I have been unconsciously infected with the one-itis virus or some sort of similar trojan. I don't care if I get with other girls whilst being with her, but I feel the need to communicate with her daily. However, over the recent time period it has become very bland. It was awesome the first two weeks, fucking superb, why I love talking to her, it was actually good fun, but fucking hell is she boring now, what do I do mates.

Problem #1 She flaked when we planned to meet, I drove 3 hrs to LI to meet her, I stayed with friends so I had the craziest a fucking weekend ever so it was well spent, I don't really need her to have a good time, but would have loved for it who wouldnt girls a worldie hb8/9

So mates whats the scoop, what can I do to change the scenario for the better.

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-Raphael

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IMO you're putting two much effort into a girl 3 hours away. I'd freeze her for a while then maybe next time you head to LI shoot her a text saying I'll be in town from blah blah to blah blah, call me if you wanna get a drink.

Then if she calls go, if not, game one of the HB9s you meet having a balling time with your friends anyways.

IMO you're putting two much effort into a girl 3 hours away. I'd freeze her for a while then maybe next time you head to LI shoot her a text saying I'll be in town from blah blah to blah blah, call me if you wanna get a drink.

Then if she calls go, if not, game one of the HB9s you meet having a balling time with your friends anyways.

Simple, go get more girls.

Put this girl into your rotation of girls.

Three hours away? Fuck that I wouldn't meetup with a girl that lived more than thirty mins away unless SHE DROVE to my location.

Bro neither would I but this chick fits all my stuff I look for in girls, except just needs a bit more going on up there but cant all be perfect.

I will def get over her this weekend, just you know how em one-itis get.

Also I went down for my friends not her hahaha, I was like im in the neighborhood get ur ass down her slut, she didnt, haha...

But thanks I just need to get over this and put her back on the back-burner.

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-Raphael

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Here is the problem with one-itis. Most guys show too much neediness, and creep the girl out. If you have one-itis, and you get with the girl and make her your girlfriend, is perfect.

To start with, texting everyday is bad.

Not at all if she's receptive and even initiating. Texting daily can be a great thing particularly because she gets used to you being a part of her daily ritual.

A little off topic, but having a female friend in the areas you travel to is very good for your game/social proof in cities you visit.

I travel often for work and have female friends/FB/FWB in all of them. If I want to have drinks I can get them to hang with me and use them as a bit of social proof. I have one that will even act jealous to help me out (but only if she thinks the girl is cool).

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Crypto although irrelevant I cant not agree more, when I go to places I try and make sure I have female friends, if not I make sure to make a fuck load of female friends for the future. The place I went to, I knew two girls already and I made plenty more that night.

As for one-itis, its a fucking sad world mate, I bloody hate it, and I am the type of guy that will fall for 3 diff girls, emotional I guess is the term. Literally its not that I can't live with out "X" girl, its just I enjoy spending time with "X" girl but I can be without her, but yea I disagree texting everyday can't always be too good. I mean I always elicit a response, what I have been trying to do is have more meaningful conversations, and not just have a spike, spike spike, down, good, spike spike, down etc... type of flow in my conversations. rather good good bad spike bad good good spike good bad good etc...

I just hate the girls in my damn town that are my age bloody boring, I need women but they card so hard here lol

Anyways thanks for the tips I do know I need to relax and not creep. I will work on it.

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

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