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No way dude. When do you talk about looking for the iois before going in ? You always say to go in always you even dissed me for waiting for the iois on the other thread. Where do you talk about the pace changes from the other thread (sexy, violent, soft, love bubble, violent again) just on the other thread you dissed me for it? Where do you talk about a testing ladder and ejection, saying to eject a 9 even that she kisses you but because she won't let you rub her nipples? Im sure you're doing this but your book is all over the place , I told you, you're aren't clear on the steps and the logic behind them. I started doing it in Bucharest about two month ago , before reading your book. Maybe I got some things from it without noticing, point page number and I'll credit you. I'm sure we're doing the same thing but we're wording it differently and seeing it from a different angle. We should have written that thing together man I begged you to let me edit it.
Body language reads /dtf your so call iois(I Did a post on it and i included poetic stuff and sexadict), i have a post on it and is on the book and the videos, i did not diss you i did not understand your other thread re-read it... You just posted my steps anybody can see that follows my posts and is doing my style, the youtube videos, and read the book, maybe is a coincidence, but everything you said exept number 7 is in there broken down and with examples and in way more details than what you just posted, ... or do you want me to post your original stuff??????? i will break down page by page what you just posted, it just too much work to go through 250 plus pages, but i will gladly show you??????lets start with your original dance floor game which i included on the book, if is a coincidence maybe it is just the timing is kind of weird, this is your game a year ago or so i commented in bold faces:
By phangan...
I’m already out every night for the past ten days (and three months before that too), but now I decided to take my dance floor “game investigation” to the next level and just try anything and everything systematically. I’m concentrating on loud club game - 100% non verbal - opening to kiss close.
Very easy to do in club game, easier than regular game. You can even bj close and fclose, very easily.
This is not hard. I’m usually able to pull it off every night, but right now I don’t really have a method. It’s more of a numbers game/luck, and waiting for the AI...not what I would call proper PUA game.
After you come into the club, walk and say hi to everybody, then go to the bathroom. Then go to a place where you can pick and select the girls who are your type and you want to target. Then look at reads, logistics, and timing, with time you will be able to calibrate who will be a waste of time and who has possibilities of going home with you. If they are with guys, or with women celebrating, you know it will be harder.
Here are a few more random things that I observed. I hope to be able to pull everything together into a tight manual within a few weeks.
You know that your body language is alpha when people apologize to you for as little as brushing you and not even touching you. I never had people apologize to me so much as in the last couple of months when I started working on my body language and inner game.
Irrelevant and stupid. Just make sure you do not get lost in the club, and you walk with confidence—head up, chest up, but natural, not fake.
When you are on the dance floor and you take out your cell phone to “check the time” or “see if you received a text message,” it’s a sign that you are throwing yourself out of state and that you are too much in your head, and too conscious of what you’re doing. Catch yourself doing it and stop. It’s a DLV too. If you’re dancing and enjoying yourself there is no reason for you to check your phone every five minutes.
Do not go with your phone to clubs. I like to have the girl give me her phone, and I call my phone and have it as a missed call, or have her work, writing her number down on a napkin from the bar, in addition to which that gives me an excuse to isolate.
Do not go into a “dancing styles imitation” routine with your wing/friends. It’s DLV. You’re just displaying lack of social intelligence. Having fun is all that matters.
You are over-thinking anything fun-related dhv.
Clapping to the music in any shape or form is a DLV. Generally any movement/dancing that you are doing should be smooth/wavy (for lack of a better term). Any sharp movements are a sign of being socially uncomfortable. Relax. Clapping is a type of fidgeting. The same goes for dancing with open palms, when your fingers are all open and spread out fully. It reads like tension. Over-thinking. What is this? Just go out and have fun.
All of this psychology is irrelevant!
More girl IOIs/AI: when a girl is dancing with her friend next to you and turns her back to the friend, she is basically “leaving the friend alone” and signaling you to come over and start dancing with her. When a girl does this, you will have only a few seconds to move in. A girl would never turn her back to her friend with no reason and will not do this for more than a few seconds. You are crazy, over-thinking, dude.
You are like Taylor Dunden, Jr. Wtf?
IODs are easy to read. They girl code to each other: “No” with their eyes (left/right movement), or with the entire head left/right, or will cross their arms, or do “no” with their finger, or just throw their neck sharply from side to side once or twice.
Girls will hug each other, stop dancing, or slow down their dancing, move away, or give you obvious body language signs, verbal or non-verbal, that you are not welcome.
They are not coding you. The girl being hit on is coding her friend that she is not interested, so the friend will know to grab the target’s hand and move her away from you. What they also do sometimes is that the two (or more) girls will put their arms around each other to form a tight circle that you can’t go into. Again, they’re showing you that they are not interested. What I like to do in this case is mirror them and throw my arms around my wing. They then realize that you are socially intelligent and usually start laughing, and it can even open up the set.
Finally, good. Yes, I do something similar. I take my wing, grab him, and give them my back. It’s funny as fuck. They get embarrassed.
The reason they are coding each other and letting the friend do the dirty work of pulling the target away/throwing her arms around the target, etc. is to reduce social embarrassment. It is the friend who is shutting you out, not the target. (Yeah...right). They help us guys “save face,” and maybe they think it’s safer somehow. Yes! Good! Do not let that happen.
Make your target and her wing have fun. Involve them in the dance.
When you move on to a target and she is not showing any IOD, it is an IOI. It means you can move forward. You are “on probation.” She hasn’t made a decision yet.
Good!
Sometimes a girl will cock block and shut you down from your target even if the target is interested. I see this all the time. This often happens when your target is drunk and the friend isn’t, and the friend wants to “protect” her friend from doing something “wrong.” (“Protect,” my ass...it’s usually just jealousy, but sometimes it’s legit.)
Jealousy or a bitch just being stupid. It happens. Good!
I’m not happy with the hit-and-miss/IOI reading/opening every set until one hooks method. There must be a better way.
Social proof, center of attention, good dancer, a lot of women friends. Good game will come with time and experience.
So what I’m working on at the moment is finding a method for “cold” opening sets 100% non-verbally, other than the “throwing a hand forward”/“move in from the back” when receiving the IOIs, AI. I’m trying to find a way to elicit the AI/reduce rejection using push/pull body language.
Do not throw your hand forward. Grab it when it’s Latin and Latin beats or reggaeton. If not Latin, just use body language, positioning, confidence, and dance.
There is the “having wild dance moves while being really energetic and fun” option. This will open almost all sets at all times, but it’s not my style, and I guess not the style of most people, and you can’t sustain it for three to four hours. It also doesn’t work with low-energy sets of snobbish HBs or in a very crowded club.
Sexy dance is the best. Study Ricky Martin, Justin Whatever, Usher, boy bands, male strippers.
I’m playing with creating empty spaces for girls to suck into to increase the IOIs that they give. I’m playing around with body language - frontal/full on dancing with the target for five seconds, then turning my back completely/turning 45° for ten seconds, then going forward again... mixed results. I’m trying to figure out the exact way to do this. As you dance, walk back, then come back.
I don’t know about ten seconds…more like three to five seconds.
Also about burning yourself: In Ibiza they have some of the largest clubs in the world. You can open a hundred sets and never burn yourself. My comments about burning yourself are for small clubs/bars with a small dance area, where if you open one set and get rejected, every girl or most girls will see it. That is why I advise strips of bars and clubs, or moving from club to club.
I am going to three small club/bars. I go to one, then the other, then the other, rotating. I do not know about going out so much that it requires lots of energy. Once you master club game, you will never want to do any other game. It’s just so easy.
CHAT
When the time is right (near closing time, or you feel that the girl is right for it) you just pull her out and start walking to the hotel. If you do the above properly - she will not even ask where / why or anything else, she will just follow you.
and here is why: (not being a dick, just trying to be a little funny)