I know I literally posted my Introductory Post on this forum today, but I thought I'd tell a quick story that happend this last friday.

I was out with a couple of girl "friends" from work and had a good time dancing. Towards the end of the night I got enough liquid courage in me to ask a girl i saw dancing by herself if she'd dance with me... She did, and we synced well out there, but she was a little drunk and on occasion tipping over....

We got into a little small talk and she asked me a few questions, to be honest I don't even remember what we talked about. I couldn't even remember her name... But I managed to get her number right before I left the club.

The next morning I decided to text her to get some attention. (I know, needy, right?).. I said "You dance ok for a drunk girl. How are you feelin'?"

Her: "Who is this?"

Me: "most call me so and so, what's yours" --- Immdiately i thought to myself, WHAT the FUCK who says that?...

Her: Deandra... I'm sorry I gave you my phone number. I don't know why I did, I have a boyfriend... But, your cool though."

Me: "Ok, no apologies needed I'll delete you now"

Her: "But, your cool though"

Me: "lol"

I immediately deleted her number without thoroughly thinking it through. My first thought was, "but i'm cool though??? dork". She was HB7, but I didn't want to annoy her with drunken texts that night so I followed through with deleting the her number.

SHould I have deleted the number? What could I have said, if anything, to continue business as usual? I'm just trying to figure out if this could have played out differently.

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This is just another example of why phone numbers should not be seen as goals in themselves. There are many situations where a person will give someone their phone number without it meaning anything. Being drunk is certainly one of them. The question should always be whether you've created enough of a connection for them to care when you use that number. If not, it's just a cheap thrill for a beginner with nothing really to come from it.

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Point well taken.

Thanks man.

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Sincerely,

Sails