind initially of a guy who gets many girls and needs to stop in general.. as opposed to a desperate guy who cant get any girls and this date is amazing for him etc..

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I mean, on the one hand I like it because it demonstrates confidence, pre selection, and non-neediness. But on the other hand it comes across as arrogant, man-whoreish, and brazen.

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Nah, do not become this charity case. The man that is never satisfied, fuck that. It might giver her the wrong impression that there is something wrong with you. Just do what you would normally do, drop in vague terms that hint that you have plenty of other women in your life who take care of you. You don't need to create this impression of yourself, because you will have to keep the image up for the rest of the time you know her. You can be challenge many other ways. Unless you do want to be that mountain, then it is your choice...just giving you my opinion.

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