Dear Zip,

1) I think I look too handsome for my own good. I definitely feel the pressure from girls to talk and act my role as Adonis's better looking twin brother. It's just not fair, and I'm tired of being held up to a higher standard. Solutions?

2) How big of an impact does the brand and make of a man's car have on a woman when she first sees it? Comparable to his shoes and grooming?

3) What's your New Year's resolution? If you had to break that resolution at some point down the road, what would be your backup resolution?

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Stop being a pussy. With great power comes great responsibility (Spiderman Mantra.) And as Adonis' better looking twin brother: must suck not to have quite the cult following your bro does, but at least you don't have to constantly be on the lookout for boars.

Or you know what: pick up some nasty habit like kicking kittens to make up for your mighty looks. That should bring those ladies down a notch.
It shouldn't matter, but it does. I've dumped a guy before because I couldn't stand his white low rise truck. I was 17 at the time, but still. I wouldn't say brand... as long as it's not disgusting you're on neutral ground with most normal women. It's just a car.

However, even with the strongest non-materialist lady... if you're rocking a BMW or Jaguar... a girl will look at you with a new little glossy sheen, but that's because those cars speak to us in a way that only a store full of Jimmy Choo shoes can understand.

Bottom line. Yes. Car, shoes, grooming, etc are all little candies to women. However, there are ways to rewire a woman where she won't care. I can't tell you what those ways are, but if you ever find out, never let me know.
My NYR is to run the NY city marathon. I started training yesterday. We'll see how I feel in a week.

My back-up resolution is to have sex to Jock Jams. 2008 will be great!

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Interesting. So . . . which would be preferable to a woman . . . a 90 Cadillac (since everyone seems to love Caddys) with a clean non-leather interior, well groomed engine that takes the girl from 0 to 60 in 3 seconds (but only when those quickies are needed), and a decked out stereo . . . OR

A 91 Firebird Formula that makes the above look like a pussy?
Yeah Roads, I could fill you in, but you'd have to swear not to tell her how I'm doing it . . . Yeah, lmao, a decision to run a 26(I think) mile marathon made on the fly . . . as in "oh this sounds like a good idea" when 2 seconds before it hadn't entered her mind Damn hon, just how long are you gonna hold onto that back up resolution . . . ? We'll have to take care of that soon so it won't stick in your mind for the rest of your life.

Dont you feel like you cheated yourself? because if you know every trick in the book then even the best guys cant give you any magical moments?
IT seems like you have to let yourself fall for the quality of the pua for you to like the guy?


questions to zip.

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Hey Zip,

My before I make my question I want to tell you this..
Its this cute bankteller where I go to deposit money, every friday.. now when I first met her I neg'ed her bigtime and asked "Are you pregnant"? But I was wrong..Her name is Kelley, Now last week I went to a different teller an older lady and flirted with the two tellers and kelley afterwards. The other two tellers started flirting with me, and one teller tried told Kelley I said she was beautiful.. so with pure confidence I said Next Friday, Im coming in 2 o'clock set the date and she laughed.

Between all this, we really seem to get along and she very playful with me and she did ask me what did I want, but she gave me like this playful look ... Im wondering how do I close, this because I think i got her, im just wondering what to do next.

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This is an important point to bring up, not only for me... but for all PUAs. There is the "dark side" of the force, where you compromise your experience with the very thing you entered into PU to gain access to.

There was a period where I was very jaded as far as men were concerned. I like to call this the "lesbian" phase (jk.) No, I've been very lucky. I'm in a blessed situation as far as men are concerned (I've had two LTMR's for about five years, and a new guy within the past few months.... they are not part of the community.)

To answer your question... I'm a teacher. When I'm in that situation, of course I'm picking apart every single detail. In my personal life... though I am a touch catch, I am a human being... magic still happens

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I'll take care of jock jams on my own, thank you. It's going to be special, goddamnit!

Also, yeah, the decision to run the NY marathon was a bit "on the fly," but you'll be kissing my ass after I cross that finish line next fall!

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Zippity do da I have to ask you a question. In your opinion what is the best song for a girl to have sex to?

P.S. This is a somewhat serious question, and it contains some joking remarks. Parental Discretion is advised.

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Every trick in the book? lol, symptoms symptoms symptoms

It's about causes... not symptoms. It's about roots, not products. Passion, not facts. Confidence, Emotion, Projection, Connection... when that is process is understood, then the women sarge you.

OK I have a question ...

How easily do women pick up on sexual confidence ?, what could a guy do to reinforce that perception. I'm assuming that simply blurting out "most women I've slept with rated me as their best ever lover" as an opener isn't the way to go ??

Another one ...

How ethical is it for me to sleep with a girl knowing that even though I tell them "I'm not doing commitment at the moment" before hand that they are very likely to fall for me because of the ehem "intensity" of the experience that I am capable of giving them ?.


This is a serious problem for me I kid you not. One ex FB of mine got herself a proper BF now but tells me she cant love him because she still loves me, and this is not a unique incident. I mean these are girls that I care for very much and it kills me to hurt them.

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For the benefit of the male readers, I am physically er normal in every respect, probably a 7-8 ish looks wise so presentable but no george clooney. Its all about sensual intensity and awareness ... and a encyclopedic knowledge of a woman body and psyche, and the fact that I'm genuinely a nice person who naturally connect deeply with people
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Depends on the type of girl. I've got a girl friend that will only date guys who drive BMW's or Mercedes or the like. I've also got another friend who is really into classic/retro cars that have been hand restored. Now, you might think that the former girl is a bit materialistic and the latter one a bit more creative... and you're exactly right. Preference often points to personality (this is a generalization, but for some reason, it seems to often work with women and cars.)

Really, most women don't know/give a shit about what kind of car is what. She's only worried about being carted around in a POS and everyone judging her for who she is dating. Also, it's rather fun to be whisked away in a Jaguar convertible. Think about it this way...

A princess is in a tower, waiting for her prince to climb up, rescue her, and take her away to happiness. The prince trots up on a donkey... it ruins the fantasy. She wants that fucking white stallion. These are the stories that our mothers read to us every night at a very impressionable age... you can't blame us for our tendencies to judge men's transportation.

In modern times, the car has become a status symbol, or rather, a material embodiment of a guy's projected goals/interests. At least, that's all it's become for most women.

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I'll refrain from saying Jock Jams again, and try to answer this absurd question "somewhat seriously."

It depends on the damn girl. It also depends on the SPAM you've set. You have to keep a a romantic/normal balance so that the girl does not get creeped out by the cheese factor. For example: do not mix Marvin Gaye with rose petals on the bed and candles lined up along a path to the bed. Overkill. The girl will start laughing because she's embarrassed for you.

It also depends on what you want the girl to experience. The music is a guide for the trajectory of the sex you want to have. I'd say stay away from just a perfect "song" to bump uglies to. A playlist that gives the girl a varied yet well themed journey is what you should aim for.

To simply answer your question: Here's what I'd say. Here is my "perfect" song for each stage/quality of tappin' ass. I usually go a bit more of the independent fare because once someone recognizes a song, connotations are already attached, but I digress...

soft foreplay: "In the Waiting Line" by Zero 7
rough foreplay: "F*ck the Pain Away" by Peaches
romantic head: "Overture" by Patrick Wolf
rough head: "Magnetic Baby" by Semi Precious Weapons
romantic sex: "Colorblind" by Counting Crows: there is no other option. lol
aerobic sex: "Crazy Bitch" by Buckcherry
hardcore fucking: "Ass and Titties" by DJ Assault

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Before I answer your question, let me just tell you that the pregnant neg is the most awful neg in the world LOL. That neg is not going to break her out of her routine, it's going to make her delve deeper into her bitch shield, which is the converse of what negging is all about. That being said, the fact that she's still talking to you means you are the luckiest man alive.

Now, when you go back... this is what I would suggest. You need to accelerate and escalate into comfort. I don't know how you can kino, other than pulling some trick (Style's lint trick, palm reading, handshake test, etc) if the slot is big enough at the bank... and I've never seen one that is because it would probably get robbed every day.

Other than some wicked inner game, Mystery's catch and release (Doc calls it push/pull, I believe,) proper negging, and building comfort... I'm not sure how you'd accomplish closing other than getting her to bounce with you to another location and then building comfort.

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awesome list.. but you can't forget

Sex & Rum by Double P
Jungle Song by Aqua
The shaft theme song
Play that funky music by The Wild Cherries
Bitter Sweet Symphony by The Verve
Closer by NIN
sexual healing by Marvin Gaye

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