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 Post subject: Over 35s?
PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 1:10 pm 
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Hi Guys

Reading around the forum and the thing that strikes me is the young age of everybody on here. Unless im looking in the wrong places.

I'm 36 and recently divorced, so getting back in to the game as it were. In my youth I did ok but had no set game.

Whats your opinion on sarging with different age groups? Does it work?

I have a mate who is 27 who we go out with, he is good looking but has no game or banter whatsoever, so the girls come over to him! Im hoping that the skills i am learning are going to help me capitalise on this!


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 1:46 pm 
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There's lots of guys in their 30s on here, me included. Girls like older guys. Sarging with young guys can work as long as they have solid game.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 4:00 pm 
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Thanks for that. Sounds promising. Can't wait to get my game going!


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 4:05 pm 
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Believe it or not, 30 to 38 is prime time for male. That's when a man is by all mean a man, he knows what he want and have enough experience about life to be mature, wise and sophisticated. Women all age want a common thing in men: confidence, the ability to lead and the feeling of being safe. In this case, they would pick a charming older man who has his life together over a horny dog college boy who is still emotional immature and trying to rack up his f-close number, any day.

I've seen countless hot young women ranging from 20 or above with 30s men. If you intend to sarge for girls younger than 20, then the age difference will become a bit of a problem, you will need to build more comfort and attraction before going for f-close, but it is still possible. And oddly I found out that a lot of young women have daddy issue, they then look for someone who reminds them of their dads or possesses the same qualities.

In all, I wouldn't stress about being 36 if I was you, you have the advantage of attracting varies types of demographic, you can game both young and mature women. Unlike someone who is 26 like me, older sophisticated women wouldn't consider a fresh out of college man like me. Just start out with small steps and work on your inner game. Direct and natural game are more suitable for older men. Personally, I wouldn't go with MM or any of those fancy indirect and canned materials.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 4:18 pm 
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Thanks for the confidence booster :0)

I'm open to all age ranges :0) although no preference for under 20 per se.

I guess the other dilemma is pitching my style right. I've never been one for the suit look as my group of mates never have. I went out with work last week and felt good in it. I wonder if this improves chances with younger HBs rather than trying to be ultra trendy and looking like I'm having a midlife crisis!


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Girls wouldnt really care about your age much aslong as you set the frame that your age is higher value than hers. You should find ways to screen out girls who are iffy about the age thing so that you wont waste time. Even those type of girls can be acquired with proper qualification and frame hoops.

About the style, don't go trying to dress all trendy if it isnt your style, instead go for a good combination of casual/formal look. You can never go wrong with a button down, some khakis and dress shoes. You have to feel comfortable with what your wearing and display a good vibe.

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 Post subject: I am 36
PostPosted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 8:51 am 
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I'm 36 and better than ever!

Men get better with age.

Besides the odd wrinkle here and there looks pretty good (on me at least!)

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