I'm seeing this HB6. First date went well, we spoke about what we do and stuff. She agreed to go on second date, this was more informal, we were speaking about relationship and her roomates.

I know she likes hanging out with me and is always hinting that we should do x and y.
Thing is she is in a broken relationship, she said she wants to break up with her BF and is not happy with him, but he won't let her go.

While driving back she said she was happy hanging out with me.

We are meeting again at my place for some beer (she said she's never got high and wants to this time) and a movie.

I haven't done any kino on her yet, she does keep touching my arm and tries to be playful at times.

Would it be advisable to fuck her on 3rd date at my place? Would I come out as a creep? Is she hinting me that she wants me to lead?

Any advice would be appreciated.

If she's going to your place, she should know its get-fucked time. Unless she's completely naive.

Fuck yeah!

I'll fuck anyone below 8 the first date. 8s on the second or third, and anything above, I would enjoy the chase and games as much as I can (hence, this is where you make her chase, no need to rush and just enjoy the fun).

It's a 6, they're literally everywhere on Earth. So why would you waste time thinking and hesitating instead of just escalate and test out new routines? It's not like a perfect 10 which you will only meet about ... let's say couple hundreds of them in your life.

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It's done. I f-closed her.

Started the date with a nice romantic movie, vodka and red bull. After a while, she was drunk and was resting her head on my shoulders. I did not wait for anything, directly went for the kiss. No resistance, next thing I know I was inside her.

This was fun. Thanks for all the advice.

I agree, it's done. But, if you actually want this girl as a girlfriend or a friend or whatever long term, I wouldn't fc.

WTF why?

Because if she already has a bf and you help her cheat on him, what's to say she won't cheat on you. You're basically telling her her bad behavior is ok. Nevermind the fact that this guy is ruining her relationship cause it's not really his problem, but if he wants to see her it'll become his problem. Withhold and tell her what she's doing isn't cool with you and that you don't want a girl that DLVs that bad. She'll eventually break it off with the bf and then you can do what you want. Time consuming but easy. Think dog training.

I disagree with this statement. I'll explain why.

If you close a girl and she precieves it as a one night stand then you have led her to believe that. If your intentions at the start indicate that you have an interest more than just a one night stand and into a potential long term relationship then that intent should be clear from the get go.

Various outcomes will be handles in different ways. I believe in PUA terms, this is where you set the frame.

From personal experience I have had many healthy relationships stem from sleeping with a woman I have been dating. Before sex, I re-inforce the intention of the outcome. Whether that be one night stand, friends, potential girlfriend etc. Sometimes I don't even say anything and see where it goes.

For me I'm genuine with my emotions and what I feel at any given moment. I normally express these openly and communicate them with the girl.
As for the boyfriend, you do have a valid point that if she cheats on him, she would cheat on you too. However the original poster did state, she was not happy in the relationship and wanted to end things with the boyfriend. She turned to someone who made her happy and one she felt confortable with.

If the girlfriend wants to continue seeing the boyfriend then feel free to make your intentions clear. For me, I have been in a similiar situation, the girl not being happy with her boyfriend. I told her that she can't be seeing two guys at the same time. I stated I will make a commitment to her that I will not see other girls but for this to work, you'll have to do the same. It was an option for her, not forced. I then left it with her. It helped that her friend was showing interest in me alsot. In the end we got together for the remainder of the last summer month (August).

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Are you guys still talking about me?

I have no intentions of getting into a relationship with her. The best we can be is FWB. So chill.

She's only HB6. Also, as Molly noted, she DLV. I don't have any respect for those who cheat on their partners.

I think you're too good for her.

Go find a HB7-8 who's single - there a plenty where I come from (Melbourne, Australia)