I've been fucking this girl roughly once a week for a few weeks and she texted me tonight with this:
Her:"When we are apart my feelings hurt"

What the actual fuck ?

Stop fucking her so roughly.

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It might just be a shit-test. But if it's true, just reestablish the frame of being FWB

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One of the girls i've hooked up with on a regular basis, have also a few weeks ago, just out of the blue, hit me with the "Define us" speech. Knowing we're just Fuck Buddies, nothing more, nothing less.
All I did was regenerate the already present, Fuck Buddy Agreement.
In turn she suggested that we' need to see eachother less, 'cause she is developing feelings other than just multiple orgasms for me.
we still hook up for time to time but not as much as before.

This is a tough situation in any case. and you can't really blame the chick 'cause women are emotionally programmed beings.

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Thanks for the laugh ninja xD

This happened to me. We were in that "undefined" stage because we hadn't had "the talk" about what we were yet. Bottom line is she had feelings and I just wanted to fuck her.

Me being the dick I can be, I just kept changing the subject and avoiding the question - which made her more wild about me. The first time she put her foot down and demanded an answer of what we were, I stealth seduced her. It went on like this for 3 months of great sex.

Finally guilt overtook me and I told her this was as far as it was gonna go. She said she didn't care (although it was obvious she did) and we were FWBs for another 6 weeks, then she got all clingy again and I had to end it.

When it comes to sex, most men can separate the physical from emotional and a few women can too, but not many.

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Had the same situation and simply broke it off with her . . . Hurt her earlier rather than later.

. . . But maybe first ask what exactly she means by what she said.

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Erm she eventually texted me that it was her roomates that texted me this as a joke. And i thought (Whew) but then when she was asking me what I was doing later last sunday I invited her over to which she initially agreed but then in the last minute said she didn't realize how much she has to study and she wished i was there. I don't take her that seriously but if she's not willing to come over to my place when I offered to cook for her and everything I don't wanna waste my time and spend money to go to hers just to fuck her because i think that's investing from my side which is unnecessary.

I saw a girl on the forum that gave a really good advice to one guy and I'm gonna follow it. Not gonna txt her and next time she contact me. I'm gonna say that she's been a bad girl and she'll have to make her way back into my bed

feedback is welcome

Ill just throw in...

Never take advice about chicks from chicks. What they think they want is different from what they really want, subconsciously.

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