hi guys
so on the day of halloween I approached this girl, remember the one that was trying to lease an apartment and I told her "you know what I mean by fun?"

I keep blaming myself for messing that up so at this point, I cant continue. my AA has increased. This really sucks, if I had done things right then I would have had a very very good chance. She was gorgeous. She looked kind of like the porn star "anita blond". If you dont know her, just search for her on google images...yeah, she was that gorgeous. now tell me I shouldnt feel bad.

dammit, man. dammit.

What's the point of holding your thoughts to that girl? Yes you messed up, so what?
If you really want to meet women like her again, then stop being such a weak pussy and accept your failure. It's all a process of falling and standing up, not being stuck in the shithole 99% of the other's end up. You are here for a reason, remember your goals and stop being a fag.

I know how it feels being heartbroken, but i threw it away and continued, when i look back I'm WAY more satisfied at the girls i have now, then the ones i fucked up with. You will always meet a better women, work for it. You've approached and tried, not many have the balls to do that, it's a good start, now pull yourself back together and move on to your next goal.

She was just another girl, although it might not seem like that right now. It's fine to hold yourself accountable for making a mistake, but you can't keep dwelling on it or you'll never progress. You learned something from that whole event, right? That's good enough. Try to get your mind off her and go out with some friends. Take your focus off approaching women for a few days so you can refresh and reset your mind to get you back where you need to be. Then, when you're comfortable, start kicking ass again.

What benefit do you gain from dwelling on it? Absolutely nothing.

Meet 10 other girls to make yourself feel better...problem solved.

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You shouldn't feel bad.

Just so you know, I didn't even bother reading your post. However, I'll tell you something.

If you can't get over 1 rejection. Stop trying to pick-up. I am not saying this to be mean or anything, but if you are too emotional and you can't get over one rejection, pick up will only harm you.

Rejection is a natural part of seduction. It's like wanting to play soccer but being allergic to grass, or even the ball itself.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

the fact you got rejected doesn't mean you failed. Failing and rejection are two different things.

she rejected you. Your failing yourself. Do you really think bill gates didn't hit rock bottom and just made a few billion over night? Do you really think Micheal Jordan never missed a shot? Do you really think David Beckham has scored every freekick he's taken?

Rejection is all part of the success. Failure is not linked to success at all. Failure is for quitters.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

did you take up PUA to be obsessed with 1 girl or learn the ability to have many girls obsess over you

"learn" from your mistakes and move on to the next girl

if you give up after 1 mistake, not only will you fail horribly at pick-up, but probably in other aspects of your life too.

What is this? A sharing my feelings meeting? It's just an opportunity you missed.. Stop being a total pussy and go out there and talk to as many beautiful women as you can.

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

like mystery says... it's just a game. she rejected you based on a very short assessment, It's nothing personal. When you play a video game what happens when you die? Click respawn and go again. It's the only way to get good

learn to love rejections dude. they are funny when you think about them, if i got all bitch like every time i was rejected i would literally have slit my wrists by now. just keep this in mind

i go out and get rejected almost daily but i am learning and overcoming my fear. while you get rejected once, let that fear consume you and never learn again.

back on the horse bro

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

Quit being a faggot.

Men are fighting wars as you wrote that past. Getting shot at, bullets whizzing by their heads.

People are dying from starvation.

You don't have any problems.

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The natural "Steve" who trained Richard La Ruina (Gambler)

http://www.authenticpua.com/primal-seduction/

What makes me giggle is that you think that if you did not do what you did that things would've been different. That if you just kept admiring her from afar with your hands in your pocket and no eye contact. That she would eventually break down and spread her legs as a rainbow shoots out of her slit. Little white doves would be flying by all John Woo style and you and her would live happily ever after. No nothing would've changed. You took a chance and she was not biting. Sometimes they don't want what we are selling. Move on and find another. Also you might of set the groundwork for later on. A no is not a no. It could just be a not right now. Also reflect and try to see why she did not want to play with you. Fix that and and improve. If shes so 10 and you're not then you need to amp up your score. I noticed that you can only get about 2 points higher than your self unless you really put in a lot of energy and time. so if you a 6 then you're only going to in reality be pulling 8's or lower. Unless your game is spot on. And I can tell with your beta post that your game is far from being great.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Yea, I remember that epic fail of a routine you tried to run on that chick. But hey, you learned a valuable lesson. Hey man, I opened this absolutely drop dead beautiful brunette on one of my first solo sarging missions. She was so hot I couldn't even think of a neg to use on her, because nothing was wrong with her. Needless to say, I started fumbling, spilled my beer, and she blew me the fuck out. She would literally respond to the things I said with the word "boyfriend" and "husband", just to get me to fuck off. I actually got up and walked out the bar with my tail between my legs. That stung for a while, but I kept right on sarging and fucking more women, albeit not as hot as her. But who knows what the future holds.

I think some guys develop a type of one-itus with sets that blow them out. You get attached to the woman's beauty and the what-ifs and coulda, shoulda, wouldve's. But you simply can't let rejection weigh that heavily on you if you are going to be a pua. So you really do have to man up and continue opening sets with the full expectation that you will be rejected again and you won't let it get to you.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn