She's playing mind games. She wants to see how you will react. One thing I've learned is that it's not a high percentage move to try to get yourself and alcohol involved with a woman you do not know very well unless you don't care about her.

It sounds like you know this girl somewhat and can trust that she's not going to totally start totally ignoring you so here is my theory;

"I will be your drinking buddy" was not the high percentage response.

Another thing to consider is that it appears she's a little tipsy, and stress relieved, and not in her normal frame of mind.

after "you should come over and drink with me" a good response would be "I might in a little while, I am busy doing ____" . Right there, you were excited and invited yourself to drink with her, when she was sending a similar message to you at the same time. Had you been more patient and just responded to her suggestion like I am suggesting, that's probably where you could have got the date. She is used to guys dropping everything and running to her. When she finds one who won't do that, it's likely going to peak her interest.

when you said "you need to slow down if you want to stay sober by when I get there" that's also not a great response for a few reasons.

When she said, "you really don't have to come" that is a good opportunity to say something like "ok, ttyl" and stop the texting for a few hours, instead you invited her out to eat which starts to make you look like a begger. Or, you could try something like "no, I am coming, I will be there in an hour" Also you don't want to be the last one to send the text. "hahaha ok" is not a necessary response to her "ttyl". At that point text the next day and ask if her sandwich was good or something

Overall, my thinking is that she is real immature, a bit of a player, and she's trying to weed out guys or string a long guys for shits and giggles, who do what all the ordinary guys do. You are doing what all the ordinary guys do and you aren't stimulating her mind. In my opinion, "talk to you later" as a text from a female is something you generally don't want to have to see. She's the type who could bounce from guy to guy for years until she finds one who doesn't treat her like a God.

Girl: FKK I failed my test
Me: Oh? (probably a lot of better responses out there, but atleast this doesn't display you as an AFC)
Girl: I totally failed.. I am drinking by myself at home. (at this point it's obvious that she wants you to come over, make her work for it.)
Girl: Fkkk
Me:.. That's actually quite sad! (doesn't validate her and you don't jump at her first suggestion of coming over.)
Girl: You should come over and drink with me!
Girl: I allready drank 2-3 beers in 30 mins
Me: Ok, I'll join you on one condition. No whining about your test! If I come over, we are going to have an awesome evening with no crying over spilt milk! (at this point you show high value, you don't want to waste your time on something that's not fun for you to do, it also puts a little pressure on her, she now has to prove to you that she can be fun to hang out with. The last thing you do here, is putting up a shield against some of the friendzone traps that can come up. If she talks about ex'es, other guys etc. "Hey, hey! I told you allready, no crying over spilt milk! You didn't think that meant exclusively school now, did you?")

There is probably a hundred other ways to do this, this is just one example. You don't need any canned lines, no preperations, just the right point of view and frames.

And I don't want you to fixate on WHAT I said word for word, but what message I'm bringing forth. How she will react to this, and how this portrays you.

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What do you mean by high percentage move?

And holy crap guys. Yeah I totally should have done what you guys have suggested. That sounded a lot better. Oh well.. can't cry over a spilt milk right/ haha. Yeah I guess you are right on the dot, she is a bit immature and she is a player. She was in a sorority so I m pretty damn sure she is used to guys hitting on her all the time.

Damn.. only if you guys were right next to me when this all happened haha. These are some solid advice.. Now that I sorta.. failed the test..

do you guys suggest any ways for me to redeem myself? I sort of froze her out after that incident and haven't talked to her since.. Any way to bounce back or am I just doomed and forever buried in her minor league guys?

Move on, forgether..game a lot of new girls using what was posted here...maybe she'll come back

darn.. move on js like that huh I guess disengage is your suggestion?

You could give it another try but the outcome might not be good. If you do, always act as if what he thinks is of minor importance to you. You don't care, you do what you want...ALWAYS!!!

Simply, you call her (or text her) but you don't care much about the outcome.

Hmm yeah, I def gotta have that mentality you mentioned.. I will def try to act like i dont care.

well thing is, she goes to my school, and I have her on my gchat. Therefore, it is likely that we will run into each other sooner or later even if I don't initiate the talk..

so should i just continue to freeze her out until then? or perhaps disengaging is just the best way?..

What you could do, of course, is to keep her around as "target practice".

Read up on a lot of game (don't talk to her during this period), and when you feel loaded to get back out, just start gaming her for the fun of it! Don't care about outcomes!

Secondly, "move on just like that huh I guess disengage is your suggestion?"

Ok, bro with me for a moment here. In the reality you're going to create, YOU will be the prize! Don't get stuck up with one girl, have plenty of sets going, if you lose one, well that fucking sucks. FOR HER. You don't care if one of the women doesn't live up to your expectations, you've got plenty of others! It's a shame that she never got to know an awesome guy like yourself, you really should feel bad for her, but she's the one missing out.

Do your best to adapt this mindset. Two nice quotes:
"Women are plenty, time is not" (one of the signatures I've seen around the forum)
"If you don't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to?"

And again, either download from Piratebay, or buy (the better option of course) "How to Become an Alpha Male" as I mentioned earlier. This WILL get your mindsets and realities going.

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THAT WAS THE WORST TEXT GAME I HAVE EEEVVVERRR SEEN. COMPLETE AFC MOVES. Above is exactly how you should never play it. I don't really reply to posts but I felt compelled to here.

This would of been much better, I'm going to change her reaction after the initial bit to suit what she probably would of said.

Girl: FKK I failed my test
Me: You better start training that burger flipping wrist
Girl: I totally failed.. I am drinking by myself at home
Girl: Fkkk
Me: This will be the day you look back on from rehab in a few years time as the tipping point..
Girl: you should come over and drink with me!!
Girl: I already drank 2-3 beers in 30 mins
Me: I'm going to have to pass, I don't trust your drunk ass to keep your hands to yourself
Girl: Hahaha, I promise!
Me: I'l think about it, I'm just chilling with my boys, but I'l drop you a line in half an hour and if you're still conscious I'l stop by for 10

^ can you see the difference???

!NEXT! NEXT NEXT! don't stop, tons of girls are waiting.

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Yeah, that's terrible game. Total AFC. Here's what I would do.

Girl: FKK I failed my test
Me: It's okay darling. KFC is always looking for quality employees.

Girl: I totally failed.. I am drinking by myself at home
Girl: Fkkk
Me: Yeah, I'd start drinking heavily too. Maybe get a few tattoos. Perhaps become an exotic dancer. I hear they make tons.

Girl: you should come over and drink with me!! (this was typed almost simultaneously as what I typed above)
Girl: I already drank 2-3 beers in 30 mins
Me: Chug, chug, chug.

Girl: hahah you can catch up with mee!!
Girl: but, no you really dont have to come.. I am just ranting to you about how i failed my test
Me: Yeah, it's crushing for me too. I was expecting for you to be my sugar mama so I can maintain my playa lifestyle. Maybe I should come over and force you to study, rather than drinking with you.

There is no way to recover from beginning a girl to eat with you, but anyway, hope you get the idea. The above would cheer her up and the guy who is making her laugh is the guy that will come over and the guy who she'll have sex with to boost her confidence.

Dude, look at what and how she writes. She can be as pretty as she wants, but she's horrible. Not worth it..

I have to agree with The Dice, test failed.

Just to expand on his comments you had an "in" and you blew it. But the thing being over looked here isn't that you could have said "this or that" to turn it around in the moment, you've already been categorized by this girl.

I know a million girls like this type and they always say "oh sure!" to any bullshit flirty thing you suggest. They love the attention knowing guys will come to them and they view it as humor. It can really F with your head if you aren't aware they are doing it.

Aside from better txt game you have to game this one with a more strategic approach. Several interactions over a period of time where you are both increasingly familiar physically with her yet decreasingly interested (or increasingly dismissive of her).

Just a 2 penny example would be to her first txt of "I failed this test" a proper kick off to the interaction would be to neg her for not having her shit together, then change the subject as you seemingly find her failures boring. At that point if she still talks about getting wasted and mock invites you, you have to make her convince you to come with lines like "depends what you are drinking" and "that sandwich sounds fail".

If you can get a girl like that working for your affirmation/approval then she will be easy if you stay confident and in control of the interactions.

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-Psych3r-

Basically if you want her to know you are dating multiple girls, casually slide that in the conversation. Its all about DHV stories, show that you are unfazed about her dating other guys and that you are seeing other girls. Example of my technique:

"So last week I went to the Marina club as my mate got VIP tickets because he is friends with a celebrity of sorts, when I remembered I had forgot my ID at someone's house. I forgot to call so I just showed up at hers, and thing is, we aren't even supposed to see each other till next Wednesday! Imagine me showing up at night, just a couple of days since we met! I must have looked like a total beg!"


If she mentions seeing other guys:

"I wish I could meet one of them and ask them how they deal with you always saying X\ constantly interrupting\ other neg." It all depends on the girl and your observational abilities for this one, as well as calibrating the neg

She will either laugh if you calibrate it right, or she will say Idk, or act in a way that conveys "Im seeing other guys, don't care too much if one thinks this of me (depends how open she is towards you)"

For the latter, you jokingly reply: "Oh well, I'm sure they count themselves lucky to be seeing you, most guys would actually"

Then she will ask if you don't, to which you reply "You are a great girl and all, but I don't get lucky, I get to exactly the point I want. I'm not settling or striking lucky, I am doing exactly what I want"


Things will probably pan out differently, but you can use this as a general template as to how to act.