Sometimes in game there's this rival between canned material vs. Being yourself. Now I'll go ahead and say, Yes, you should use canned material at first then, you can introduce yourself little by little.

But here's something not many people discuss: how should you act? What are mannerisms and words, and actions you should avoid. What are things you shouldn't do? Example: Use words like, "I guess" or let someone talk down to you, have poor body language. Being boring. Listening to her problems. You can become friend zoned that way.

Just be congruent... if I am in "state" or just in a good frame, I dont care what I say, cause it's what I want. Same as telling a joke, sometimes jokes are fucking horrible, but if your in state, and you think its funny a lot of the time you will see the girl laugh, its not the joke, its the state of frame.

Relax and be in the moment, when your in set, a good tip i got was dont worry about game, worry after the set. Dont actually worry but critique and adjust for the next set.

That is how you learn.

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Read The Attraction Code. It focuses very much on intention and being unapologetic. Confidence arises out of focus on your intention and thus sets your frame strongly. You will forget about this whole "Hhow should I act, what should I do" thing and you will just be and focus on your intent, subconsciously expressing yourself.

When I first started out I wrote down ten pitfalls to avoid. It was everything from things not to wear as well as things not to say or reveal about myself. It was basically a way to avoid DLV'ing myself.

For the most part you can get by just being yourself. Most of us are inherently well-adjusted, social people and we can interact with females and the general public in a normal, amicable way. It's just that sometimes our idiosyncracies will manifest themselves and we come across as weird or undesireable. If you specifically avoid and eliminate DLV and instead focus on DHV, then you will not only fit right in, but you'll have a slight advantage over those who are not concientious enough to do that themselves.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn