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PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2012 12:56 pm 
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Okay but consider this:

You have had quite some beers, bacardi's or whatever. Then you are that highly confident social guy who's perhaps funnier then you normally would ever be.

Now you pull of that hot girl and even go on a date with her. BUT then you're maybe less confident, less funny, or anything that you're not when you're drunk. That's not the type of guy she was attracted to, so that means you were 'acting' (between ".." means that you can't help it) and not really YOU. And then perhaps she flakes.

Now i'm not saying that you can't get a girlfriend when meeting her drunk the first time, but this is what could happen. I've heard lots of stories from guys who met their GF drunk the first time.

My main point is: You can't always be drunk to game girls. If you have to be drunk to game them, then you really need a confidence boost, because you can't always be drunk. It's also bad for your health to drink so much alcohol. Once in a while is ok, I do that too. But i'm doing that for fun, not to get the girls.

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Okay but consider this:

You have had quite some beers, bacardi's or whatever. Then you are that highly confident social guy who's perhaps funnier then you normally would ever be.

Now you pull of that hot girl and even go on a date with her. BUT then you're maybe less confident, less funny, or anything that you're not when you're drunk. That's not the type of guy she was attracted to, so that means you were 'acting' (between ".." means that you can't help it) and not really YOU. And then perhaps she flakes.

Now i'm not saying that you can't get a girlfriend when meeting her drunk the first time, but this is what could happen. I've heard lots of stories from guys who met their GF drunk the first time.

My main point is: You can't always be drunk to game girls. If you have to be drunk to game them, then you really need a confidence boost, because you can't always be drunk. It's also bad for your health to drink so much alcohol. Once in a while is ok, I do that too. But i'm doing that for fun, not to get the girls.

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- If you see a cutie in yoga pants, APPROACH IMMEDIATELY. These chicks are wearing yoga pants to show off their ass. Also, them seem to be easier lays. Obviously an exception is if their going or coming from yoga class.

- Shoe lifts are magical for short guys

- Don't waste time on uninterested women. While it could be possible to get her to like you after to expend a bunch of time and energy into her its still not likely. Approach someone else!

- Move girls around... A LOT. Movement furthers both investment and compliance.

- Dont relay on the date itself to be fun. Rely on YOU to make the date fun.

- Touch women like a man. Touching her elbow and playing thumb war isn't going to turn her on.

- When it comes to texting, less is more. Keep it simple.

- Sexual eye contact will make most women wet.

- Statements are better than questions. For example, "I bet your a law student" is better than "what do you do?"

- Your ex is your ex for a reason. Leave it that way.

- Its better to move to fast than to move to slow. Wait to long to make a move and she will loose interest.

- "If shes wearing red shes ready to be taken to bed." There is much truth to that statement.

- You dont ever have to respond to anything a woman says. You can ignore it and change the subject.

- Make your first date on Mon - Thur.

- Seduction is not a battle between you and her. Its a partnership. Your both working towards the same goal. Remember that.

- Have fun. If your not having fun do something else.
These are the ones I can personally give stories about. This list is true stuff.


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- If you see a cutie in yoga pants, APPROACH IMMEDIATELY. These chicks are wearing yoga pants to show off their ass. Also, them seem to be easier lays. Obviously an exception is if their going or coming from yoga class.

- Shoe lifts are magical for short guys

- Don't waste time on uninterested women. While it could be possible to get her to like you after to expend a bunch of time and energy into her its still not likely. Approach someone else!

- Move girls around... A LOT. Movement furthers both investment and compliance.

- Dont relay on the date itself to be fun. Rely on YOU to make the date fun.

- Touch women like a man. Touching her elbow and playing thumb war isn't going to turn her on.

- When it comes to texting, less is more. Keep it simple.

- Sexual eye contact will make most women wet.

- Statements are better than questions. For example, "I bet your a law student" is better than "what do you do?"

- Your ex is your ex for a reason. Leave it that way.

- Its better to move to fast than to move to slow. Wait to long to make a move and she will loose interest.

- "If shes wearing red shes ready to be taken to bed." There is much truth to that statement.

- You dont ever have to respond to anything a woman says. You can ignore it and change the subject.

- Make your first date on Mon - Thur.

- Seduction is not a battle between you and her. Its a partnership. Your both working towards the same goal. Remember that.

- Have fun. If your not having fun do something else.
These are the ones I can personally give stories about. This list is true stuff.
please care to explain how this one is true: - "If shes wearing red shes ready to be taken to bed." There is much truth to that statement.

I just wanna see evidence for it then Ill happily accept it and focus on the reds next time I go out! :)

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Some studies have shown than when women are horny they are more likely to wear red than any other color.

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Some studies have shown than when women are horny they are more likely to wear red than any other color.
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- Its better to move to fast than to move to slow. Wait to long to make a move and she will loose interest.

"I've heard that haste can be folly, but I have never seen delay that was wise." - Sun Tzu, 'The Art of War'.

Do not interpret this to mean that you should rush into things. Comfort and rapport must be built with a girl if you are interested in a LTR. If you're picking up girls for a one night stand, escalation should happen at a relatively fast pace. If you're looking to actually DATE a girl and move into a relationship, my personal opinion is that you should kino escalate by the 1st or 2nd date, but do not be in a rush to get into her pants until after 3-5 dates, unless she specifically signals you otherwise.

When you've built enough attraction, you will KNOW when she's ready to fuck. Sometimes this is 1st-3rd date, sometimes it takes a month or two of seeing the girl on a weekly basis. But when a woman is ready to be taken, there won't be any resistance.

This is my experience/opinion, anyway.


Edit: Great list by the way.

And to the guy who questions "Red = take to bed".

Red attracts more attention, but it is also a power color and is worn by women who

1. confident
2. seek attention

A confident woman who wants the attention of members of the opposite sex wants that attention because they want to fuck men. Red stands out. Women who are not DTF do not want to stand out or draw the attention of multiple members of the opposite sex.


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Love the list however the main tips missing that some people still don't get

36. Dress in trendy clean clothes/hair style (it will increase your attractiveness)

37. Remember condoms

I have seen guys who are great at pickup sarge in shit clothes that is a DLV to girls but they still pick up because of their solid game, however they could increase their chances with better style/clothes (IE: Indie is in fashion SPAM and chicks love it)

DUDE IM PICKING UP DO YOU HAVE A CONDOM!?!?!? don't be that guy


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36. Dress in trendy clean clothes/hair style (it will increase your attractiveness)


I have seen guys who are great at pickup sarge in shit clothes that is a DLV to girls but they still pick up because of their solid game, however they could increase their chances with better style/clothes (IE: Indie is in fashion SPAM and chicks love it)
Do NOT do this. Do not be a trendy faggot just because you want to pick up women. It's likely not going to be worth it and it shows you lower yourself to women, something this forum BERATES. Don't dress like as asshole, or wear something too small, just wear something respectable.


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36. Dress in trendy clean clothes/hair style (it will increase your attractiveness)


I have seen guys who are great at pickup sarge in shit clothes that is a DLV to girls but they still pick up because of their solid game, however they could increase their chances with better style/clothes (IE: Indie is in fashion SPAM and chicks love it)

Do NOT do this. Do not be a trendy faggot just because you want to pick up women. It's likely not going to be worth it and it shows you lower yourself to women, something this forum BERATES. Don't dress like as asshole, or wear something too small, just wear something respectable.
Girls compliment me now on how i dress - most guys do not keep up with fashion, 10-20% do so you are being set apart by being in trendy clothes/looking good.

Wearing something respectable is the same thing, as David D said (and im paraphrasing) 'be yourself, but be your BEST self' IE show women the best sides of you, including you can dress yourself.

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yea be yourself, not everyone else. unless of course, you are everybody else. I just don't agree with you.


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# 37: Age doesn't matter.

Proof? Who needs proof for that. Everybody knows at least 1 person with a boyfriend/girlfriend who is way older/younger.

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- Most guys HIGHLY over use "cocky and funny." Less is often more.

I do have this problem. I'm not usually outcome dependent with it, but I could definitely tone it down a bit sometimes.

Good list.

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love this list, will read it numerous times


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i agree with xasthur.

I never dress trendy like everyone else does.

I dont feel comfortable trying to fit into everyone elses fashion.

just dress however feels comfortable to you.

If you feel comfortable and confident in how you look, chicks will notice that. Thats the most important thing.

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