I met this girl on POF. We went out to sushi everything went perfect. I took her back to my dorm room we started making out doing everything except for sex. She saw in my drawer i had some condoms and asked if they were still good. I told her yeah there pretty new. She said she is on her period though so i said alright will just do it another time. We continue to do everything else and i told her what do you want to do stay over or let me walk you home. She sort of wanted to stay over but she knew i had class early in the morning. So i walked her to her dorm and thought i would be seeing this girl again for sure.

We texted a little the next day she had some community service thing to do so she wasn't to responsive.

The next day i text her again and i get no response. So i text her saying "are you mad at me or something? I thought everything went well". She puts "It did:)" im just having a bad day. So i text her today saying "i hope your day is going better" and i havent got a response. This girl is driving me crazy. I really liked her and wanted to continue talking to her. I see she hasnt log in to POF. I am thinking about sending her a text message tomorrow saying i'm just going to leave you alone until you send me a message. Any suggestions?

Your being way to needy with her. She is probably getting annoyed.

So what should I do?

So i text her saying "are you mad at me or something? I thought everything went well".

Neediest shit ever. Don't ever accuse someones bad day on yourself (unless you were really a dick, then apologize).

She puts "It did:)"

Thinks "Oh boy.."

im just having a bad day.

It is not your fault your newbie.


"i hope your day is going better"

You do not hope for anything. Send her a funny text or something that will cheer her up. This text is meaningless in women terms.


This girl is driving me crazy. I really liked her and wanted to continue talking to her. I see she hasnt log in to POF. I am thinking about sending her a text message tomorrow saying i'm just going to leave you alone until you send me a message. Any suggestions?[/quote]


I will personally curse you out if you keep obsessing over this girl after one day. I understand that the date went well and maybe you are not used to the success, but control yourself and your emotions. This girl is one step away from owning your body and mind. Do NOT send her that message. She will contact you or you can text her if she has gone without no contact for a few days. DONT HAND OVER YOUR BALLS READILY. YOU ARE THE PRIZE.

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Yah sounds like you are being to needy. I mean you've just been on one date with her right? Don't text her for a couple days. Remember YOU have a life too. Im sure its driving you crazy (I have the same problem at times) but you just gotta learn to relax and be cool.

I'd suggest the next time you wanna hang out..."Hey, im going to *****, you should come along." or "Hey im at *****, come and have a ***** with me." Give her an invitation, but don't ask her if she wants to go do something. It gives her an option out. This way even if she does opt out, at least she knows you're already out having a good time, with or without her.

Just remember when dating girls, your life is more important and you're gonna have a good time regardless. THEY are the ones missing out if they don't wanna take the ride on YOUR magic carpet.

Thanks for the advice guys. I was being too needy. Once i sent her the text i should of just stopped. The date did go well so who knows whats her deal. She has my number and can text me whenever. I should just move on for now.