*Quick Update*
High school has started again, my 2nd senior year

So yes, i'm still in high school due to the fact that i screwed up my exams pretty badly. So i'm gonna have to work hard on my school from now on. I hope i will pass the exams this time.

So far on the girls, there were a few good looking ones in my class. My friends knows a lot of them so that should be in my advantage at least.

Now i saw that a HB5 friend of mine was talking to this gorgeous HB9 and sitting next to her in some classes. Damn right, i gotta get to that and start hanging out with the HB5 more so that i can reach the HB9. If that works, i might get a heck of a girl!

So yeah, i'm curious what will happen this year, i know that i will have to put up a lot of work into this, in studying as well as pick-up. I gotta set my goals straight agian, and work on them. It's gonna be cool!

Challenge update:
Day 3: Success

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Day 10: 21st August - 23rd 2012
First days of high school already going well

Goals:
- Get to know a few people
- Meet girls and get to know their names
- Become comfortable in class
- Actually make home work this year
Refer to:
- Socializing
- Making new friends
- Finishing high school

Field report:
21st August
Nothing really much happened that day, however some girls i know pretty well have been sitting on the same table during breaks as i'm doing with 2 other guys. So it's 3 guys and about 12 girls to tease with. It's really funny, and everything seems to go well on the teasing part. Perhaps it will help me because of the pre-selection?

22nd August:
A day with only a few hours of classes. Nothing much happened, except at gym class. A cute girl wanted to switch and i teased her of being a bit lazy. She laughed about it, and i showed dominance. Gotta open her up soon, i got her name from a friend of mine.

23rd August:
Yeah today was quite a great day. First a girl i know wanted me to sit next to her during the first class, and we talked a bit, but not too much because the english teacher was always saying that we talked too much

Then, during Dutch class (yep, even dutch students have trouble with dutch grammar) there wasn't enough room for all the students. Because my friend was ill today, the table next to me was empty. 2 girls were a bit late, and the teacher forced them to sit where he wanted them to sit. 1 girl had to sit next to an other girl, and the girl which luckily happens to be the HB9 i mentioned in my quick update was forced to sit next to me. When she sat down, she had an angry look at the teacher. I saw that and I said:"hey don't worry, it's not that bad sitting next to me". When the opportunity was there we talked a bit, and this is what I found out about her:

- Her name was Lisa, and she's 18 years old, still taking driving lessons. She had about 19 lessons up until now.
- She likes shopping very much and goes out every weekend, up until sometimes 6 am! This weekend she goes to the night club which I was going too also!
- She is overall a bit lazy, doesn't really exercises
- About family members: Her father died, and she only has an older brother which is 20 years old and doesn't live home anymore. So she basically is alone with her mother every day.
- She lives about 10-15 minutes driving distance from me.

Basically we chatted up a bit. I told her about the party from last Saturday, that the sister of the girl host was trying to find out everything. She replied: that's how little sisters are! I said: 'No, that's how girls are, you always want to find out everything '. She laughed about it. It was quite cool, but i'm not sure if there was a connection, more casual talk. But hey, I did it anyway. I mentioned my name twice so she wouldn't forget.

I'm also getting to get along with all the guys as well. I'm talking with them, having fun with them. It's almost like nothing has changed, so I going on a good road so far. I'm gonna search for Lisa this Saturday, see if I can catch up with her again.

What have i learnt so far?:
- Even the really hot girls seem to open quite good. Don't fear talking to them!
- Having guy friends works good on your status
- I'm having fun, that's important

Questions to move on:
- No question for me this time.

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Day 11: 25th August 2012
Clubbing alone, yet not in the zone

Goals:
- 10-15 approaches (4-10)
- Apocalypse opener (0/0)
- Kiss Rejection challenge (0/0)
- Teasing, dancing, kino (success)
- If I see Lisa, I will talk to her
Refer to:
- Approach anxiety (it seems i'm still not over it enough)
- Closing
- Having fun
- Physical connection

Field report:
Well, since all my friends were either tired or didn't really have mood to go out. So I went to the local club alone, and i'm happy I did that. Because I know quite some people, I wasn't really alone. However because it was the first time, I wasn't really used to it, and I didn't really feel comfortable for quite some time. I think at least 2 hours till I felt a bit better.

I also felt a bit nauseous because of the fact that I drank a little too much beer mixed with red bull. That hurt my game pretty bad, and I shouldn't have mixed caffeïne with alcohol. Lesson learned.

About the approaches: There were only 4 approaches, with 3 of them quite short, so I couldn't really call it a good night, but yeah I had fun and that's important right? I mentioned the kiss rejection challenge and the apocalypse opener, but 2 challenges at once, that's not good.

3rd Approach which is worth mentioning
The only approach that was good was with a girl named Silvia. I don't even remember how I opened her, it was situational I guess. We talked for about 10 minutes. I complimented her on her purse and she liked it. Then I said: "Nah i was just lying, I can't even see it from here. It was an excuse to flirt with you". She laughed, and I thought I was in. I asked about what kind of sports she did and she said she didn't do anything. When I called her a lazy ass because of that she had to laugh again. She then said: "You don't really know what to say, do you?"(with a smile). Me: "Yeah, but you're laughing so I'm still doing fine" She asked me: "Are you alone here or...? Me: "No i'm here with my best friend" (No emotions and i grab my dick). When she noticed this, she had to laugh for 2 minutes straight!:lol:. Kudos to you skills360 if you read this! After that I was like: ok, now is enough. So I said: "Hey it was nice talking, but i'm gonna go see if i can find my friends back, is there a way we can see each other after this?" Her: "I would but..." (me) "you have a BF". "Yep and the funny thing is that he has the same name as you" . Me: "Well then, you should go for this Marc instead" . "Naah sorry, but i'm gonna stick to my own" (smile). That was my clue that I didn't have any chance so I ejected.

After that I found the group of my brother. There was a guy I didn't know and I talked to him for like 30 mins. I told about my 3rd approach and he had to laugh too. So i'm gonna use that line more. He said: "You should talk with a girl about sports. If she exercises, then you got a good one, you know why? . Me: "No clue needed for that, those are good in bed" . He also told me: "Don't always go for the 2 of 3 sets. Approach big sets with at least 5 girls. That shows confidence." Me: "But what about the cockblocks?" Him: "You should kiss their asses, and keep them happy, then they won't block you!". Lesson learned!

After that I saw sometimes girls standing or sitting alone. I should have approached them but couldn't find an opener. A good one for in the future could be: "awww, you're all alone, you don't even have friends." . I also haven't found Lisa anywhere, even though I walked around the club for like 6 times.

What have I learned last night?:
- Don't mix alcohol with caffeïne, at least in my case.
- In order to not get cockblocked, I should kiss the friends her ass and keep her happy
- Clubbing alone works well, I should do it more often
- The line: "I'm here with my best friend" (grab balls), works as a charm.
- I shouldn't be too excited about going out during the week
- Too many challenges work against you. 1 @ a time.
- In the future, I have to work on approaching big sets.
- By getting friends at high school, I have social proof in the club

Questions to move on:
- How do I kiss the cockblocks their asses?
- Is talking about sports a good way of conversation?

*Challenge update:*
Once again I failed last night. I felt weak because of the alcohol. DAMNIT!
Now i have to start over again!

Wallie

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Day 12: 1st Septembre 2012
Why again?

Goals:
- I was totally unprepared, I didn't make ANY goals
Refer to:
- ......

Field Report:
Is it worth making this field report? YES! Because I have made a big mistake once again, which is going unprepared, without any goals. So that f*cked me up BIG TIME.

I've gone with a few friends to the local club (again..). I wanted to go to a carnival which is 30 mins cycling but none of my friends wanted to cycle that far. And the club entrance was free yesterday.
Yeah, the club only contained 80 people (yes I was able to count them). Including 2 girls from which I know they like me. Even worse offcourse. I danced at the music I liked, but I felt anxious because I was unprepared once again. Bad day, bad night, and when I tried to kiss one of the girls I liked, she hesitated and then sort off backed away.

What have I learnt today?:
- Once again, I can't pick-up when i'm not prepared
- Having girls you know who like you around isn't a good situation.
- I might have to find more exciting friends!

No question to move on.

Wallie

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Challenge 1, still almost impossiblr for me
Why is this literally so hard!

I mean come on, only this week already i fapped 5 fucking times in 3 days. I'm totally killing my desire of sex, fucj this shit. I don't want to fap, i'm so frustrated right now! This shit really makes me angry. It affects my mood, my nights, everything.

I've even feeling the desire of gaming again, another thing that has ruïned me in the past. I gotta get over it, remove it, and forget it.

WHENEVER I FEEL THE DESIRE TO FAP,PLAY VIDEOGAMES OR DO SOME OTHER STUPID STUFF I GOTTA FOCUS ON SOMETHING ELSE AND DISTRACT MYSELF.

So for the fucking sake again, i will start over. I will pass my own challenge, even if it has to take me months.[/u][/i]

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Day 13: 6th September 2012
Short field report, still worth mentioning

Goals:
- Freestyle, no goals here, just highschool stuff
Refer to:
- Being social

Field report:
Alright so a girl had to sit to the left of me with an open studying class. I didn't know her and started talking offcourse. She also had a guy sitting on the left of her and was talking quite a lot with him. I didn't really care about that guy, just being cocky and funny towards the girl, and a bit ignoring the guy. She saw a friend of her about 20 feet away and started texting her friend while hiding the phone for the teacher. I teased her with that, she said I was being rude with a big smile on her face. Yep, cocky/funny.

So we talked a bit about school stuff, having funny conversations, I made her laugh about some things. And she told me about stuff she did with the friend when they were young. It was nice.

During the break between classes I saw her at the Soup machine. So I looked at her until she noticed me, sitting 6 feet away. When she saw me, her smile broke open, and it was a genuine smile, you know with the teeth showing. I waved at her like a baby does to a stranger, and she smiled again. Next week I'll just lead to her to sit next to me again.

What have I learnt?
- Once again, teasing makes the girl frustrated, puts her on the spot, but she likes it IF you do it right.

Challenge 1 update:
I've noticed that in order to control my desire to masturbate, I have to find stuff that distracts me from it. Reading, watching a movie, play games, stuff like that. And getting PM's from you guys gives me motivation, because then I know that not only I am improving, but you guys also learn from the mistakes I make.

My advice:
If you are reading this right now, and you feel like you have not a single clue about how to work around the girls, START A JOURNAL AND APPROACH GIRLS. Because you can read as much material as you want, if you don't PRACTICE, you will never get any further. It's just like a car: you can read 100 hours about how to drive, you can't drive until you start from the beginning, and finish it till the end.

Wallie

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Day 14: 8th September 2012
It seems the approach anxiety is back

Goals:
- Make 5 approaches in the night club (3/5)
- Number or kiss close
- Teasing (didn't really do it)
- Have fun (I really did have that!)
Refer to:
- Approach anxiety
- Socializing
- Teasing

Field report:
So yesterday evening I first had a birthday party from one of my friends and his GF. They invited approximately 30 friends, but I already knew all the people who were there so too bad, couldn't make new friends. It still was cool, and I had a good time there. I wanted to go to the club afterwards, and so I drove by car, took a girl with her BF with me. We talked about elections next week and funny sex stories from what they had. So yeah, i'm progressing in the sex talk. Most of the time I introduce it, and make it a comfortable subject, so that the others start talking about it too and don't feel ashamed.

Around 0:30 a.m. I arrived at the club and started walking around. Saw an old friend from the gym and hung around with him for about 15 mins. Then I started looking for the girl from last Saturday. She stood near 2 guys and 3 girls I didn't know. So I just started dancing with the new girls. When a girl stepped on my foot I said:
"hey, watch out for my titan feet!" (with a smile).
She laughed and said, how big are they then?
Me: "Size 46 (I believe this is 11 in UK?)", you?
Her: "34 (this would be size size 5 or 6?)".
Me: "Then you must be buying your shoes at the children's department".
Her: Laughing and saying: "It's actually true".

There was a fight between two guys. One had a blood all over his face and it really looked disgusting in the girls eyes. So that made me realize fighting is the worst thing to do in a club.

After that I just started dancing, talking to the guys and stuff. They went on a higher block where you can dance so I joined them. After 30 mins I noticed that I was alone on it with a girl and a guy (who seemed like a couple). Which means that I was sort of like the center of attention. First it was kinda weird, but when I started going into dance mode, I felt a hero. When I looked around when dancing, a lot of people were watching me, even though i'm not really that good at dancing. So after 10 mins standing alone, girls joined me. Hell yeah, after another 10 mins, I was surrounded by girls, HOT girls! Girls you would want in your bed for steaming hot sex!

BUT, I felt it again. I didn't warm-up, I didn't do approaches before the dancing, because I hung around too much with the girl who texted me. So then the guys came on the block too, and things started to get crowded. I left the block, without a hip-bump or anything and soon the girls left it too. Damn, I think that was the best opportunity I had that night.

I rejoined the girl who texted me, and she sat next to me. I laid my hand on her leg, and looked her in the eyes. But she was tired, she didn't reciprocate at all, didn't kino back. Crap. A friend of her walked up to her and said; "What's the matter, you see he has interest in you and you don't do anything"! They were discussing a lot, it annoyed me. It was also kinda late, and I felt tired because I didn't sleep that much before the party. Yep, that girl has screwed up her chances with me. There is no way she will get me anymore, f*ck her, i'm gonna ditch this one.

What have I learnt today?
- This was a typical case of one-itis. One girl who f*cked me up.
- Bringing up the sex subject is a natural thing, nothing to be ashamed of.
- You should never fight in the club, NEVER! Only to protect yourself if necessary
- When dancing alone, where EVERYBODY can see it, you don't look silly, you look AMAZING, CONFIDENT. Hell yeah, dance alone and girls join you, if you don't try to be cocky. Just have fun with it.
- I have to work on the approach anxiety once again.
Question to move on:
- Nothing new. Just repetitive stuff.

Wallie

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First things first. This is going to be a long post.

13th September 2012
This PUA has become older!

Yep, Last Thursday I've become 19 years old. And that day was awesome! First I got a hell lot of hand shakes, birthday kisses, congratulations from people at school, friends, parents, people I know. And when I checked my Facebook, at least 50 people had posted something on my wall. An awesome day! My parents gave a permission to give a BIG party this Friday. Pfff, I can't wait till it's Friday!

14th September 2012

Went to a girl with some friends to hang out. Well that didn't go well at all. 40 guys, 7 girls, with 3 girls having a boyfriend. BORING! No worse competition then that!
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Day 15: 15th September 2012
Got drunk, no girl in my trunk! (night game)

Goals:
- 10 approaches (7/10) ( in 2,5 hours time)
- 1 close (0/0: too drunk to even realise I should close)
- Dance on the blocks, alone! (impossible, the blocks were filled with people the whole time!
- Warm up with the same line from day .. ?(dunno which one); hey i've just wanted to say you look nice tonight! --> I ended up with using this as my opener because it works really well.
- Eye contact + kino (I could have done it better)
- Use a situational compliment (too drunk, didn't remember it)
- Have fun! ( I sure had)
Refer to:
- Approach anxiety

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Lmao! good job, i notice you said that for first 2 hours you felt a bit off alone and that is pretty normal, most people at the club feel the same way... So if the club opens at 10pm people start getting there by 11, around 12.30 people get more social.... Hey dude! good job, you are gonna be a beast...


Wallie when you deliver the my grabbing my balls line, you do not rush it, which you did,

hb; who are you here with?

wallie: with my best friend (stop do not grab your balls here WAIT)

Hb: where?

wallie: Now, is when you grab your balls...


Second, opening is NOT IMPORTANT, Is the communication..

Hey girls! how you all doing?

I am wallie...

read body language attitude, keep calm, then say you girls look like fun, and wanted to come and met you or anything situational, situational openers always the best...

The last thing you ever want to talk about women is sports...

Cockblockers just involve the group minimally, then attack the target after passing the hook point... DO NOT KISS ASS, that will come across as try hard.

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Hey, that's solid advice, always usefull. And about that opener, I will use it next time later on, yet she still laughed so it is a solid line for a good laugh. Thanks!

And about the cockblocking; i've already made the thread about it. And you guys gave me good solid advice there too. For those who want to know about dealing with cockblocks, here is the kiss-the-cockblocks-ass-vt144094.html?highlight=

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Day 16: 21st September 2012
Birthday party -> It was 'ok'.

Goals:
- Make my party something to remember -> hmm, well maybe a bad day
- Talking to all the party people around. -> success.
Refer to:
- Socializing

Field report:
First of all, the reason i'm posting this kind of late, is because my laptop is broken this week. And the home computer i'm typing on right now is almost always busy.

Anyway, about the party. The party could be called a success, however it wasn't really a good day to organise it. Because it was a Friday, and most people at my age have to work on the Saturday, they didn't really go wild and stuff. It's ok because nothing broke, but a good amount of energy on a party sure makes it to remember. But I was just too busy with talking with the people (I invited 40+ people, 35 showed up) and keeping the food + drinks available.

I believe about 20 guys and 15 girls showed up. I got on the picture with a few ones, and 1 group photo with 5 girls and me in the middle as profile picture. Got quite some likes from that.

But I didn't score anyone, I think it's because I already know all the girls. However the party was good for my reputation. I should invite other people I don't know next year.

What have I learnt today?
- Hosting a party is good for your reputation.
- You actually can make a profit from it
- Next year I should invite unknown girls from school, work, going out and stuff.
Questions to move on:
- Not really a big opportunity on 'approaching' since I already knew the girls. Most of them also had boyfriends with them.

Wallie

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Day 17: 22nd September 2012
Not it the mood for night game, and faced the cold truth

Goals:
- 10 approaches (5/10)
- Focus on closing!
Refer to:
- Approach anxiety
- Closing

Field report:
I don't know why the night game went miserable, but i think it was because of 2 factors;
- Being tired
- Drinking (I had an empty stomach, a few beers and you're out)

So I wasn't really in the mood for a night game I guess. I made 5 approaches, and all of them failed miserably. The girls weren't receptive. I think it is because my attitude was not genuine, I approached because for me it was a must, not because I wanted to.

So the night was just about hanging around with friends, not doing ANYTHING, and just well, hanging around. Things you can do at home too! A waste of money and a waste of time. I shouldn't go out when being tired or not in the mood.

However I stayed till the end and saw a girl and a guy close to each other. The girl was so DTF, you could almost slip on the ground when walking near her. The way she looked, holding eye contact, playing with her hair, all that stuff. She was very, very horny. In my head I thought, I would get the hell out of here with her and have crazy sex.

But the guy did something different. Instead of making out in public the whole time, he just looked in her eyes the same way. Then coming close to her, and almost kissing her, the lips about 2" from her lips. Then pull back. He used also subtle dance movements, sloooowwww mode. Doing this a few times and BOOM!, she couldn't hold it and kissed him like a maniac. I was suprised! After that she took his hand, and they moved out of the club.

What have I learnt today?
- If i'm not in the mood, I don't focus and that means bad results!
- Using the slow subtle movements is good for attraction and getting in the seducer frame.
- Once again, too much drinks.
Question to move on:
- Well i'm not sure, offcourse this guy was a natural. But the routines he used, would they be effective? (I think it is offcourse).

Wallie

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Day 18: 29th September 2012
Experiencing a loss of motivation

Goals:
- 10 approaches (1/10 -> however I approached a group at a party, including 3 women)
- Kino and Closing -> no real intentions but there was an opportunity, just not a good one
Refer to:
- Approach anxiety; i'm just not getting over it at all
- Socializing: That went well
- Getting results: Nope, nothing

Field report:
I'm glad to say that I can finally post reports again in my journal, since my I couldn't post for a week!

But now back to business. The field report
So around 9:30 pm, I went to my friends' birthday party. He invited some of his college friends to the party (3 girls, 4 guys), I already knew the rest of the people. When his college mates arrived, they just stood in a group, somewhere in the room. I noticed this, and I started looking around. Seriously, not one of my friends had the guts to approach the group, not one of them went in. I was like; really? nobody? then ill do it!

And that's what I did, I walked towards the college guys, I didn't know anyone of them, and said: "Hey guys, looks like we haven't met before". They responded happily, as if like I was the first one outside their group talking to them (This in fact wasn't I found out, they met a few outside, but didn't really talk to them). And I got to know all their names. I learned that to remember a name, you have to repeat it. So if I say I'm Marc, the other guy/girl has to repeat it out loud, then you will remember it. So from all the 7 people, I got to know all 7 of them. And that's great! Lesson learned!

We talked about college, going out, girls, drinking, gym stuff (with the boys offcourse) and many other topics. From what I can remember, I have talked to them more then with my own friends all night. And they were totally fine with that because I was fun and comforting. Guess what? Before I noticed it, my friends came and started talking to them. One of them actually with the guy I was talking with, and sort of put me outside. So yeah, that's kind of annoying when you are having a strong conversation.

Around 12:00 PM I went to the club. I found my brothers' friends and had a great time hanging around with. I danced with the girls, playing around with the guys (they are 5 years older, so what?) and it was cool. Thát cool that I actually forgot to approach other girls.

At around 2.30 AM I went back to the party. There I saw 1 friend making out with one of the girls, I learned that another friend had made out, 2 of the college students were upstairs (probably banging, but my friend said they were tired and sleeping lol) and anóther friend had kissed with one of the college students. Then I realised that perhaps having a girl wasn't that bad. Emotions f*cked me up. Then I went home at 3:30 AM and jerked off.....Damn...

What have I learned today?
- In order to remember a name, you have to repeat it out loud. 1: to make sure you heard it correctly. 2: for a better memory, yes it works!
- Approaching people on a party is totally fine, they actually like it.
- Perhaps I shouldn't ALWAYS focus on getting girls, having fun is great too!

Questions to move on:
- Like, should you always focus on pick-up when going to the club, or sometimes just to have fun?

Wallie

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Day 19: 6th of Octobre
A night of fun..?

Goals:
- HAVE A GOOD ASS NIGHT!
Refer to:
- Nothing really to refer to.

Field report:
Short one:

I had worked for 9,5 hours that day. I was exhausted and slept 3 hours at least when I was home. I went to the club around 12 PM. Anything special happened?

Nope, just dancing around, and I didn't have the intention to pick up girls. So I feel something is wrong. Somehow I don't feel like the motivation is that high. Perhaps because I haven't got success for a lot of weeks, or focused wrong. Something has to happen at least because at the end of the night I had fun but felt needy. So...

What have I learnt today?
- Without motivation, there is no way I can pick up girls
Questions to move on:
......

Wallie

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I like reading your field reports! You should update more often.