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I think you're missing the point. I know exactly who I am and what i like. I'm after some suggestions of what would yeild the best sucess rate besed on a target niche, that is way off my usual style. I'm just wanted some professional opinion by someone who tryed out something similar? What to do, how to dress, what to say, what topics?
that's dependant on you, go test it in the field, one guy can dress like a vampire and get laid like a champ, while another can copy him and not get laid at all, you have to find what works for you
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For example.... So I'm not a Rocker, but if i decide for one night to go to a rock club to meet some rocker babes because i find them hot. We can't really start talking about music, because we probably like totally different kind of music, and i have no clue what she's saying if she starts namedropping bands.
this is why if you want to immerse yourself in the subculture, there's no magic pill, just actually get to know some girls within that subculture and see what they are like and how they act and what social norms they follow, high status is high status, low status is low status, figure out what is ''high status'' in the subculture and do it up, figure out what works for you
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So what would be more sucessfull, me getting to know some bands before or do i pick other topics and try to evade or simplpy ignore the fact that i'm not a rocker. all i know is that I like her style and I like her looks, her personality or anything else? Help me out here? What to focus on if I'm only there for the night?
go meet girls from that subculture and be willing to fail, because you will, again and again and again, and then you will succeed, and it will happen again, as long as you continue learning and improving
your question is like the equivilent of ''should I learn mystery method?, or just go out and approach direct? what will get me a better success rate?'' there is no proper answer that will guarentee you quick effortless results that will certainly increase your success, different girls are different, and different guys are different, what works for one, will not work for another, just try honesty as your first policy, you are interested in XYZ subculture but you don't know anything about it, why don't you take an interest in the girls you are interested in, instead of trying to impress them by either demonstrating your knowledge of the subculture or trying to hide a lack of it
you can ask them questions about themselves and the subculture, what are their favorite bands? what sort of rocker guys do they go for? etc. girls are not robots, they are all different and if you're going to shows or clubs, guarenteed you will have an abundance to talk to in order to find out more about the scene, can't be a specialist when you don't know shit about what you are specializing in, and there is a big difference between being a scene kid and hitting the scene for a few months and reading some internet articles on scene kids,
you are giving this far too much thought, and if the thought of approaching a girl and not ending up having sex with her is devistating, you got to get over that and just meet girls and immerse yourself in them, there is no way to get good results besides being willing to attempt and fail and repeat that process until you learn and improve