Verbally escalate, kino escalate, then fuck her good!

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You can repair this.

That being said, you should try to fix your situation sufficiently that you do not HAVE to fix this (though you still may want to).

Hit on other girls - hang out with a few hot ones. Befriend them, fuck them preferably, doesn't matter.

Don't talk about your feelings. Seriously, until you're actually dating, she doesn't give a damn about them.

As others have said, KINO, KINO, KINO. Light stuff, nothing crazy (unless you've built up to it). Be more sexual in your frame.

OH, and DO NOT TALK ABOUT WANTING TO DO X ACTION. DO THAT ACTION INSTEAD ONCE YOU'VE BUILT UP TO IT.

Saying you want to do something, and then not doing it, is letting her take leadership - I've lost one of the hottest girls I've ever had the chance to fuck, had her number, we were setting up a time for a date, everything, because of it.

Basically, she views you as weaker than her.

I wouldn't respond coldly, or upset at all - honestly, you should just not give a damn. If anything, you can be like "You don't want me? hahaha, ok". Make sure to not come off bitter if you do something like that though. Dismissive is fine, bitter is not.

Basically, anything that shows you are the stronger partner (which means actually BECOMING the stronger partner, because faking it is SUPER hard).

Once you've sufficiently changed your behavior, you could even tell her that attraction is entirely based on what the man does, and that you could seduce her easily. Only do this if you ACTUALLY HAVE CHANGED and you are decent enough with other girls.

And then fuck her. Hard.

I can't believe it. I feel like I'm back into square one.

She came over tonight (was meant to stay the whole night but her mum wouldn't let her).. so we watch a film close as ever (cuddled up, her stroking my chest etc, me doing the same) and as I make it clear that I want to get with her again she almost seems as if she can't make her mind up.

One second she gives me the eyes and I go in but she sort of moves away? Next thing she's gone home..

I'm sitting here absolutely gutted again, I can't believe I'm in this position after last week we were all over eachother. What the hell is going on in her head? I just can't work it out.

Please - any advice on my next moves are really appreciated.. I don't know what to do right now!

I want to stick to her, I need to get with her again or it's going to drive me crazy!

Any advice guys?

Tell her, the next time she is over, that you can't stop yourself from touching her - she's too damn sexy and you're simply not going to take it anymore.

You HAVE to be congruent for this. DO NOT FAKE IT.

Then lean in, kiss her, and whatever she says, FUCK HER.

YOU! Bro are in trouble!! YOU need to pull your balls back down out of your temporary vagina, and step the fuck back away from her, your obsession with this demigoddess has you so mind fucked, you'll NEVER be able to have sex with her! The ivory tower you have placed her on is to tall!! You have coated her with such a thick gold plate, you can never penetrate it! YOU are now to intimidated to get an erection in her presence! YOU built her up to this point but now YOU are to fucking scared!

YOU are now the one, that needs to knock her the fuck off that tower and crack that shell!!

But I don't think you will ever try, always afraid you'll disappoint her, if you don't do every thing she wishes, afraid she won't like you anymore. Your mind is telling you, SHITTY interaction with her, is better than NONE!

YOU have relinquished, all other women, all other fantasies, most all other THOUGHT at all!


RUN Bro run! cut her out CLEAN or send all your days and nights for eternity chasing fucking VAPOR!

She is not the only woman on this fucking planet, in fact most of the other ones are waiting to FUCK YOU!

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It has completely got me mind fucked! There's no 2 ways about it! But she got with me? And it wasn't just like it is when you usually get with someone, it was much more into it as if we were in a relationship, that's what gets on my nerves. I wouldn't be half as fussed otherwise. It'd be clear that she just wants a fuck buddy if that was the case.

I had an argument with her the other day, I told her to stop fucking me about and make her mind up what's going on. I asked her if she feels weird around me or something and she said "Maybe I do.. but I don't know why, we are just so much closer". I asked if it was to do with the fact that we got with each other and she said no. She says she can't make her mind up about her feelings..

So she's just keeping her options open with me and this other guy right?..

I'm at the point where I'm just so frustrated about it all that I'm going to snap again soon. I told her that if she ever wants to meet again she has to be the one to ask me, she has to be the one to text me, so she got really upset about it all.

On the good side of things I found out why she didn't stay the other night: She's on her special time.. so I guess she knew I'd try it on huh?

I am proud of you Bro, You stood up to the bullshit!

Now stand your ground! It's a good day to be a MAN!
You have got her emotional, and trying to rationalize...

She is on her "Special time" good timing for emotional thinking, wondering what the hell your up to while your not in contact with her. In a short time she will be dying to find out

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Fucking genius, honestly. I really believe that THIS would help a lot of guys get out of the friend zone.

Best method to pull a three way ever!

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So what should my next move be?

Hey guys - long time eh?

A hell of a lot has happened with this girl since I was last on here..
My last post was what? September 19th? Crazy. Hope you all had a good holiday and what-not.

So.. Where do I start? September 19th I was in a bit of a situation about everything with this girl.. but I shook off any of that doubt by getting with her again later that same week

Everything was going great for a while! We were seeing each-other on and off and I was in an extremely happy place. We even went away together for a weekend in November.. which was brilliant. Little did I know the day I got back I was told "you know she's been fucking (enter name here) for the past month right?"... wow.

It all went to shit. Me and her fell out, I confessed that I liked her.. she said that she HAD liked me but I never showed enough interest etc.. such a load of bollocks. I really got played like a fool with this girl.. overall I spent like £250 on her, which is like $280 to you US folk. I even got her a birthday present. Me and her really fell out.. we didn't stop talking, but we stopped everything we did that made us close. Which was really gutting for me.. It fucked me up real-good.

Then we get to the new year - I had a great night New Year's Eve out with mates.. but woke up to "(enter name) is in a relationship with (guy she'd been fucking behind my back)". I was absolutely gutted. I sent her the worst text I could possibly imagine sending to ANYONE ever. It was soul-destroying.. literally - I threw everything I had at her.. just lost it completely. She never replied.

Then it all stopped. For a month exactly we never said a word, it was awkward as hell at work... I gave her dirty looks constantly, until one evening she text me.. it said how she missed me and how we needed to sort it all out. I guess you could say I gave in.. We met up to talk and she must have cried the whole time.. it was pretty painful.. she denied everything, she said she hadn't been fucking this guy for a month whilst she was seeing me and that she only started things with him once she had stopped with me. Bullshit.

Right now? We're still talking. She's still with this guy. I still want her (like the fool I am). And I'm going to dinner with her in a few nights... I'm not really sure what I'm doing anymore. This girl has a boyfriend yet I'm still meeting her.. she's still flirting with me and trying to impress me.. Who knows?

Sorry for the long post.. it should really be longer as there is SO MUCH more happened, but I wanted to keep it as short as I could. So yeah - she screwed me over pretty good. You guys were totally right - I built her up far too much. And she's still built up now... I just can't seem to get over it!

Oh and by the way - the guy she's with now ISN'T the guy she was seeing before. It's someone completely different!

So you like a chick that lots of different dudes are banging? That's hardly fucked up!
It's also strange that you think there is only one sloppy whore on this planet that you have a chance with?

Well at least if you do bang her she should be good and lubed up, better wear two condoms!

I do have a pretty good idea why she is seeking you out again, I'm guessing she needs new tires on her car or some shit!

Is your name Matt? Because you should be in front of a door!

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Made me laugh. Saying I should leave it?