This girl I'm in a relationship with has quite a few tattoos. Across her collar bones, both forearms and one on her leg. I think tattoos are attractive as long as it doesn't cover the entire body, so I'm fine with her current tattoos. However, she told me on the phone today that she wants to get more, I told her I don't think it is a good idea and frankly I don't like large tattoos or tattoos that covers your entire arm or leg. She started crying, I told her it's okay I won't break up with her over some tattoos. She is a 9, a great girl with good relationship qualities and we're thinking about moving in together in the next couple months.

I think I should be able to like her for who she is and see past the tattoos, but I know for sure I'd be bummed out if she gets anymore. Would you break up with a someone over tattoos? Everyone is more than welcome to share their opinions.

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It depends. If she already has a bunch, what's a couple more? Personally I don't like tats on a woman unless it is very small and subtle and not easily noticed. There are just so many bad tats out there, especially this new trend of having entire paragraphs tatted onto your skin. WTF?

My personal belief is that tats are a misdirected form of self-expression. I'm an artist so I can draw and paint whenever I want to express myself. Others aren't like that, so they have someone draw and paint on them when they feel the need to be expressive. Only problem is, our tastes change and we get tired of old shit. But tats are permanent. Not only that, but they fade and turn greenish-blue and look like shit in ten years. And I don't know about you guys, but when I see a person who has one, I don't see a rose with barb wire wrapped around it, or a skull, or a portrait. I just see a tat. It all looks the same to me, just a dark inkblot on the skin, especially from any distance. Rant over.

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Think of a major change you can make to yourself (i.e. Totally change your hair color) and see how she would feel about you doing that. I mean it does not change who you are, but it does change peoples perception of you at a glance.


I have a couple of tats so I am not against tattoos. I am kinda like you, I don't like too many!

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wow how superficial can one be?!

No I wouldn't unless they were on her face or something.